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on and off relationship...with a MANWHORE!
i appologize now for this being long...but i just really need some advice!
ima 14 female freshman...
it starts off in 7th grade, me and this guy got 2 gether..we dated for a year. broke up in 8th grade..he messed with sum 7th graders. we were supposed 2 get back 2gther, but he ended up switchin schools. during the summer after 8th grade, we kept in touch..talked on the phone, chilled @ the movies and all that...and yes we were frends wit benefits!!...freshman year started we didnt talk so much, thats wen i met this guy..we dated 4 2 months, and juss a few weeks ago i broke up with him..once my ex boi found owt i was single again..we started talking...(and b4 i broke up wit my boi he told me he would b waiting 4 me!)...so it was true he was waitin 4 me!...we been talkin alot latly! im guessing we do go owt..its juss i dont know if i can trust hiM!..i know how he is..im just scared ima get hurt again!..bkuz he sorta did mess roun wit others back in 7th grade!
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why not, live a little. its better to love and lost than to never have loved at all. your young, enjoy it while ya got it!
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Nnn, he sounds okay. I think it would be all right to go out with him again. I mean, so he flirted/went out/yeah with some other girls after you broke up. Is that supposed to be a bad thing? He was single after all. And now so are you, so go for it. ^_^
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you sound more like your just trying to be cool and expose your love life to everyone as if it makes you a better person. It just showes that you crave atention. It's not a bad thing to want atention, but make sure that your want for atention doesnt over power you so much that you become a worse person for it...
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give it one more chance.. and if he messes up again tell him whos boss and lay him off.. but while yall go out.. trust him dont get up in his mess when he went out with some friends... or when he chills with other gurls.. if you really feel he is cheating on you ask him and if he says no belive it and when or if you find out it was tru.. DUMP HIM
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maybe you shouldnt be with him until you learn to trust him .. or if he never cheated on you the las time u were goin out with him mayb you should just trust him if he really likes you he wont do nething to hurt you. hope i helped ! =)
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well i think you should tell him how you feel i mean you dont want to get hurt again so i think that you should tell him that and see what he says about it.hope this helps.-tish
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Recognize the risk you're taking with your heart, recognize that you're scared, recognize that you're afraid of him messing around as he did in the 7th grade . Recognize these issues within and deal with them . There will ALWAYS be a risk at getting hurt when you're dealing with a guy in a relationship, and there will be apart of you that'll be scared because it's so NATURAL. You have to recognize and prepare yourself for the fact that he did cheat on you in the 7th grade, so if it does happen you'll be ready . HE'S GROWN AS AN INDIVIDUAL AS WELL AND MAYBE , JUST MAYBE, HE WON'T CHEAT ON YOU . I MEAN HE DID WAIT ON YOU. TAKE A RISK, HONEY . THAT'S WHAT LOVE IS ALL ABOUT AND IT MIGHT NOT BE TRUE LOVE . IT DOESN'T HAVE TO BE . GIVE HIM A CHANCE AND IF HE SCREWS IT UP, THEN IT'S HIS LOSS AND MOVE ON . IT WON'T BE EASY, BUT RELATIONSHIPS AREN'T EASY AND NOT LOVE . SO DEAL WITH YOUR ISSUES AND GIVE IT ANOTHER TRY .DON'T BE AFRAID TO RISK LOVE . IT'S SO ...WORTH IT .
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Set him straight, let him know that you don't want him unless you're perfectly secure about the fact that he won't cheat on you or anything. If he's willing to give up his chicks on the side for you, then it should be good. Don't let him run your relationship, so tell him what you want from him in order for things to work. Hope I helped, good luck, and happy holidays. -Angel
ps: don't let him move in with you, trust me, it's a nightmare. -Angel
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well you have to trust somebody befor anything happens.. so if i was you i wouldnt of even bothered.. but maybe he has grown up in the past two years and maybe became more mature.. hope i helped ~$Dez$~
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Talk to him about how you feel. If he tells you to trust him, then trust him, but if he hurts you again, just forget about him. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
Happy Holidays!
~*Erin*~
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