okay i was going out with this guy for about 2 yrs.. and then he broke up with me because i was always lieing to him (which was very bad thing for me to do.. and i regret doing it!!) i tell him all the time how im sorry and i want to get back with him because i love him. and he just says he doesnt want to get hurt again but he still feels a great deal for me. and cares about me and likes me. we are still REALLY good friends and we tell eachother everything and we are always there for eachother. But we also still have sex and do other sexual things.. and im just scared that he could be using me..!! what do u think??? please help!!
Shae'sHere4U answered Friday December 17 2004, 3:37 pm: first sit down and talk to him about everything that has been goin on, and give him time to understand, tell him that you will stop lieing and try your hardest not to lie, if you love this guy soo much, you wouldn't lie to him!
Berri answered Friday December 17 2004, 2:53 pm: Girlie-poo, he is definitely using you...Unless you want to keep being used, dump him. [ Berri's advice column | Ask Berri A Question ]
mysticpixie05 answered Friday December 17 2004, 9:55 am: well if you think he is using you then just stop messing around with him. if you are using him at the same time just to be with him, then dont worry about it. [ mysticpixie05's advice column | Ask mysticpixie05 A Question ]
Shortie8959 answered Friday December 17 2004, 8:42 am: If he doesn't want to be in a relationship with you, and you're messing around, then I think he's definitely using you. Just say no next time he wants to do something like that. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
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Kr4z3y_Ch3lly answered Friday December 17 2004, 1:28 am: I DEFENITLY think hes using you. The only way you can stop it is if you say no. So unless you wanna be used somemore... Keep doing it...But if not stop!! :o) hope i helped! [ Kr4z3y_Ch3lly's advice column | Ask Kr4z3y_Ch3lly A Question ]
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