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"F*ck Buddies"


Question Posted Friday December 17 2004, 12:34 am

okay i was going out with this guy for about 2 yrs.. and then he broke up with me because i was always lieing to him (which was very bad thing for me to do.. and i regret doing it!!) i tell him all the time how im sorry and i want to get back with him because i love him. and he just says he doesnt want to get hurt again but he still feels a great deal for me. and cares about me and likes me. we are still REALLY good friends and we tell eachother everything and we are always there for eachother. But we also still have sex and do other sexual things.. and im just scared that he could be using me..!! what do u think??? please help!!

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lildesidevil143 answered Friday December 17 2004, 5:21 pm:
i think that he could be using you. So you need to stop with the sex stuff and just be friends with him. Then if he changes and doesn't liek talking to you or something then he was DEFINEITLY using you but if he's ok with you not having sex with him then no he's not using you.
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Shae'sHere4U answered Friday December 17 2004, 3:37 pm:
first sit down and talk to him about everything that has been goin on, and give him time to understand, tell him that you will stop lieing and try your hardest not to lie, if you love this guy soo much, you wouldn't lie to him!

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-sheila

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Berri answered Friday December 17 2004, 2:53 pm:
Girlie-poo, he is definitely using you...Unless you want to keep being used, dump him.

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DrummeR4LifE answered Friday December 17 2004, 11:42 am:
uhh... well i dont know but he could be?

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mysticpixie05 answered Friday December 17 2004, 9:55 am:
well if you think he is using you then just stop messing around with him. if you are using him at the same time just to be with him, then dont worry about it.

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lilcutie1212 answered Friday December 17 2004, 9:31 am:
Yeah, I think he is using you. I mean if je dpesnt want to like you but does stufff with you that is like using you.Hope I helped
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HuGzNKisSeZ69 answered Friday December 17 2004, 9:16 am:
dump him

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Shortie8959 answered Friday December 17 2004, 8:42 am:
If he doesn't want to be in a relationship with you, and you're messing around, then I think he's definitely using you. Just say no next time he wants to do something like that. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
~*Erin*~

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josiechick0289 answered Friday December 17 2004, 7:51 am:
if you think he's using you don't do it!

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Kr4z3y_Ch3lly answered Friday December 17 2004, 1:28 am:
I DEFENITLY think hes using you. The only way you can stop it is if you say no. So unless you wanna be used somemore... Keep doing it...But if not stop!! :o) hope i helped!

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