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i have this friend i like.. hes like my best guy friend but i want to be more than just a friend to him.. how can i tell him how i feel?

think about this...girlfriends and boyfriends break-up, friends are forever...you dont want to lose a great friend in a dating relationship...so take the chance only if you think that if sumthing happened u could go back to the way things were...but sadly the chances to that are 1 to a billion

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Well see heres the deal. I met this girl online and we really hit it off. I had always been against liking people long distance but that seems to have been blinded by the presence of this girl. Now I dont want to use the L word because i mean techincally we havent met but i get a certain feeling everytime i talk to her and im like always waiting for her to get online. We do talk on the phone and stuff too. Should i pursue this at all or just accept that no matter how hard i try to make this work it never will, despite the fact i want it to with all my heart. 16/m

...umm who says this "girl" isnt a 45 year old hooker? sure talk to her online all you want, but don't get your hopes up!

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I really like this boy and he says that he really likes me, however he has a girlfriend and doesn't want to hurt her by dumping her. He is always with me and he tells me that he cares and wants to be with me, but I don't want to get hurt. It hurts me enough to know that he has a girlfriend, I have never loved like this before. Everytime he kisses me I seem to melt. I want him so badly, but what about his gf. he is afraid and so am I?

hun, if he cheats on some other girl with you, there is no saying that he wont cheat on you with another girl. Sure, he may "want to be with" you, but that doesnt mean he doesn't "wanna be with" other girls too. the only way to avoid getting hurt is by speaking up and saying "Whats the deal,because i want to be with you but im not sure if you TRULY feel the same way"...good luck

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ok well im 13/m and i have feelings for my friend. The problem is that she has been going out with her boyfriend for a long time (year and like a month) andso i've been trying to be there for her and be her friend but now her and her bf are going through some rough times and she doesn't think he likes her anymore. I want to make a move but think that might be taking advantage of her and her situation. Should i go for it? Is it taking advantage of her current situatuion?

you are 13! if your feelings are that strong for the girl give it time...but most importantly start off by just being a good friend...if your their for her now, she will remember that in the long run.

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Well, I have two best friends, and i feel like the third wheel. Although they say im not, I feel like it and my parents see it too. I dont know if I should split off from them, or hang on? And, theyre always sort of depressing, and i dont like that...but every1 else in my school has best friends...i feel like i have none
help?

an odd number of peole never work out. thats why in most groups of friends there is usually an even ammount of people. Its not that your friends dont like you, its that with things such as one-on-one time...it only involves two people. im sure that if you and one of them spend a day togeather the other girl will feel jelous and like a "third wheel" too. so ask yourself if you really wanna be their friend. if yes, stick with them, knowing everything is not always going to be how you'd like it/if your not sure, or only hainging on to hold the title of "i have a best freind" mabey you should start being more true to yourself.
hope i helped...x0

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WeLL!Every guy that I get close too ends up hurting me in the end, so I have a major trusting issue with ppl. I dont even trust some of my best friends anymore just bc they have hurt me and talked about me behind my back. I am not sure who to trust. I go to school with my ex bf who hates me but he is one of the very few ppl I trust still. he has hurt me in the past but I have always been able to trust him. I cant talk to him bc he hates me but I really need to talk to him. What do I do?

If you had such a big trusting issue i dont think you'd go back to someone who as hurt you in the past. i dont think your so called friends deserve you if they are willing to talk behind your back. mabey its more then trust in some cases, this might be more of a betrayal issue. mabey your ex feels like you hurt him too and the only way to have him overcome the problem is time. take things slow with becoming friends again, mabey start with a friendly smile or compliment, so remember DONT rush things, stuff will even out over time and GOOD LUCK!..hope i helped...xo

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ok so i have this so called friend that i hate so much and she hates me a lot to..........everytime we try to figure something out it seems to get bigger and bigger i mean i could be nice to her but it would be really hard for me to do that because i cant stand her in any way! you will probably just say dont hang out with her or anything....but my bestest friends are always hanging out with her so i have to hang out with her or i will lose all of my friends.....WHAT SHOULD I DO?!?!?!? PLEASE HELP!

you can hate her all you want, but you have to respect her...as long as you both while hating eachother try not to talk behind eachothers back, or turn other friends against her, there is nothing wrong with truly hating her. talk to her and say "look we dont have to be friends but give me my space and i'll give you yours"

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I have a pretty big emergancy...
My boyfriend gave me a hicky like 30 minutes ago and I was wondering if theres ANYWAY to help speed the process of it disapearing?
please help if my parents see this then i'll get killed!

dont act obvious... if your parents ask you what it is say a rash. but if u randomly start wearing turtlenecks, a band aid, or alot of make up on your neck, you will draw attention to it faster.

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i havent had a girlfriend in a while im a 15 year old guy. im in my first year of high school. im not ugly in fact almost everyday the upper class men girls always telling me how cute i am i hate it though the only thing is im short im like 5'3 and at my school thats short i dont know why i cant get a girlfriend i dont know what im doing wrong thanks i need advice!!

well if your looking for the right kind of girl, she shouldnt care about your height. so when your around the girls put your height aside and be yourself...hope i helped..x0

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okay. im still a virgin. but i think im ready to lose my virginity to my boyfriend of a year and 2 months. we have done nothing BUT kissing. and im so happy hes patient with me and doesnt push me to do anything i choose not too. but now i am ready BUT i want to go on birth conrol and use a condom just to be on the safe side. the thing is im not on the pill so what would be the best way to ask my parents to put me on the pill without them thinking imma have sex.? cuz they know im still a virgin and think imma stay one till marriage. which i was planning on doing, but i think im ready to lose it..and i've found that special one to lose it to

~* when your period comes around complain how much it hurts and say it alwyas hurts this bad and it really irregular, then, buy making this known to your parents, tell them you heard that the PILL can lessen your periods to four times a year and ask them if you could try it out...

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