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My Boyfriend is Shy!!
Okay, I'm goin out w/ this guy we'll call hi "John" John is a very sweet guy who I used to be friends w/ up until a few days ago. He found out I had liked him all year and I also found this out about him so we decided to go out. I can tell he still really likes me b/c of what he says and how we're always around each other but I have 3 questions! 1) he's really shy. his ex said it takes him a few weeks but how can i make him feel more comfortable till then. 2) How can I get him to hold my hand or kiss me or anything! 3) How do we make it last over x-mas break. we never see each other when we're not in school!
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Awee!! Anyways, sometimes when two people go out, it takes a while for them to adapt to it. It just takes time. Dont rush him or else the relationship will not last long. So, like I said, dont try to rush it, because maybe he's just scared or something. And another thing, do you have his phone number? Because over Winter Break, you can call him and stuff. Thats how you guys can keep in touch. Maybe even through email too. Yes, that works. Anyways, I hope I helped.
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Well if his ex says that he needs a few weeks to open up, dont rush him. That will just scare him off. JUst wait for him. And for the whole hand holding and kissing thing goes, some guys like for the girl to make the first move. Maybe after a few weeks after he opens up to you, make the first move. That will show that you really care and like him enuff and it will take all the burdens of his shoulder. If you want to make it last over christmas break, MAKE AN EFFORT TO SEE EACHOTHER!!! You guys can always go to the movies or juss chill with some friends. If you never see eachother when your not in school, then that has got to change! Make an effort to see him out of school and things will unravel from there
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anserw to 1- do some things he would like or talk about things hes familar with like old school memories or if hes into foot ball talk to him about that.
anserw to 2- go to a movie and see if he ptus his arm around u if he does then from there it will build up.
answerw to 3- well get him a gift and call him alot ask if her wants to maybe go to the sk8ing rink or to a movie or somthing
hope ive help happy holidays
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1) Be spontaeneous and kiss him, 2) refer to 1, 3) set up a date, if he's really shy movies might be good, since you don't have to talk during the movie and he can get comfortable while you watch it and you guys can hang out afterwards.
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Talk to him on the internet a lot, he might feel more comfortable that way. Then when he warms up a little you can talk to him on the phone a lot and make plans to hang out over winter break. And as for getting him to hold ur hand or kiss you, since hes shy, you might have to make the first move. Or maybe you guys could go to the movies and then u could start getting really close to him and then mayb he will kiss u. good luck!
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well, me and my boyfriend didnt talk that much@ the beg. of our relationship either, like on the phone we were both scared. I am his first girlfriend and so it was okay i guess. and then after the first 5weeks, he kissed me! and then after like over 2months we french kissed. its okay, he was shy, but now we cant stop talking !!
ooh! I G2G sryy!
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Ok. First of all most all guys are shy at first. So don't worry! I thought the same thing too.. To make him more comfortable around u just kinda start up conversation. if you want him to kiss you or hold your hand, well some guys r shy about that at first. but you should make the first move bc it breaks the ice. If you want it to last "communication" is the key. If you want to see him outside of school maybe go to a community activity,movie, or something like that.
Hope I helped! good luck
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Well for numbers one and two try watching movies with him or something. For number three try downloading AIM and talking to him through that. Maybe get his phone number. I hope I helped!
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1.)Flirt with him. Let him know that YOU'RE really into him, and that'll make him loosen up.
2.)Just grab his hand and hold it!! And surprise him with a kiss. Sometimes ya' just gotta' make the first move yourself. ;)
3.)Talk to him over the phone or AIM. It might also be easier for him to loosen up on the phone or internet because it's not so direct, so he won't feel as nervous and shy.
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1.) just wait it out and be really nice to him and let him know that you really do like him.
2.) you cant MAKE him but just make him feel comfortable and then if he still doesnt do anyhting then YOU make the first move.
3.) call him and ask him if he wants to go to a movie or hang out with you or something.
<3 Jen
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Well, first I am happy for you that you found a nice guy. That's always good to hear. You really can't toally change the fact that he is shy. And you also have to sort of respect the fact that he's shy. Put yourself in his shoes for a second. You can make him feel more comfortable around you. To do this, maybe have a talk with him and tell him that you respect and understand the fact that he is shy and that you are willing to give things time and rush them. But also maybe explain to him that he doesn't have to be so shy since y'all were friends before. Instead of watiging on him to do something simple like the holding hands thign, you could take the initiative and hold his hand first, or cutley ask for him to hold yours. As for the kissing thing, let that come naturally. Cause that's a bit morei mportant than holding hands. To make it last, have a talk before break and agree to maybe call each other or talk on the net at a set time, or maybe write each other emails or letters. Communication is SO important and vital to a long and healthy relationship. Althougher, just tell to him nicely and express how you are feeling. Good luck! :)
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1- Don't push it! lol! be as "shy" as him. lol
2- Do it first! be lyke.. yer goin to give him a hugg and kiss him on the cheek. ya never know he mite lyke that
3- CALL HIM! or tell him to call you. it'll be okay as long as you COMMUNICATE lmao!!
Well!! It Looks Lyke I've Done My Good deed For The Day!
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HEY WELL I THINK YOU SHOULD definatly SPEND MORE TIME WITH THE KID!oNCE YOU SPEND MORE TIME HE WILL GET TO KNOW YOU MORE AND TRUST ME HE WILLL GET MORE COMFTORBLE!CALL HIM ALOT AND GET HIM TO CALL YOU TOO. THAT WILL PROBABLY MAKE IT LAST OVER XMAS VACTION!
~ HOPE I HELPED~
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