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A long distance relationship
I have a friend that lives quite a way away from me in a different state. We really enjoyed being together at a summer camp, and I really want to stay in touch with her, and "snail mail" goes so slowly. I don't want my parents to find out that I'm constantly sending letters, because she'll think I'm crazy and that I like her and stuff and she'll tell everyone that I know and mess up my life... I know I'm a guy, but how can I just let this be a friendship without people thinkin' I'm serious because I'm not? Thanx in advance!
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why dont you guys talk online and email eachother? email is so fast and friendly lol
talk to her over the phone, if you dont want your mom to know, you can buy a long distance card from a store and call her with that. lol but i think it'd be cool if you told your mom...that it was a FRIEND
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Do ya' have AIM? It's great for stuff like that. Talking on the phone can seem like you guys have a thing, but AIM doesn't. And it's more private than phones/snail mail. E-mail is good too.
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Well i dont know why'd they get that idea anyways.. i know i wouldnt and im a 15 yr old girl. But whatever just make a point thatyou dont like her say what you want and hopefully they'll believe you
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umm...i think i understand what your question is ...but i don't understand what in the world "Snail mail" is exactally... but umm i am sure that who ever "SHE" is won't ruin your life... i say tell who ever you think is going to ruin your life ahead of time... but don't just go up and tell them "oh hey i met this girl at camp and i am sending her letters, but i don't like her so don't tell people"...YA DONt DO THAT...sort of like have a conversation about your summer camp with that person... then as your talking just sort of tell them a casual as possible... something like this... "ya camp was so fun i met a lot of people there... ya i met this girl there she was so cool... ya we have been talking everyonce and a while...i can't wait to see again next summer"... you could try something like that... and besides it is normal for friends to mail each other all the time...i met this girl up at my cottage and we would only get to chill on the weekends over the summer... and her and i mail stuff to each other all the time and my friends know about it and no one really seems to care... so i say don't worry about it... and don't get all nervous when someone asks you about this girl... just tell them that she is one of yoru friends from summer camp i am sure they will understand...sry if i got a little to wordy there...i hope it makes sense.... OH I THINK I MIGHT HAVE ANSWERED QUESTION WRONG SO GET BACK TO ME IF YOU STILL NEED ADVICE ON IT I WOULD BE HAPPY TO HELP...
kev
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Well if she really is a true friend then you should tell her not to say anything and if she doesn't listen to you then that means that she's not a good friend and you could do a lot better.As far as your friends same thing if they can't believe you then they aren't the right kinda friends for you cause a friendship needs to have trust in there and to me t doesn't seem like there is any if your friends can't believ you.Good luck in your advice and if you want to talk more leave things in my inbox.
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