Question Posted Saturday November 20 2004, 7:42 am
Ok so me and my boyfriend broke up like over 5 months ago and after that things just went downhill with our friendship, i mean i tried staying friends with him n talking to him but he didnt seem to want to. So like over the past week everytime I see him, I always get a hug and he's always talking to me in the halls. Then I was at my friends house and he just randomly showed up. I thought I was over him, since he never talked to me but now that he's talking to me and being all nice, I can't stop thinking about our past. I dont know what to do.
houdini07 answered Saturday November 20 2004, 6:56 pm: ok, you have to ask yourself, " why did we break up?" if you see the reason you broke up could occur again, drop him. no matter what your feelings are, never set yourself up for heartbreak. [ houdini07's advice column | Ask houdini07 A Question ]
rice06 answered Saturday November 20 2004, 3:10 pm: Well, maybe you don't like him, and this is just your reaction to him talking to you. You're probably so excited that he just started talking to you again, so you think you like him. But maybe you do like him...who broke up with who?
But anyway, if you really think you like him you should talk to him about it. If you're getting a lot of hugs then your chances are good! Good Luck! [ rice06's advice column | Ask rice06 A Question ]
sullivanstreet answered Saturday November 20 2004, 2:00 pm: I dont think that you should stop thinking about your past. If you really liked going out with him then maybe you should try to start that up again since it would be harder to forget about him. Hope I helped, good luck! [ sullivanstreet's advice column | Ask sullivanstreet A Question ]
xoSsAaMm answered Saturday November 20 2004, 1:50 pm: seems to me like he still likes you. he probably didn't talk to you at first bc it was akward for him since you broke up. and it sounds like if your thinking about your past together, then maybe you still like him to. i'd keep talking to eachother, and hang out etc. and see if you start to have strong feelings for eachother again. this is one of those things where you just have to wait and see what happens. [ xoSsAaMm's advice column | Ask xoSsAaMm A Question ]
LoLo2454 answered Saturday November 20 2004, 10:58 am: Well, considering the fact that he has been the one initiating the convos and all then maybe he likes you again. Talk it over with him. Never hurts. and you donthave to be obvious about it either. Just start talking to him and once you have been talking for awhile just ask who he likes. Something like that. Im still trying to figure out my current situation as well :P Hope i helped and good luck! Tell me how it goes :)
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