Okay. My friend told me something not to tell anyone. I accidentally told someone though, like it slipped out. She won't talk to me and she told me to tell the person I was kidding and I was just wondering, so I did and now shes like "you're crazy, you're insane" crap like that and it's really annoying but I don't know how to deal with it, because we were really good friends, and I would think she would have been more mature about something like that. Anyway, my question is what should i do about it, there is no way she is gonna let me have my say and tell her what happened and she won't even talk to me. How should I handle this?
MyPainIsReal answered Friday December 17 2004, 6:34 pm: I have had this happen before. If you are true friends you can work this out somehow. She can't stay mad at you forever over that. Especially if you just tell the other person you were kidding. Does this friend have internet? E-mail her perhaps or write her a note since she won't talk to you. Let her know you value this friendship and that was a one time thing and how you feel and such. You guys can work this out easily. My friend and I did. If she still doesn't talk to you then shes being a little immature about it. Somehow, if you can, try and confront her in person. Do anything you can to try and talk to her about it without looking desperate or anything. Good luck <3 [ MyPainIsReal's advice column | Ask MyPainIsReal A Question ]
cntrygrl2010 answered Friday December 17 2004, 5:19 pm: ok. It was kinda wrong to tell your friends secret if she told you not to tell anyone. But now that you have and she's mad you should do something. Try talking to her about it even if she won't listen keep trying. Friendships are hard but that's what is strong about it. Just be honest with your friend and tell her your sorry.
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pinayprodigy answered Friday December 17 2004, 4:18 pm: If she's really your friend then she'll understand so she'll come around.maybe if you talk to her a little bit more than she'll listen to you and lighten up.If it doesn't work out go to my column and personally ask me about it.Happy Holidays [ pinayprodigy's advice column | Ask pinayprodigy A Question ]
lildesidevil143 answered Friday December 17 2004, 4:16 pm: You need to confront her and tell her that you never meant to tell anybody and that it slipped out. Tell her that your VERY sorry and you hate it that she's mad at you. Then if she's like ok but she still doesn't tell you anything understand that she needs some time before she can tell you anything, then work your way up to being her best friend again
hope this helps!
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Sweetmiss16 answered Friday December 17 2004, 4:11 pm: Well...if you guys were really good friends, then she will eventually forgive you...there is no way someone could just forget about their best friend. For the time being though, Just stay nice, but if you try to talk to her, act normal. dont say anything about what happend and even if she is mean to you, keep talking to her...she'll get over it. Thats what us girls do! we get over it! Hope i Helped!
x0x_Unfabulous answered Friday December 17 2004, 3:37 pm: Heyy,
I'm guessing that this happened during school...so seeing as you already tried to talk to her and she wouldn't listen to you...then you should write her a note...explaining to her what happened...and have a friend deliever it to her...if she was really your friend...then she will listen to you...or at least understand where you are coming from...Hope i helped
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