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i cant focus- anyone have any good ideas how to??

Well the way I get my friends to focus is by screaming FOCUS in their faces so I won't try that (lol). Maybe if you give yourself a "treat" or "prize" every time you focus for one day. That will probably work. I hope I helped!

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Hi I am christian, and I have a friend who is jewish. I want to get her a "holiday" present, but I am not sure what to call it, or if she would think it was rude. I am also not sure when i should give it to her. I don't know when haunaka is. What do you think?

Well Haunaka is over so you can't call it that. Try calling it a New Year's present or just a holiday present. Or maybe even say a late Haunaka present. I hope I helped!

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Okay, I'm goin out w/ this guy we'll call hi "John" John is a very sweet guy who I used to be friends w/ up until a few days ago. He found out I had liked him all year and I also found this out about him so we decided to go out. I can tell he still really likes me b/c of what he says and how we're always around each other but I have 3 questions! 1) he's really shy. his ex said it takes him a few weeks but how can i make him feel more comfortable till then. 2) How can I get him to hold my hand or kiss me or anything! 3) How do we make it last over x-mas break. we never see each other when we're not in school!

Well for numbers one and two try watching movies with him or something. For number three try downloading AIM and talking to him through that. Maybe get his phone number. I hope I helped!

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Well!My friend a while ago started cutting herself, but then she stopped. Today I hit her arm and she said ouch. I knew right away what she did because she gave me this look. Then she laughed about it. I honestly don’t think that it is funny. She is one of my best friends and I don’t need her going off and hurting herself. When she laughs about it, it makes me feel like she doesn’t want me to care or anything. She showed me her arm and it looks pretty bad and shes like ooo its not that bad. I don’t want to tell an adult but she has been pretty depressed latly and I don’t kno anymore if I should continue helping her about it or just give her her own space.

You need to tell an adult. Or someone older that can help like a brother or sister. She needs to go to thearpy. Don't let her ruim her life. Tell her that it can kill her and there are better ways of getting out anger. I hope I helped!

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I have this one friend, but she gets really annoying sometimes. She'll talk on and on, and i never get a chance to say anything, and im not the quiet type. She always dominates the conversation, and is always being bossy. Most of my friends think she's annoying too, but i dont want her to have no friends, but also dont want to be her friend out of pitty. what can i do?

Maybe try and get her stopped talking for a minute and explain to her that it's getting on your nerves. Ask her to calm down a little and give others a chance to talk. I hope I helped!!

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