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Q: okay I know this is random, but like I have really weird hair thats in between being curly or straight (but it doesnt look good lol) and I was wondering does anyone know anything that will make your hair straight or curly w/o too much use of a straightener or a curling iron? Thanks soo much! (Please dont delete!)

hey well i have the same prob. i dont quiet know what 2 do either. so i bought a straightner! l0l i usually straightnin it ! but warnin it damages your hair!!
hope i helped

Q: My house smells really bad.. like dogs. How do i get the smell to go away? I've tried air fresheners like NeutraAir and Febreeze and Oust but none of them seem to work. Is there an INEXPENSIVE way to get my house clean- and fresh-smelling? I'll rate 5's for everyone who tries 2 answer!

Hey i say that you use the lyosol thing that kills germs. scice it kills germs it should kill the smell. then keep air freasheners going!!
hope i helped

Q: There's this guy at my school that I really like, and think I am in love with (I have thought this for YEARS). But I'm afraid to start anything with him because he has kind of been the center of many jokes between me and my friends, and he's not exactly the hottest guy on earth lol. He is kind of short, in fact, I think I'm taller than him. But he's kind of cute in a way and I really like his personality. I know I could probably get a hotter guy, but for some reason I feel like he is the only one I could be happy with. But I am afraid of what my friends will think if I tell them I like him. So what should I do?

If your friends are really your friends they will expect the person you go out with. If you really like him! GO FOR IT ! and give the guy a chance.
hope i helped good luck with the decision!

Q: how do you get rid of zits FAST! besides the everyday face wash... thank you for those who help

pop them out! I KNOW IT HURTS BUT IT WORKS!
HOPE I HELPED

Q: okay so heres the thing.....i am really depressed, and i know it and so i cut myself....but not my wrists or anything just my legs and my ankles.......and i think about death alot, but not ohters just myself....what do you think i shuld do

Okay here is tyhe thing is that you should make more frineds so they can cheer you up.So you wont be as despressed. Tell your mom and dad that you are REALLY depressed and mabe they can help. and talk to you!!

hope i helped!

Q: Hi, my name is Lacey, and I just moved from Washington to Wisconsin, and i HATE IT!!! everyone is against me, what my so called my friends did to me is writed me a note and told me that i am a slut face hore. How should i tell my parents that i want to move out of this hell hole?

hey aw. thats sad everyone is against you. What I think you should tell them is that you hate it. Mabe your parent can tell a teacher and then mabe you can get switched to another class and make new friends
~ hope i helped~

Q: ok my family n friends live in connecticut b/c i moved a few years ago... we go there every xmas... im gonna be seeing my bff who i havent seen for like a year... i need a REALLY good xmas gift! im going to be seeing a few of my other really good friends so does anyone have any ideas about what i should get? please answer asap im leaving in like 2 days! thanx so much!... i rate

hey well if this is a REALLY good friend then i think you should get her something good! For example mabe a shirt from like a good store!
hope i helped!

Q: My best friend and I like the same guy. The thing is, he is dating my best friend. But she and he both know that he likes me also. He wants to be with both of us, but I don't want to hurt my best friend so I think I should back off. What should I do?? Thanks!

I think you should just be rea;;;y good friends with the both of them! I mean the relationship isnt gonna last forever. So you never now you can mabe be asked out next!
HOPE I HELPED!!

Q: I'm a 13 (almost14) female....... At school theres like half black people, and the other half is white. I'm white, but all these black people tell me I have a black girls booty, and they tell me I have a big head (not like stuck up, but like literaly big"! sometimes the guys act like they like me, but then again they make fun of me. Do they really like me, or are they picking on me seriously???????

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hey well see seioulsly if ur happy of how your butt looks then be proud! hah well anywaysusuallly if they pick on you its because they dont know how to start a convorstation. so that is why they pick on you!!

hope i helped!

Q: PLEASE DONT DELETE THIS QUESTION AGAIN..IM SCARED!!!! my belly button has been red for awhile now(yes my mom knows about it)and its NOT peirced and has NEVER been peirced and it like gets better but then it gets worse again and now its starting to like peel...anyone have an idea of whats happening or how i can help it get better and go away?!? plz dont delete this question!! :)

hey clam down its probably just a rash or sumthin. use cream and stuff. if it dosent go away go 2 a doc.
hope i helped

Q: im in love with this guy. weve been going out for almost 9 months. its real love, not just your average 14 year old junk. anyway.. i just totally dont feel like i deserve him. hes way too good for me. he loves me and he wants to be with me, but i just want the best for him. last night i broke up with him because i think he can do so much better. i want him to be with someone that does deserve him. i cant stop crying and i stole his cape (dont ask) and im attached to it. i miss him so much. but weve broken up and gotten back together so many times, it wouldnt be fair if i got back with him now. what should i do? please help me!

YEAH DEFINALTY GOOD IDEA! i think he will be like wow! heey! wear sum thin sexii! lol well umm.. like act like urself!

~hope i helped~

Q: My moms new boyfriend has a 13 year old daughter and she is the only one in the household that I can talk to, even though she is 3 years younger than me, she is very mature for her age. She is a great person and I talked to her about everything and we shared some great moments together. Here lately she has thrown me away, its like she doesnt want to be around me anymore. i feel like an inconvienence. I feel like there is no reason to stay here anymore, she is the one that gave me the courage to go on living! Now I want to die, just thinking that for some reason she hates me. I am a cutter and have attempted suicide several times in the past. i feel like I am a failure now and have no reason to live!

HEY DONT THINK LIKE THAT! THERE ARE LOTS OF RESONS TO LIVE! OKAY WELL GO UP TO HER AND SAY__ HEY WATSUP WHAT IS THE REASON YOU ARENT TALKIN TO ME! TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL SO SHE WILL KNOW HOW IMPORTANT SHE IS TO YOU! i seriously think u should do that!
~ hope i helped~

Q: Okay, I'm goin out w/ this guy we'll call hi "John" John is a very sweet guy who I used to be friends w/ up until a few days ago. He found out I had liked him all year and I also found this out about him so we decided to go out. I can tell he still really likes me b/c of what he says and how we're always around each other but I have 3 questions! 1) he's really shy. his ex said it takes him a few weeks but how can i make him feel more comfortable till then. 2) How can I get him to hold my hand or kiss me or anything! 3) How do we make it last over x-mas break. we never see each other when we're not in school!

HEY WELL I THINK YOU SHOULD definatly SPEND MORE TIME WITH THE KID!oNCE YOU SPEND MORE TIME HE WILL GET TO KNOW YOU MORE AND TRUST ME HE WILLL GET MORE COMFTORBLE!CALL HIM ALOT AND GET HIM TO CALL YOU TOO. THAT WILL PROBABLY MAKE IT LAST OVER XMAS VACTION!
~ HOPE I HELPED~

Q: Okay... theres this guy... That i like talkin to.. and.. yea...
Well... he lives in Texas and i live in Pennsylvania. and he's always like OH I LIKE YOU SO MUCH! I LIKE YOU I LIKE YOU BUT I JUST DONT LOVE YOU.
but when i talk to him on the phone.. like.. the littlest things piss him off.. and it like.. makes me wonder if its like... ya know me.. or.. if he's rilly a girl and just pmsin.
but.. sometymes i piss him off to the point where he's like.. OH I FUCKING HATE YOU. WHY DO I EVEN TALK TO YOU
and.. ME BEIN THE WONDERFULLY FUCKED UP PERSON I AM git all pissed about that and say things i dont mean too..
but like.. i like him and alll
And i've told him i did
but like
it makes me wonder.. cause hes always like.. rilly easy to piss off.. like.. is it me? or... is it him... do i annoy him that fucking bad??

hey well this is a hard one to anserw. but what i think is that he just wants to make you be like" ohh i am SSSSoooOOOO sry" i dont know why! mabe he had some family issuses in the past and it makes him all mad. i really hope i helped!

Q: What's the step below going out? This guy said he likes me and wants to be the step below going out, because he doesn't think "going out" at this age is a good idea. We're more than friends though, I know that.. Any ideas on what it could be?

hey well mabe he got hurt in another relationship and dosent want to get hurt again! talk to him. Mabe he just wants to get to kow you more> you never know! hope i helped!

Q: Well, My parents bicker and fight about things that they shouldn't. My dad is being a real prick and my step mom ends up in tears. It pisses me off why he has to be a real ass, but I am always told to "mind my own business" or to "shut-up". I get very stressed out and I hate it! It pisses me the F*** off and I have no say in anything that goes on. So, this is the part where you throw advice my way :-/

oh i am soo sorry this is goin on. but if i was you this is what i would do. i would tallk to a really good friend that you have known for like ever! OR A GOOD RELATIVE. but just make sure the school dosent hear about it, becaus then they will make a big deal out of a small issue! klike send u to theorpy or something like that. well i hope i helped!

Q: hey I am so confused. I dumped my boyfriend two previous times and now he thinks we are going back out,and we never were. he says he loves me so i just say it back but i don't mean it,i have no idea what to do. please help me
An advice columnist also
*crystal*

hey crystal well i think what you should do is to tell him if you guys could just be good friends. Just because you are girl friend and boy friend dosent mean you can't do what you did when you were going out. I dont think hat you should lie to him and tell hin you love even though you dont. i think that if he would ever find out he will be torn apart. I reallly hope I helped!

Q: My friend and I have always had trouble talking to guys and we don't why. We just start getting all shy and our mind's go blank and just don't act like ourselves. We both like a boy and desperatly want to talk to them. If any of y'all have advice we would GREATLY appreciate it!!!

hey well you got to say to yourself that you only live once! So u have to say that you need to open up and hit everything that comes to you. I rember i used to be shy. but that was just a stage. now I grew out of it! mabe the both of you will to. But my advice is to go for it. Go up to him and be like " hey whats up" i really hope I helped!

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heey!!! every1 my name is Jessica> aka jess> just not jesse! lol LONG STORY well yeah its true i am a blonde , but i can still give GOOD advise> adleast i hope so lol! well any time my friends have a problem i usually try 2 help> most of the time i successed! :) well i really wanna hear those questions of ur soo.. ask away!