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I juss can't take it!
Ok well there were these rumors goin round bout this girl and my bf liek she supposadly gave him head and stuff so i finally gut a chance to talk to her and sed oh that wasnt true she neva sed that and decided to tell me that my bf did a whole buncha stuff wid her ova the summer at some party or suntin. so i talked to my bf who i have been wid for ova a year and he sed it wasnt true but this girl seems so convincing and i mean i should trust and believe my bf and he sez he swears he really didnt do n e thing wid her but im juss so CONFUSED so help me out plz......
...lost soul...
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Oh man, that is so tough! Seriously hearing opposite sides always keep you guessing.
Well, since you don't have proof that he did anything with her you have to go by words. If you are not friends or know this girl, she might be saying this just to get you jealous or possibly break up with him so that she can have him. Girls are like that and it's such bullshit.
But on the other side, your boyfriend could be lying just so you wouldn't break up with him and get mad.
Ask your friends if they know or heard anything. If they didn't hear anything...and you really have no idea who is telling the truth or not maybe you should let it go. I know that the idea of him cheating is bad, but if you have no idea who is wrong you would be trying to figure this out for months. However, if you stay together with him and notice he could be cheating again, definitely consider moving on. I don't know who's right..I'm sorry sweetie, I wish I knew but I don't. And you have no clue either. The only thing I can tell you is that only you know in your heart who is right. Take some time and think about it. Was your boyfriend looking you straight in the eye with he said he did not do anything with that girl? And has that girl been notorious for saying stuff like that? Find out who she is, and if people know that she is an honest person. That should help. But don't get yourself worked up over this for a long time because you'll be stressed out all the time.
I hope I helped you out somewhat. It's hard without knowing what happened, you know? But I think you'll be able to tell in sometime. Good luck. I hate when that happens. Rumors carry on through out your life and you just have to have to find out from yourself, not anyone else. Have a wonderful holiday, sweetie!! Enjoy break! :D
Love,
Mandee
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you are right, you should believe your boyfriend. you should never believe rumors!! maybe that girl is saying those things to try and break you both up.. has your boyfriend ever done anything like this before? if he hasn't, i don't see why you should be so worried! you should know him real well by now, to know that he isn't that kind of a guy! and if you don't.. i don't see how it's been lasting a year, because relationships are about connection and trust!
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that has happened to me before and i trusted my bf but then the next ;like week or so i cot him making out with slut that i hate so trust the girl! that is what i hav learned! and i srr that this happened to you
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hey thats a tough situtaion right there...well first of all do you know if your bf likes her or she likes him? or do they flirt a lot? if you notice some signs then you should seriously talk to him and be like i trust you and realyl like you and so thats why i'm gonna ask if youre cheating on me with another person. tell him youre talkint his very seriously and you dont want him to lie to you. and if she is then theres no point of being with him...hope i helped take care. x3 SweetStar.
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