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Paranoid
I think I might have paranoia. I have a wonderful gf. I love her todeath, but she talks to the one guy, who constantly flirts with her and it pisses me off. She says dont worry about it and that she loves me, but I still get worried. What if she will start to like him? I know nothing will happen. Were perfect for each other but I feel like bad things will always happen. Can anyone give me sties to read up on it or tell me what I can do to not be paranoid? I dont want to lose her over my problems. I want to be normal.
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its normal don't worry. guys are more of a jealous type. you just love her so much that your afraid you'll lose her. it happens to alot of people. don't feel like your the only one.
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it perfectly normal to get annoyed over that and to worry about that noone wants to lose there loved one. but once again i said to someone else maybe you shoudl go get checked nad maybe get pills if its really that bad. But if she is asking to see you then she wants to see you but i love a bf who i am always seeing. I mean yeah i need time away from him but thats when i hang out with friends cuz i like hanging with friends from time to time as i do with him but i dont think she thinks you are to clingy if she is asking to hang out with you HoPe i HeLPeD ((RaTe Me PLZ) TRiX
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Talk to her about how SHE feels, not a bunch of people on a website. Tell her how you feel, since she loves you, she should be totally understanding. You have no reason to be paranoid though. If I were you, I would look up "Overcoming Paranoia," on a search engine. You are normal, everyone has a right to be paranoid at times. But, good luck, hope I helped, and Merry Christmas. -Angel
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you just like her a lot, i get that too, but in the end if there is no trust then there is no relationship, being scarred of losing the things that you are capable of loosing will ruin your life, you should focus more on what makes you and her happy instead of what can go wrong. Also, talk to her about it, if something makes you uncomfortable let her know, tell her that the guy is flirting with her and that she shouldnt want to be around guys that flirt with her since she has a boyfriend.
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what you talkin bout wanting to be normal thats normal to be like that not unless were both not normal.. but jus make sure your the same towards her and not change.. if she really loves you your not going to lose her.. love you lots HOLLA Ladessa
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I think you'd only have paranoia if you were running in circles screaming your head off. Don't worry, I think you're fine, you're just jealous. When she said not to worry and she loves you, she meant it. Good luck!
Happy Holidays!
Hope I helped!
~*Erin*~
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You really only have paranoia if you're like thinking about this all the time. And if you're like.. pacing back and forth forever about it.. if you know what I mean. I think you're fine, you're just jealous. And when she says not to worry she really means it! If she asks to see u all the time, like u say she does, then obviosly she loves spending time with you. But if you're still worried, go to the library and look up on some books about paranoia.
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Okay, do these things:
Number One: Take a long hot bubble bath. People think that only girls take bubble baths, and I know you are a guy, but really, it feels SOOO good and is one of the best stress breakers and it relaxes your tense nerves.
Number Two: talk to her about how you feel. Let her know how much you care about her, and ask her to let you know when you are too clingy.
Number Three: Think of how lucky you are to have such a great girlfriend! She asks you not too worry, because she loves you so much, and she wants to ALWAYS see you!
Number Four: I'm sure she wouldn't mind if you talked / flirted a little with other girls. It's okay to have a girlfriend and other friends who are girls.
Number Five: Plan a movie night. Seriously, just have her come over and watch a nice movie together with a bowl of popcorn. Do cute stuff, like put your arm around her or kiss her or offer to rub her feet. Girls love that stuff.
Number Six: Start to trust her. A relationship would be no where without a bond of trust.
Good Luck :)
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dear paranoid:
if you say your guyz are the perfect couple then why are you doubting her. the main thing of having a great relationship is trust. if she says she's not messing around with any other guy and only loves you and you trust her beleive her. she's a girl. i kno i have a boyfriend and i flirt sometimes i cna't help it. i'm a big flirt. but i still stay loya lto my boyfriend. if you keep asking her do you like him and blah blah it may offend her and lead her away from you. and if you really tihnk your seeing her too much let her hang out with her girlfriends give her some space but if she asks to hang out with you say yes. but remember let her breath once in a while. good luck!
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