Question Posted Thursday December 23 2004, 9:38 pm
Okay well here it goes.I have a friend named Jordyn and she is a girl.Well she tells everyone everything that she hears or what you tell her.It sucks cause i really like her but i have to watch what i say around her or what happens cause she isn't also afraid to change things around and make things worse than it really is.Is this really a good friend to hang around or no?Also is this a true friend?Please help me!!
Love always,
XxshortyxX
pinayprincess74 answered Friday December 24 2004, 11:46 am: Dear XxshortyxX,
I dont really think that this chick, Jordyn, is really a good person to hang around with. Thats sweet that you're still trying to be her friend, but no. She's not a good person because a true friend would keep a secret. I dont think a secret with her would last too long, now, would it? Take it from a person who knows a person exactly like that.
~**~((xoxo Nicole Anne!))~**~ [ pinayprincess74's advice column | Ask pinayprincess74 A Question ]
FcChick2011 answered Friday December 24 2004, 11:28 am: XxshortyxX,
tell her that you really like sharing secrets with her, but latly you havnt been able to tell her anything because she tells everyone. If she still does after you talk to her, then no, i dont think thats a true friend. hop i helped!
*~*Danielle*~* [ FcChick2011's advice column | Ask FcChick2011 A Question ]
Shortie8959 answered Friday December 24 2004, 10:16 am: She might be a good friend, but not a true one. The best thing to do is just talk to her about how you feel. If she is a true friend, she'll change. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
Happy Holidays!
~*Erin*~ [ Shortie8959's advice column | Ask Shortie8959 A Question ]
JR830 answered Friday December 24 2004, 2:41 am: uhh girl, guy, no this is not a good friend ..or a person to hang around...if you slip something..i mean there ya go EVERYONE WILL KNO..then u'll be in trouble..lol im sorry...but she isnt a friend if she changes things..that is lieing..and you better be careful if you let her down..do it slowly .. she might lie about you..lol
glad to help (maybe)
JR [ JR830's advice column | Ask JR830 A Question ]
icey0990 answered Thursday December 23 2004, 11:48 pm: Having a big mouth is something thats simply apart of people. Maybe shes still a good friend dispite that horrible quality. If you like this person and think shes cool to hang with..then yeah keep hangin with her..but you`ll have to be careful of what you say. It will probably be hard to hang out with this kind of person a lot..but sure i guess being friends with her is ok..just be careful....
-melissa [ icey0990's advice column | Ask icey0990 A Question ]
Spark120 answered Thursday December 23 2004, 11:37 pm: someone who does that is definelty NOT a true friend! if someone does that to do, plus turn things around to make them bad,....why would she do that if you guys a tight?!?!?! i say forget her. [ Spark120's advice column | Ask Spark120 A Question ]
Makoto answered Thursday December 23 2004, 11:12 pm: 2 suggestions
IF SHE A RATIONAL PERSON TO TALK TO - talk to her about it n ask her bout it concerning the friendship.
IF NOT - discontinue the friendship because you can't trust some1 who twist words and secrets.
This "Erica Kane" needs to stop. You don't have to worry about her. She'll just have to find out the hard way, and when she does, your hands will be clean knowing you weren't associated with her.
fluffy answered Thursday December 23 2004, 10:40 pm: if she tells everyone what people say and your scared that she might tell someone what you say about someone else than she isnt a good friend and if i was you i wouldnt hang around her untill she stops. [ fluffy's advice column | Ask fluffy A Question ]
BeFABULOUSxo answered Thursday December 23 2004, 10:38 pm: sure shes an okay person to hang aruopnd with jus not tell ur soul too.. its not a true friends....if ur lookin for a best friend outta her.. give up lol.. or u cuz talk to her n tell her to stop or get sumone else to do it lol *hope i helped!* love alwaiiz, aLi *happy holidays!* *feedback is appreciated!* [ BeFABULOUSxo's advice column | Ask BeFABULOUSxo A Question ]
tcklmepink13 answered Thursday December 23 2004, 10:17 pm: i dont like people that tell everyone everything they hear...so in my opinion i wouldnt hang out with her. sure i gossip some but ppl like that gossip bout everything no matter what. also if this person was your friend then she wouldnt go around sayin things that werent true. so basically i dont think she is a tru friend...a tru friend wouldnt do that. and i also dont think that you should hang around a person like that but like i said that jus MY opinion...with these kind of questions you have to base your decision on what you think...not what other people think. hope i helped! ~britt~ [ tcklmepink13's advice column | Ask tcklmepink13 A Question ]
tish answered Thursday December 23 2004, 10:15 pm: i dont think that a real friend is someone who goes around telling other people there sercets if she really does this then shes not a very good friend. i think you should tell her how you feel about her telling everybody your sercets.-tish [ tish's advice column | Ask tish A Question ]
Karen answered Thursday December 23 2004, 10:06 pm: A friend shouldn't be going around, telling everyone anything that you tell them! A friend is someone who should keep your secrets and not tell them! This girl is definitely not a true friend! You can still hang around with but just don't tell her anything! Hope I helped :)
-Karen [ Karen's advice column | Ask Karen A Question ]
xpianogirl89x answered Thursday December 23 2004, 9:58 pm: I don't think this is a really good friend to hang out with... She doesn't really sound like a true friend either but don't judge her on just this. Sometimes friends can make mistakes. I would talk to her and find out why she does this.. is it for attention? or is she worried about people? If she doesn't change how she acts you can still stay friends but just be careful how much you tell her.
babeoriental answered Thursday December 23 2004, 9:53 pm: well i think she isn't much of a friend. she may be fun to hang out with but i mean she's not trustworthy. she's more of the person you have fun with but not the person to talk to. [ babeoriental's advice column | Ask babeoriental A Question ]
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