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not good enough
im in love with this guy. weve been going out for almost 9 months. its real love, not just your average 14 year old junk. anyway.. i just totally dont feel like i deserve him. hes way too good for me. he loves me and he wants to be with me, but i just want the best for him. last night i broke up with him because i think he can do so much better. i want him to be with someone that does deserve him. i cant stop crying and i stole his cape (dont ask) and im attached to it. i miss him so much. but weve broken up and gotten back together so many times, it wouldnt be fair if i got back with him now. what should i do? please help me!
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Ok number one thing im sorry if this hurts you but that is so retarded. If you want him to be happy and you are the one thing that makes him happy then dont break up with him. You obviously still care about him. The only thing that would make you not good enough for him is if you cheated on him. Maybe your the best thing for eachother.
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YEAH DEFINALTY GOOD IDEA! i think he will be like wow! heey! wear sum thin sexii! lol well umm.. like act like urself!
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wel if you love him so much or whatever you wouldnt of broke up wit him.. he dont wanna do better then you apparently he jus wants to be wit you, but you should get back wit him and dont break up wit him again.. you should be wit him and dont think bout if he deserves better cause he must not think he does.. hope i helped Ladessa
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the reason why you think you don't deverse him is becaise you don't know what you want or you scare that something bad will happen.try accepting yourself fist and decide what you want..is perfect or is he too perfect, so pefect that you afraid to lose him.what you did was about you tell him what you feel and know what he feels about all of this.now that you two broken up be friends maybe something else will happen.I hope I helped.
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Guys always like sex. Just fuck him and he wont care if he can do better
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well if this is real love like you say, then you guys definiatly deserve eachother, and if he wants you then you cant change that unless you keep pushing him away like you do, and you cry about it? then dont push him away!! jeez get back together with him and go to his church to suprise him or something, get back together with him. and just realize some obvious stuff. x0
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Ok i think your having to little self-esteem, if he choose you and loves you for yourself it wouldnt matter if people think you arnt good enoguh for him. Ask him what he wants to do, and rember not to let your head get in front of your heart.
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umm GET BACK WITH HIM at all costs... actually my friend and i were talkin about something like this the other day... and we decided that when we are dating someone we need to feel like they are much better than us because it makes us feel so special to have them... but i say if you really love him get back together and besides if he feels like he is to good then he will end it...but it doesn't sound like that is the case... i say call him asap before he starts to get over you..because that is one thing you do not want...
good luck hope i helped
kev
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Wow, sweetie, you really need to put your chin up and smile and have some more confidence in yourself. You are putting yourself way down. No good. You need to realize that if this is such a good guy, then he just likes you for who you are, honey!! You don't want to just trash that. You don't want to be one of those women when you get older that takes abuse because you think you deserve it! Is that what kind of relationship you're looking for? No, you should go ahead and go back out with the kid and don't dump him again unless he gives you good reason to. I really hope you learn to like yourself better. Don't go through life thinking so badly about yourself. And yeah, go ahead and surprise him at his church. What a great place for wonderful beginnings and a chance to start over. The best of luck!!
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Yes, go surprise him. Trust me, I have been through what you are going through now. I'm in still in the process of it. There is this guy who I truly do love, and we have been on and off for about 2 years now. I would tell him how I feel but I know he wouldn't understand it sometimes it seems like he doesn't care. Guys can sometimes be moody, sorry guys, but you should at least talk to him and tell him how you are feeling. Maybe once you get that off your chest you could talk about seeing other people for a while and then getting back together sometime in the near future.
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Never think that you don't deserve a guy!! A lot of girls i know would kill for what you have, and you just threw it away! If he wants to be with you, that should definately be enough. It seems to me like you guys really care about each other. You have to tell him how you feel, but im not sure surpirsing him at church is a good idea. He could be pretty angry at you right now..Maybe you should call him up instead.
Good Luck!
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get that boy back, girl! he obviously sees something in you if he has stuck around for 9 months!!! This is a good kid that you need to get back. and stop worrying whats going to happen in the future, and stick to the present!!!
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I used to and I still feel this way about someone but it's all in your head call him and calmly tell that you thought he needs someone more than you so he'll understand when I broke up with my first boyfriend I didn't give an explanation and he was up my butt about it. so if you do some thinking you might figure out that you love him...Merry X-mas
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maybe what you don't realize, is that he really does love you. if he loves you he obviously loves you for a reason. the good thing is, you aren't being selfish. you still love him, but you don't think you deserve him. i think you should tell him how you feel. he'd like to know. maybe i didn't convince you about it, but maybe he will.
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you can't be thinking of him if your breaking up with him. you say he wants to be with you, and just maybe you should let him make the judgements. be smart, don't do this to yourself.. or him.
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