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Long distance stuff
Well see heres the deal. I met this girl online and we really hit it off. I had always been against liking people long distance but that seems to have been blinded by the presence of this girl. Now I dont want to use the L word because i mean techincally we havent met but i get a certain feeling everytime i talk to her and im like always waiting for her to get online. We do talk on the phone and stuff too. Should i pursue this at all or just accept that no matter how hard i try to make this work it never will, despite the fact i want it to with all my heart. 16/m
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My friend is going thru that to. Actually 2 ppl are. I Mean if you plan on meeting sometime then just hold it off until then but if you dont then move on but still talk. Its hard to do long distance relationships even with people you do know. I met brandon at camp and we went out for almost a year. It was very very hard! So i wouldnt do it. Because it starts to suck because you can never see them (HoPe I hElPeD RaTe Me ToO!!) TriXXie
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well, you can allways try, right? she might not be the person you think she is or she might be the girl of your dreams, in either case, its better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all... give it a shot, i say
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well,i think that you should give it a try just have faith in the relationship and anythings possible.hope this helps .-tish
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ok well i had the same problem and you may think its dumb taking this advice form 13/f but im going out with a guy who lives in NC and i live in TX and the same thing happend between us two, but we took a chance, and its been working out pretty good, i mean we've been together for 11 months!
so just take a chance if u really love her that much!
hope i helped
-sheila
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aw! that's how me and my boyfriend were at first for like a couple of weeks and then we finally met in person! i think it's really nice how you like her for her personality because that's the number one thing me and my boyfriend liked about each other! and that's the number one thing that matters most! you can definately make it work! don't give up.. maybe you can meet her in person? you really shouldn't give up on her if you know she's worth it and there's just something about her!
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okay i think that it all depends on how faar away she lives!
i mean if you have that certain feeling then you should go for it, but if you get that feeling for alot of girls then mabey it is just a fling!
you should ask her if you guys can meet in person and ask her if she thinks the relationship would work!
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-anonymous
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hey there! i can totally relate! i seriously think you should go for it! =] It sounds like you really ARE commited to it. I mean if you seriously get that feeling when you talk to her and if you wait for her, then yeah definitaly keep going with it. And remember, if you set your mind to it, anything is possible! I bet it'll work fine if you really put your heart to it. Hope I helped babe! Good luck. Tell me how it goes! *xox--angie**
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...umm who says this "girl" isnt a 45 year old hooker? sure talk to her online all you want, but don't get your hopes up!
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okay i have been through this too. and well if you really do like her like she's on your mind all the time and you literally wait at the computer or phone waiting for her i don't see why you shouldn't go for it. but if it doesnt work out you have to be prepared for it. talk it over with her ask her if she wants to commit or not. its up to you and her but thats just my advice think about it. it may turn out good.
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