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I wanna fall back in love......
My ex boyfriend used to tell me he loved me and that I am beautiful even after we broke up...he loved me more than anyone and anything in this whole world. he told me that I was the only thing that matterd to him and that I was the only good thing in his life. and I know what his life is like, and believe me...its TERRIBLE. Anyways, I was to stupid to see how much he really meant what he was saying. and everyone else was telling me that I mean the world to him and I wouldnt believe it. But now I understand. And I want to fall BACK in love with him. I was in love with him once...at least i think i was..it didnt last very long. ive had a thing for my other ex 4 a LONG time and he came back into my life and I up and left the first guy for him. But now I want to fall back into love with him and I dont know how. I mean I love him, but I'm not in love with him. How can I fall in love with him again?
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You can't make yourself fall in love with someone. I think you just want someone who loves you. You might not actually want to be in love with him exactly, but just in love with someone who loves you. I mean I guess you can try to go out with him again and see how it turns out, but I doubt anything will come of it.
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ok , go out with him again, and just give it time to like, you know that you will like it when you go back out, but then later on if you dont like it anymore, just hang on, think about how much you wanted to fall back in love with him, and just hope u stay in love with him
i tried my best to help
casue i have had the same thing happen to me
-sheila
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You can't fall back in love with him by force. Forcing love has a bad effect on a relationship. Try talking to him again and maybe ask him to be your boyfriend again. Get reaquainted with eachother and keep talking. And also, you said "I was in love with him once...at least i think i was" If you think you were in love with him then you really weren't. You'll KNOW when you're in love. It's hard to explain what it feels like but I'll tell you it's a beautiful feeling. Talk to him again, date him again if possible. It sounds like he still wants to be with you. Admit that you made a mistake and want to be with him again. If you two end up dating again, take things from there and who knows, maybe you will fall in love with him. Hope this helped.
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i am sorry to say, but you make make your self fall in love with someone.
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First of all, you cannot force yourself to love someone. Just start seeing him again. Explain to him what is going on, i.e. "I don't want to say anything I don't mean. I do like you, but ever since we broke up I haven't felt that strongly. Please just give me time." The more time you spend with him, hopefully, the more time you want to be with him. It sounds simplistic, but its difficult. I did this with my current boyfriend, and we have been dating a year since I said "I love you" again. I had to get the guy I was dating out of my life (he should have been long gone), and I wanted to feel like I used to feel before he dumped me. Of course, he had been chasing me for a few years, but finally I conceded to start dating. It took several months, but it happened. Just let him know that you care, and be patient.
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