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Umm...parents arguing
Well, My parents bicker and fight about things that they shouldn't. My dad is being a real prick and my step mom ends up in tears. It pisses me off why he has to be a real ass, but I am always told to "mind my own business" or to "shut-up". I get very stressed out and I hate it! It pisses me the F*** off and I have no say in anything that goes on. So, this is the part where you throw advice my way :-/
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go see your school counselor and then shell probly get the three of you together to talk abou it! hope i helped!
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Been there done that with both my real parents and sometimes my dad and his girlfriend/future step mom. Anywho. You have to put a say in it. Screw then when they tell you to shut up, ya know? Sometimes the most important opinion is the childs. If they see how much this hurts and bothers you they'll try and do something about it more. They must not realize how much they hurt you. If you can't just go out and say it to them write a letter and put it somewhere they both can find it. You need to be heard. It's not right for you to have to hear them arguing. It's bad for a young peoples nerves.. trust me, I know.<3xo
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oh i am soo sorry this is goin on. but if i was you this is what i would do. i would tallk to a really good friend that you have known for like ever! OR A GOOD RELATIVE. but just make sure the school dosent hear about it, becaus then they will make a big deal out of a small issue! klike send u to theorpy or something like that. well i hope i helped!
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your best bet would probably be to talk to a close family member, like an uncle, aunt or grandparent. they'll probably have more power over your parents. and maybe you could try and be there while your family member talks to them. then you might have a better chance of letting them know your feelings. hope i've helped!
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just tell your parents that they need to stop fighting all the time and if they tell you to shut up or stay out of it then say no...i wont stay out of it because i'm sick of seeing and hearing yall fight all the d*** time and see if that works.
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If they won't let you in it talk to someone and if you don't trust that person write it in a diary. I have a diary and I let out a lot of emotions in it. Diaries hilp a lot so either do one of those or something else.I hope my advice helped!!!
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