Question Posted Wednesday December 15 2004, 5:48 pm
ok ima 15 yr old female and i need sum relationship adivice..me and my exbf chris dated for 4months. i kno that its not a long time at all but we were totally in love. i was his first true love and i was his. we had a long distance relationship and didnt see eachother often but it was all ok bc we were totally in love and realli wanted to be together. well we broke up at the end of august and we talked up until like sept 10th...then sumthing changed and i dont even kno wut. i mean i will always love chris but i do not want to get back wif him bc i cant deal wif the long distance realtionshiop but i do NEED him as a part of my life. stuff has been goin down hill for me since we broke up and i keep gettin worse and worse and i dont kno wut to do anymore. chris was like my angel. without having him as a part of my life it seems kind of pointless. i dont kno wut to do i either have to forget about him and i dont kno how to do that when everything reminds me of him or i have to get him back in my life...and i dont think i have the guts to do that. i just dont kno wut to do anymore htis has been goin on since september and i hate the way i am...im a total emotional wreck and i cant take it anymore..
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? gUeSsHoO278 answered Friday December 17 2004, 8:31 pm: Yeah its really tough for girls especialy when they breakup with their boyfriends. Think of it this way - you and chris werent meant to be with eachother, if you were meant to be together, YOU'D BE TOGETHER.Everything happens for a reason, and the reason you met chris was so that you could have memories of him...not be with him. You will find a guy who you will love even more than chris...and you guys will be meant for eachother! Just wait for that special guy....and let the past be in your memories....not to make you cry...but to make you smile* [ gUeSsHoO278's advice column | Ask gUeSsHoO278 A Question ]
LostHopes answered Thursday December 16 2004, 8:49 am: omg i know exactally how you feel! i brokeup with my bf (i totally loved him, i just couldn't stand never being able to see him) cuse he lived like 5 hours away and i'm an emotional wreck too :( sorry i cant really help you, i havn't gotten advice for it either... just dont kill yourself like some moron said, sry i gotta go... sry i didnt really help. xo<3 -*Laura [ LostHopes's advice column | Ask LostHopes A Question ]
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