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i have been best friends with Alex for 4 years. This year, i found out that he likes me. And i like him. He has attempted to ask me out but i am always busy with something else. I feel very bad because he doesnt understand how much i really care about him. He is also known as the school hottie and he flirts with all the girls at out school. I dont want to go out with someone who flirts with everyone right in front of me; what do i do??
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You should really just be honest with him. Tell him that you like him and care for him a lot but you don't want to go out with him and make him feel left out because you're always busy. You should also tell him that it bothers you that he flirts with all of the girls at your school. Hope I could help! ~Brit
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well he may be the school hottie but if he likes you and you like him you should go for it..i mean if you go out maybe he wont flirt with other girls or maybe you should tell him that you dont like it when he does that maybe hell understand.
*Love Ashlie*
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This is modern days girl!!! If you really like him then ask him out!! What do you havet to lose? you said yourself that he likes you!!! if hes been your best friend for 4 years then you should be able to trust him to tell him about how you feel with the whole flirty thing! if he doesnt understand how you feel then maybe he isnt ure best friend after all... hope it all works out for you!
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Well before you say to going out set rules. Like try not to flirt w/others in fronto of me or behind my back. Set rules. you know. And sometimes you will be busy like sense its x-mas break me and my bf dont get to see eachother.. so we just really survive with like a 10 min. phone call. So there are times where you are going to busy and thats how it works so maybe just give a try and if it doesnt work then just break up and act like nothing happaned. Happy Holidays!! Trix
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You should say yes. If he starts flirting in front of you just tell him it bothers you. If you care about him this much go for it. I hope I helped!
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If you really are seriouse and want to go out with him, then tell him that you do want to, but your not sure if you should since he is always flirting with outher girls. He can have friends that ar girls, but if he flirts with them then he is not worth it. Hope i helped!
*~*Daniele*~*
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Talk to him and tell him how you feel and tell him that you're not quite comftorable with him flirting with other girls in your presence . Tell him how you truly feel about the issues you're having . Tell him the circumstances you've been going through . Maybe you could compromise a bit when it comes to the flirting bit because he can look as long as he doesn't touch . Try not to pass off as jealous . Work on that issue . Talk to him .
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hey, i think you should tell him how you feel i mean mabye if you tell him how you feel he would stop flirting with everybody in the front of you.give it a try.-tish
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well its like this if he flirts with many other girls while he supposly liking you what kind of signal is he sending you!! i think u need too just stay friends with him because he doesnt look like he can be very serious in a relationship!!
hope i helped!!
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well if your busy then make time for just you two and give him a chance to ask you out. and besides the only reason why he's prolly flirting alot is becuase he doesn't have a girlfriend.
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Talk to him! Tell him how you feel about him flirting with everyone! Tell him that you are interested in going out with him but you're you just busy! He'll understand once you tell him how you feel! Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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