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Err, i was bored and found this website. Thats that. Ok, so about me:
I am interested in Phillosophy, Poetry, litterature on anything thats worth the read and I love to write as well. I questioned the world around me all my life so the answeres eventually came in different forms. Because of this, I am a good source for advice.
Im on my break from college and i have to much time on my hands so I'll be giving advice when i have nothing better to do.
My motto is, for every little bit of advice you get, you should get off your ass and do something about your problems, just getting advice wont help, words soothe the problem for a little while they don't dispense with it.
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I have a problem: I am a lonely introvert, and I try to get out and make friends. But my problems is that most people only want to talk about superficial things such as house, car, kids, job, and shopping. While I know those are what most people care about, these topics bore me to death. I like deeper conversations about philosophy or literature. I don't mean to be conceited, but it's hard to find smart people to talk to. Why can't I find anyone on my level? Should I dumb myself down to fit in? Any comments are appreiciated. Thank you!
I am the same way, i know how you feel, you just need stimulation. I understand you completely, you need to get away from the trivial monatony of every day conversation, its like most people are not alive, they dont think, dont question, they travel through this world looking for the next temperary satisfaction, but they aren't happy inside, they arent honest, they dont stop and think and question everything, they just are, its like, why are we human if we dont actualy live and think? its hard to find people to talk to indeed. but its not impossible, just look outside the normal groups of people you would talk to, look elsewhere. I wish you luck
My mouse is obese. I don't know what to do--I put her in an exercise ball and she just sat there (I don't think she knew what to do). I don't want to give her less food because I'm afraid she'll starve. What can I do to make my mouse lose weight? note--I've tried gerbil wheels on other mice, but they sometimes get caught and die so I'm afraid to use it.
well if shes fat than maybe she wont get caught it in it...
hey, well i am a 16 yr old girl. 2 years ago i was in a bad car accident and fell into a coma. i was in it for 2 years and i woke up a week ago. well, i am kinda out, and well i was wondering, what kind of stuff is in? stores, music, fashion, hair and stuff like that. i am kinda confused! thx!
depends on the kind of person you are, whatever you like is "in", everyone has their own stuff they like, so experiment with different music, fashion and such.
i appologize now for this being long...but i just really need some advice!
ima 14 female freshman...
it starts off in 7th grade, me and this guy got 2 gether..we dated for a year. broke up in 8th grade..he messed with sum 7th graders. we were supposed 2 get back 2gther, but he ended up switchin schools. during the summer after 8th grade, we kept in touch..talked on the phone, chilled @ the movies and all that...and yes we were frends wit benefits!!...freshman year started we didnt talk so much, thats wen i met this guy..we dated 4 2 months, and juss a few weeks ago i broke up with him..once my ex boi found owt i was single again..we started talking...(and b4 i broke up wit my boi he told me he would b waiting 4 me!)...so it was true he was waitin 4 me!...we been talkin alot latly! im guessing we do go owt..its juss i dont know if i can trust hiM!..i know how he is..im just scared ima get hurt again!..bkuz he sorta did mess roun wit others back in 7th grade!
you sound more like your just trying to be cool and expose your love life to everyone as if it makes you a better person. It just showes that you crave atention. It's not a bad thing to want atention, but make sure that your want for atention doesnt over power you so much that you become a worse person for it...
I'm 15 and kinda flat chested and I hate it cuz I don't fill out my clothes very well and I just wanna look good in my clothes and like im going to a wedding in a few months and I look so stupid in dresses becuz I look so flat, is there a way, like any exercises or foods or anything to make my boobs bigger? I heard that eating corn makes ur boobs grow.. is that true?
You should just stuff your bra if it bothres you that bad. Stop worrying about your chest, people arent going to be starring at you at the wedding they will be starring at the bride. It won't make any difference if you have boobs or not, your going to the wedding to honor the bride and groom not show off how you look.
I have always been the good girl and not really come out and share that i like someone because i have just always been like that and it feels like i can't break this stage. If there is any advice out there please respond or email me at dance4ever@charter.net
Thankz
You can break it if you really want to, its a matter of wanting something bad enough to break your comfort level. If you like someone than get in front of them, theres a much better chance of something happening if the person sees you more often, its psychologicaly proven that one of the largest criteria that we judge our mates by is proximity.
hi this is the girl who is comfused about her boyfriend well you said i should ask him but i dunno what to say could you kinda help meh out?
If he asked you out as a joke, why would he still be with you, maybe he did ask you out as a joke and now he really likes you, in either case, you should ask him. Tell him that you like him a lot and you want to know the truth. Either case, he should not get mad because there would be no reason for him to get mad.
I keep getting these nasty bloody noses, 5 times a day! What should i do?!
umm, go to the doctor.
my friend is beinng really rude & saying mean stuff about me what should i do?
a real friend would not do such, thus, she is not your friend, therefore, she is not important enough for you to get mad at what she says. problem solved.
My sister is seriously a devil, she can't keep her hands to herself! She abuses me by hitting me really hard and throwing furniture at me! I hate it when she does this and I can never make her stop! She swears at me and the thing about it is, is that she is my younger sister! I 've already told my parents and they don't do much excpet ground for a week! i am seriously getting hurt and I don't know what else to do! what should i do?
hmm, tell her she gets three strikes, if she gets three, throw a blanket on top of her and start wailing away for a little while, if that doesn’t work, pepper spray or holy water...
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I'm a 14 yr old girl and I work at the gym 4 days a week, plus im a baskeatball player. so i want to bulk up and define my muscels. i want to do this Healthfully. so know of any good shakes or powders? Thanks kmagirl16
im a trainer and i never recomend shakes and powders for people, natural is the way to go. If you need more nutrients, add another meal to your diet. Also, talk to the trainers at your gym.
okay i am so confused. i hate rumors. two of my closest guy friends who are really close to my boyfriend are sayign two different things. one says that he just asked meh otu as a joke and the other says he really really likes meh. who should i believe? should i ask him myself becuase i am afraid he may take it the wrong way. i don't say this much but i love him. i trust him but when we went to the movies he didn't do squat he just sat there. his excuse was his dad was there. but i mean his dad couldn't see us and i am sure of it. should i move on or wait it out and see what happens? please help i would highly appreciate it.
i wouldnt be comfortable "doing squat." if my dad was anywhere in the theater... thats just weird, yeah you should ask him.
My sister was raped and killed about a year ago ( we havent found out who it is yet but they're still looking)and I lately I have been see her well her ghost and she always says some thing but I cant hear her like she just moves her lips and I want to tell my mom but I'm afriad she will put me in some kind a hospital or something but about a week ago my sister came back and she made me fallow her some how I mean she walked through the wall and I just had to fallow her and when I did it I found an old beat down house and I really really wont to show it to some one because I think it might be the guy that killed her
if your serious than do something about it, tell someone, maybe dont tell them about the ghost though.... i wish you luck.
Well, my brother told me that if you put up blue christmas lights it meant that you were Jewish. So does anyone know if this is true or is my brother smoking something? Thanks!!
xo_sherry_ox
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what does light color have to do with being jewish? we dont celebrate christmas lol, why would we put up lights on random holidays we dont celibrate?...
Well see heres the deal. I met this girl online and we really hit it off. I had always been against liking people long distance but that seems to have been blinded by the presence of this girl. Now I dont want to use the L word because i mean techincally we havent met but i get a certain feeling everytime i talk to her and im like always waiting for her to get online. We do talk on the phone and stuff too. Should i pursue this at all or just accept that no matter how hard i try to make this work it never will, despite the fact i want it to with all my heart. 16/m
well, you can allways try, right? she might not be the person you think she is or she might be the girl of your dreams, in either case, its better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all... give it a shot, i say
I think I might have paranoia. I have a wonderful gf. I love her todeath, but she talks to the one guy, who constantly flirts with her and it pisses me off. She says dont worry about it and that she loves me, but I still get worried. What if she will start to like him? I know nothing will happen. Were perfect for each other but I feel like bad things will always happen. Can anyone give me sties to read up on it or tell me what I can do to not be paranoid? I dont want to lose her over my problems. I want to be normal.
you just like her a lot, i get that too, but in the end if there is no trust then there is no relationship, being scarred of losing the things that you are capable of loosing will ruin your life, you should focus more on what makes you and her happy instead of what can go wrong. Also, talk to her about it, if something makes you uncomfortable let her know, tell her that the guy is flirting with her and that she shouldnt want to be around guys that flirt with her since she has a boyfriend.
I am 35 and my older sister is 37.
I am a creative, intellectual type and she is a practical, common sense type. She does not understand me or why I love to read so much. She considers my creative writing a waste of time. What I love, she has no value for. What can I do or say to help her understand me? We are so different. She is a great sister otherwise.
what she values and what you value will probably be allways different, just tell her that writing is what makes you happy, she should understand that...
I have long dark brown hair (like almost down to the middle of my back) and it's kind of tapered.. and it's KIND OF got long layers (the lady was supposed to give me long layers but she did a bad job so it doesn't really look like I have any layers). It's straight (I blow dry it straight) but can get a LITTLE frizzy/wavy (on the ends) when it rains. What are some cute haircuts I could get (keeping my hair long) that wouldn't require much maintanance (blow dry, no straightening)
long flowing dark brown hair? hmm, dont cut it... :) if you have dark brown eyes then deffinetly leave your hair long, i think those two things go together hand in hand.
Ok i know this is going to souond stupid, but im willing to take that risk. ok how many holes does a girl have in her vagina? Because i looked and there was only 2 (counting your butt hole) but wen i wear a tampon i can still pee. Me and my friend were discussing it (i have NO idea why) so just give me an anwser please!
if you pee out of one and use a tampon in the other one, well that makes two... try taking an anatomy class or something.
isnt there a certain way to tell what bra size you are, i heard you take a measuring tape and find out the length all around your chest area but i dont know the rest about how to tell...cause every bra i try to wear never fits me right, please help!
try google, put in *how do I measure bra size?*