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Hi! My name's Nicole. Okey, I'm that kind of person you can talk to about ANYTHING. From boys to pizza, to how they stamp the little Ms on the M&Ms. I'm also filipino, which is pretty cool in my book, and I have alot of friend. I love giving advice, so feel free to drop me off a line or two, and I'll be glad to answer any questions that you have for advice. Anyways, heres some info on me, so you get to know me better.







Name: Nicole
Nicknames: Nikki, Snoopy, Cookie, Nicoli
Most people call me: Nikki.
Favorite color: Pink and Black. ReTrO, no?
Do you speak filipino: Barely.
"Thing" you are at school: I dont really know. I'm like 50% girly girl and 50% punkish. It's kinda hard to choose.
Do you have filipino friends: Heck, yea!
Your best friends that are filipino: Jan, Brinny, Caroline, and Andrew
You like giving advice about: technically anything.
Favorite candy: Laffy Taffy
Celebrity Crush: Rupert Grint ((Eeeeeeee!!!!))








In a perfect world
Human beings would co-exist
Harmoniously, like a rainbow
a multitude of colors
Each layer vibrant and clear by itself
but in unison....
Boundless, Breathtaking, Celestial....







after every storm -if you look hard enough-
A rainbow appears...







|f|r|i|e|n|d|s|h|i|p| is my anti drug.
|m|u|s|i|c| is my anti drug.







~MY BESTEST BUDDIES IN THE WORLD~
Janice - Jan
Brittany - Brinny
Andrea - Andi
Alecia - Eesha
Chris - Kurisu
Colton
Andrew
Caroline
Carly
Danielle - Dani
Samantha - Sammie
Nick - Nickdoofus










I Love Rupert Grint! I'm a HUGE fan of Harry Potter! Turn the volume up, cause you'll hear Hedwigs theme! OMG I LOVE RUPERT AND TOM FELTON THEY ARE SO HOT!!










[A]ge: 13
[B]irthday: November 15
[C]olor: Pink and Black
[D]ream boy: Rupert Grint, Tom Felton, and *a SpEcIaL sOmEoNe*
[E]yes: brown
[F]riends: Ooooo they know who they are ;) luv ya guys!
[G]rade Average: As and Bs
[H]air color: Jet Black!!
[I]nterests: boys (lol), music, movies, shopping...yeah...
[J]obs: Does school count?
[K]razy: Lol, all the time, ask any of my friends, hehe
[L]ocation: on my computer chair
[M]aritral status: Taken! ;)
[N]ame: Nicole aka Nikki
[O]bsession: Harry Potter!
[P]izza: Extra Extra large stuffed crust extra cheese :)
[Q]uote: In a perfect world, human beings would co-exist harmoniously, like a rainbow. A multitude or colors, each layer vibrant and clear by itself But in unison...boundless, breathtaking, Celestial....
[R]ace: Filipino/Asian
[S]pecial Talents: Singing (I guess), computers, viola...
[T]ell something about you: I'm obsessed with Music and Harry Potter and I have been to the Rupert Grint website at least 14 times.
[U]unbelieveably embarassing moment: When I dropped my lunch tray on my shirt (we had spaghetti >.
E-mail: xorupertsgirl099x3@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: nunya buisness
Occupation: Student
AIM: FCNikkiBoO2011
Yahoo: xorupertsgirl099x3
MSN: fire_goddess40@yahoo.com
Member Since: December 22, 2004
Answers: 59
Last Update: December 27, 2004
Visitors: 4750

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what is a good way of convincing your parents to get you a pet!!!!(((other than puppy eyes or making a deal with them, already tried))) (link)
Convince them that you really ARE ready to get a pet. I mean, most parents refuse to get a pet because they think that they'll have to take care of it. Take care of a neighbor's pet or something like that and show them that you're responsible enough to get a pet of your own because they know that you will be taking care of it, not them. I hope you get a pet and take care!
~**~((xoxo Nicole Anne!))~**~


what is a birthday suit? (link)
Yer naked...
~**~((xoxo Nicole Anne!))~**~


ok, i like this guy. lets call him joe. i've liked joe for a few months. and we've become really good friends. and, my friend...lets call her betty...betty and i love to do 3 way calling. so we usually call joe and other people when we do that. but lately, like last night, he just seemed really annoyed or moody or somethin'. but i don't know if it was cuz of me and betty or not. and, lately, joe's been kinda...bleh. and when i was online one night i said hi and he never said anything. i don't know. i'm not sure if its me or not. i mean, is it just a guy thing? or is it me?

thx in advance! (link)
First thing is first. Guys are misunderstood creatures, and nobody knows whats going through their head except for maybe other guys. I doubt that its you thats the problem because he would be avoiding you. Sit him down one day and ask whats up. Maybe something happened with his family, or maybe hes overstressed. Either way, talk to him about it and hopefully he'll open up.
~**~((xoxo Nicole Anne!))~**~


My parents keep the house so so so so so cold...I'm always freezing and it's the middle of the winter...it's always like 60 in here, and I've told my parents so many times that I'm SO cold when its that cold, but they don't care. They say that they are comfortable that way, and that if they turn it up they will be too warm. I'm not the only one who thinks its too cold...friends or relatives who come over say its so cold! But, they don't have to live here!!! I DO!! What do I do??? (link)
Wear sweaters all the time! Okey, so maybe thats not the best answer. But, you know the air vents on the ceiling in your room? Close the airvent. That will prevent any cold air from coming into your room. Close your door and air vent, and most of the heat will stay in your room. Hope I helped.
~**~((xoxo Nicole Anne!))~**~


Good Charlotte came out with a new CD and I looked at one and it said that it was named The Chronicles of Life and Death-Life Version then a few days later I saw one and it said The Chronicles of Life and Death-Death Version, so I'm wondering what is the difference between the two besides the ending. I tried looking up the lyrics for both but its not working...thanx for the help (link)
The only difference is the bonus track at the end of the album, so theres practically no difference between them besides that. I love Good Charlotte, they're a good band.
~**~((xoxo Nicole Anne!))~**~


Well...what clothing styles are in style this winter...and what accessories will spice up an outfit? Please give me some ideas! (link)
Derr....Winter? Um, letsee. Well, Get something, like, winterlike and warm ((duh)). Maybe a cute sweater and jeans or something like that. And, just wear some funky necklaces or bracelets. That always helps and stuf...
~**~((xoxo Nicole Anne!))~**~


I am sort of quiet. Sometimes i feel like I have no friends. I just feel like I'm not welcome and that's why I don't talk a lot. It's hard to explain. I don't get invited over to my friends houses. I don't know what to do. It seems like I am just a substitute friend. HELP!! How can I make my friends have moer fun with me and like me more???!! (link)
Since you're kinda quiet, its kind of hard to make friends at school. Anyways, try to be more social. Go do sports or join a club. Try your very hardest to talk to people more. Everyone is welcome here in this world, and remember that. Somehere at your school will probably be a person who will be your best friend, and I will garuntee that. I hope my advice helped some, and thanks for coming to me for advice ^_^ Good luck!
~**~((xoxo Nicole Anne!))~**~


Hey everyone. I have my own column, but I can't answer my own question. I met a guy online back in May or around that time. We didn't talk much until now, and we've gotten soooo much closer. We both think we're soulmates and meant for each other. Even though I haven't met him, I feel this connection, and it's really cool. I just don't know what to think though, because I hear all those stories on the news and everything, and it really scares me. What if he's a rapist or a serial killer or something?! I really don't think he is, because of some of the conversations we've have, but there's always that chance. I just want to know you're opinions on this, and what I should do about it. Is there anyway I can find out he's really 16 w/o actually meeting him? Thx in advance, sorry about the length. Happy Holidays 2 everyone!
Shortie8959 (link)
Hun, No. no, no, no, no, no. Online relationships arent good, hun. These rapists and serial killers you speak of, there are more of them out there. I for one think its a bad idea. Dont meet him. You dont know him well enough. And I dont think theres a possible way of meeting him without...meeting him @_@ anyways, I say dont go for it...I'd hate to have another person be raped or something this year...
~**~((xoxo Nicole Anne!))~**~


I'm 16 and I'd like to try out for the school musical, but I'm really nervous. what should I do to have a good audition? (link)
Take a deep breath, and dont worry about it. Dont worry about the people who are watching you. If you have to look directly at them, look straight above their heads. Not the, "hey look, your hair is sticking up" kinda stare, but just stare directly above their heads and do what you have to do. Good luck on your audition!
~**~((xoxo Nicole Anne!))~**~


ok my two best friends (we r all 13)used to be best friends b4 i moved here and then they got in a fight and didnt talk for 2 months. but now they r friends again...and my best friend thats a guy would do anything for her and im afraid they r gonna become best friends again and he will forget bout me! but im not sure that hes like that...i told him and he said it would neva happen but how does he know??? this is a gurl he said he'd do ANYTHING for...so im confused and worried. yea i know it sounds kinda selfish but i dont wanna lose him as a friend...or her! should i worry bout it or trust him and believe it wont happen? (link)
If he's a true friend, then you should trust him. A true friend would never forget about his best friend for a girl he'd do ANYTHING for. So, I want your to trust this guy, and tell me how it goes. Remember, a true friend wouldnt do that.
~**~((xoxo Nicole Anne!))~**~


ok what is the age to start baby- sitting? and how much should i ask for them to give me and hour?

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Well, to me, 13 is usually the most common age to start babysitting, since people are going into that "teenager" stage stuff...and, for an hour? I think maybe like 10 bucks or something like that. Its just an hour, anyways.
~**~((xoxo Nicole Anne!))~**~


Okay my friend and i (he's a guy) are not really talking! Because I have been ignoring him, and supposedly he isn't mad at me! I found out he is sick today and lives right up the street from me! I was wondering should i go up the street to give him some chickensoup or pasta? Or should I even go up there to see him?! Would it be too random?! (link)
You're not for sure that he's mad at you, right? Well, go up there and just talk to him for a little bit, asking him if everything's been going okey and just catch up on some stuff. So, yea, go for it.
~**~((xoxo Nicole Anne))~**~


besides cd's and money what do you get a girl for her 15th birthday? (link)
Clothes! Gift Certificates! Stuffed Animals! Posters! A Car! Lol, jk about the car part...
~**~((xoxo Nicole Anne!))~**~


I didn't really get to know my boyfriend before I started to date him (smooth move on my part). It turns out that he has totally different values than I. I haven't really told him that I despise drinking with the sole purpose of getting sloshed, and that people who smoke weed piss me off to no end...among other things.

I'm wary to address the issues though 'cause I don't want to hurt his feelings. He cries more easily that I do, which is weird, 'cause we're both 17.

Should I just let this go or confront him on it?

~Thankies Bunches~ (link)
Wow, this is a really big issue in relationships, but I'll take a crack at it...
Just so you know, I dont think its a very good idea to date someone you dont really know yet. But, anyway, I think you should confront him, but do that gently, since he cries easily and all. Just tell him your values and tell him that your pride in those things are very strong. If he's the one, he'll consider that talk and he'll understand. Thanks for coming to me for advice ^_^ I hope I helped some.
~**~((xoxo Nicole Anne!))~**~


My boyfriend was living with me for a while, and he just "moved out" today. I can't call him, but I really miss him a lot, I don't know, I just need a way to miss him less. What do I do? We're still going to see eachother and stuff, it's just going to be less than when he lived with me. (He had to move out because my dad never knew he lived here, and he was really mad) (link)
Get more social. Get with your girlz and just hang out. If you hang out with them and have fun, and focus less on your boyfriend, then it'll just slip off of your mind. I'm not saying that I want him to get out of your mind competely, but it helps. Trust me.
~**~((xoxo Nicole Anne!))~**~


Okay well here it goes.I have a friend named Jordyn and she is a girl.Well she tells everyone everything that she hears or what you tell her.It sucks cause i really like her but i have to watch what i say around her or what happens cause she isn't also afraid to change things around and make things worse than it really is.Is this really a good friend to hang around or no?Also is this a true friend?Please help me!!
Love always,
XxshortyxX
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Dear XxshortyxX,
I dont really think that this chick, Jordyn, is really a good person to hang around with. Thats sweet that you're still trying to be her friend, but no. She's not a good person because a true friend would keep a secret. I dont think a secret with her would last too long, now, would it? Take it from a person who knows a person exactly like that.
~**~((xoxo Nicole Anne!))~**~


i feel so ashamed of my self
i let my cousin finger me !!!!!!
we never see each other that was the first time we have ever met... is it okay that i feel guilty?!!? (link)
What the heck is wrong with you? You, uh, heh....you seriously need help. But, yea, I'd probably feel guilty...gawd, you're weird @_@
~**~((xoxo Nicole Anne!))~**~


Okay this may sound really dumb or something but it really needs to be answerd cause i really need the help.My friend had wanted to kill herself and then her mom had put her into a center to get the help that she needs(good for her!!).But the problem is that she is on drugs and she drinks a lot and she is only 12 or 13 years old.Well i tries to kill myself a few weeks ago and now i'm fine but my question is that should i be her friend still and hang out with her even though that she wanted to do something that i tried?Cause my fear is that she will want me to think of doing that again?Plzz help.
Thanks again
XxshortyxX (link)
I dont know if you should really be friends with her anymore if shes out there getting drunk like an old @ss. But even though you're not her friend ((or at least you shouldnt be)) I think you should get help for her. I mean, nobody needs to be drinking at that young of an age. So, try to get some help for her, and maybe it will make her future just a little bit brighter.
~**~((xoxo Nicole Anne!))~**~


Okay, I'm goin out w/ this guy we'll call hi "John" John is a very sweet guy who I used to be friends w/ up until a few days ago. He found out I had liked him all year and I also found this out about him so we decided to go out. I can tell he still really likes me b/c of what he says and how we're always around each other but I have 3 questions! 1) he's really shy. his ex said it takes him a few weeks but how can i make him feel more comfortable till then. 2) How can I get him to hold my hand or kiss me or anything! 3) How do we make it last over x-mas break. we never see each other when we're not in school! (link)
Awee!! Anyways, sometimes when two people go out, it takes a while for them to adapt to it. It just takes time. Dont rush him or else the relationship will not last long. So, like I said, dont try to rush it, because maybe he's just scared or something. And another thing, do you have his phone number? Because over Winter Break, you can call him and stuff. Thats how you guys can keep in touch. Maybe even through email too. Yes, that works. Anyways, I hope I helped.
~**~((xoxo Nicole Anne!))~**~


my lil bro had a bbsitter cuz i waz out... and when i came home she was screemin and yellin @ him. She grabbed his arm and he said to our dog.. "Daizee help help! Help Daiz!!!" the dog didnt do ne thing... but ne way.... shud i tell my parents? (link)
Definitely. If your lil bro's babysitter is physically or verbally abusing him, you need to tell your parents. your lil bro doesnt deserve to have a babysitter who will yell and scream at him and torture him all night. So, yea, tell your parents, and I suggest that she doesnt babysit your brother anymore.
~**~((xoxo Nicole Anne!))~**~




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