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On Monday I broke up with my boyfriend that I had been with for almost 9 months. Sunday would've marked 9 months. Anyways, I really love him but I think he deserves someone better. We both knew we'd end up together in the end. Well yesterday we were talking and my friend told me that he told her that he wanted to get back with me so bad but he didn't think I wanted to get back with him. So I told him that I wanted to get back with him more than anything. This was all on the net so he told me that I would have to ask him out in person, which I was planning on doing anyway. Well last night we were happy and we were talking and he said he didn't know whether or not he wanted to get back with me because when we're together we're one and he has no control over his life. I said "I get it.. I'll go" and he said bye forever. He didn't even try to stop me. I told him I was going to do something really bad and he said he wouldn't feel guilty about it. A bunch of things were said between each of us and he ended up saying he wanted to talk to me just not then and he knew we'd end up together in the end. I just don't know what to do. Should I just stop talking to him and try to forget him (impossible), or should I wait? I need help. He was my last hope and last night after we stopped talking I cut myself and OD'd. I'm sorry it's so long but someone please tell me what to do.
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Well don't cut your self over someone who you love and something bad happens.Is there anyway maybe you could talk to someone close to you about this problem?Cause that totally helps.I know completely how its feels and where your commin from.
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Well you shouldnt put pity on yourself. By saying your going to do something bad. But if he isnt willing to talk about it.. then i think he isnt worth it. But i would talk to him and tell him how you feel
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If hes hurting you then count him as an ass. He's not worth if he makes you want to put your life at risk. Dont try to suicide. It DOESNT help. You only get hurt. I suggest, if he gets better and doesnt try to hurt you, ask him if you can just be friends. You will both feel comfortable and happy...and wont need to suicide...^^
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You may think you love this guy, but if he's hurting you to the point that you want to put your life in danger, then hunny he is soo not worth it. Especially when you told him that you were gonna do bad stuff and he didnt even try to stop you. That right there proves that all of the time you spend on him isnt worth it. You need to get bak out there and find a real guy who treats you right and wont be playing games with your mind. The worst thing a guy can do is play games with you. In the end he will figure out wat a great gurl he gave up and then you will have the opportunity to walk out of his life forever and never look bak!
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You should never hurt yourself over a guy. I know you love him, but the relationship that you have just isn't worth it if you're hurting yourself because of it. If things work out in the end, then that's good, but don't worry if it doesn't, because there's someone else out there waiting for you. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
~*Erin*~
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you should never let a guy make it a reason to mutilate yourself you know its bad i mean you could have hit a vein ok? talk to him explain things about why you still love him and if you think that you love him alot then you should wait for him but dont put your whole life on hold if he doesnt want you back
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Listen hun.. your to good for him!! dont hurt yourself over a guy.. even tho you love him hes not worth it.. give it time.. if its meant to be then it will be.. and if its not then that means your soul mate is still out there!! please dont hurt yourself again! and if you decide to please email me and talk to me!! im here for you!!baby_dawl55@hotmail.com
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