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Sick of it. Please read I m desprate!!
Ok i moved 2 months ago into an apt so I can build a house. But my dad is getting on my last nerves. Hes really my step dad. I even asked my mom to let me find my real dad and let me move with him. I am sooo sick and tired. I am gonna run away if it dont stop. Plus he makes fun of all my poor friends. I hate him. I have a friend whos mom isnt the best and he just talks and talks terrible. I am really skinnby and when I eat alot he will yell the name of my fat friends. Hes a hippocrite!!!!. I am so so so tired of him!!
what do I do?????????
please help1 I will give you a 5. Please I am desprate in need!
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ok you have to talk to him he has no right to talk about your friends like that especially if it is not there fault whether it is wieght or money issues. i would defitly confront.
hope he gets the point
Luv Britt
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Talk to your step dad about it. Tell him you dont like it when he acts like that. He has no right to tease your friends. They are not his friends, and even if they were his friends he still shouldnt tease them. What he says is what he is. Also, when he says something bad tell him 'What you say is what you are'. But ::WARNING:: It doesnt work on all parents. You can try it but I dont know how he will react ince I never met him. I hope I helped!
~AnA~
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Okay, this guy seems like BIG jerk! If you are really getting annoyed at him, your need to discuss matters with your mom. If you tell her EXACTLY whats on your mind, I am sure she will understand. I mean, whats to lose? You might as well meet your real dad. Maybe, you could even confront your stepdad and tell him that it makes you feel uncomfortable when he makes fun of your friends, or such things. My family has had some bumpy moments too... we havent always been happy with eachother or eachothers friends. You need to do whats right for YOU! If you spend your whole life not doing anything becuz you arent allowed, or it wouldnt make anyone but you happy, you wont be able to do anything for yourself! If your mom still disagrees with you meeting your dad, ask for an explanation why. Who knows, your mom may have a calling for men like your stepdad, and wouldnt feel comfortable with you living with your dad without her. If she doesnt tell you, or says "oh, idk" subtly ask for clues in reseerch...whats his last name? his moms maiden name? and such questions that would help you in a search for him. But you have to consider ALL possibilities of your father! I hope I helped!
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Erica
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Don't run away...trust me you would rather live like you are then run away...but ok you need to tell your mom what he does or get help or an adult you can trust and tell them that your dad is being like that and that he yells at you. The more you yell at them the more he will yell back you need to make your mom understand that with those circumstances you can't live with them. you need to try and make BOTH of them understand.
hope i help
lildesidevil143
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There isnt really anything you can really do except tolerate it or tell you step dad how you really feel. This way when he yells at you and you yell at him back he'll know that you two are now fighting on the same level and that you arent afraid of him. Just make sure it doesnt ge too out of hand. Just try and resovle your differences.
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Don't run away..sit your mom, your stepdad, or both of them down and talk to them about what's going on. Your stepdad is probably just trying to make you laugh or something, because he wants you to like him. He probably doesn't realize it's hurting you. Best of luck!
Hope I helped!
~*Erin*~
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I am very avid in standing up against injustice. If your mother knows about it and does nothing, I think thats the time you put matters in your own hands. If your mother does ntohing to stop it, stand up to him next time he sasses off to you. No one should be treated like that...its long shot to be brave in a situation like that, but defending yourself I think would be the best option than just letting it slide and being angry about it.
If that doesnt work, which its a log shot to begin with...ignore him. Dont say a word to him. Is he just verbally abusive towards you, or does he treat your mom that way too?
DONT run away though.
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