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Since u probably don't know me, i'm 2 smart 4 u. I have the IQ of a 16-year-old.
Only being 13, i'm going through difficult times. So u can ask me any thing. I can be an enjoyable person at times. I'M NOT SAYING I"M perfect

Love Life: single/ not dating any one till i'm OLDER
Money: A good amount
Family: 11
Neice:1
Grandparents: 2
Parents:2
Sisters:7
Brother-in-laws:1
Mood Status: Content

I will try 2 be patient.that is one thing i lack
play:sports,musical things,other peoples tolerance. Bless u, even though u probably didn't sneeze.1st MARQUEE2nd MARQUEE3rd MARQUEE4th MARQUEE
E-mail:your buisness?
Location: Lake Bluff
Occupation: Education
Age: 13
AIM:L3lions, likeitornot05, socksrockoff
Yahoo:chicagogirl_5
Member Since: December 21, 2004
Answers: 13
Last Update: December 29, 2004
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I have liked this boy from the moment I met him{which was 3rd grade and I'm in 8th now}. Well last year he was in my class and we talked a lot. It seemed like he liked me a little bit more than a friend. But in the Summer we had a festival and my friends went up to him and asked Would you ever consider going out with missy? He said no. But the girl who asked him goes to a different school and he had no clue who she was but my other friend went up with her. Well they had asked this infront of one of his friends too they said that he kind of smilied when he said no and he looked at the girl he didn't know gabby in a confused way then to my friend emmie like who is that girl and then to his friend and his friend elbowed him and he smilied. And they went away laughing. But later he told this guy that I liked him right in front of me and I rolled my eyes and he saw me. And this year one of his friends said that he did like me last year. But his friend nick knew that that i liked seth so idk if he just said that to make me feel better. But anyways I have tried so much to forget about him I've gotten other b/f's but it didn't work out because I liked him more than them. And he never comes online and i'm not gonna call him and tell him this. And hes not in my class this year. But what can I do? Do you think that he may of liked me? (link)
try talking 2 him after school. Find out where he goes after school. You might wanna talk 2 his friends about his G/F status. He might still be single cause he still likes u. RATE ME


wat are love handles? (link)
i dunno wat that is. is it real?


Hey well i have a problem, this guy that i really liked my freshman year(know a senior). He lives with his girlfriend but his girlfriend, but she doesnt give him any sex and he comes to me. How would i know if he is using me or not? Please let me know i am desperate to know, he tells me he loves me and i dont know if i should believe him because he says he says that he will never hurt me. I dont know if he is just using me for sex or not. i need help. i really like him and i like when i have sex with him too but i dont know. (link)
Try not having sex. it's not everything. Pray 2 God


ok so, what do you do if you're stuck in this situation:

your dad had an affair for 3 years .. without telling your mom or you or your brothers

sounds bad enough, right?

well .. he's still with the whore and expects me and my brothers to warm up to her... be nice to her .. accept her into the family and what not. oh right, and to add to that: she has a 2 1/2 year old son who is annoying as hell.

she comes with us on vacations, and i know my dad spends the money ...that he needs to 'save' before we're able to buy a BASKETBALL HOOP? ... on her

thats not right.. and i've tried having those long serious chats with him. he thinks i'm just doing what my mother does ... hating her for no reason. she screwed over my whole life, why shouldn't i hate her? ...what should i do? and don't say i should try to like her .. cause thats not happening .. other than that i'm up for any ideas

helllp me (link)
shun him, talk 2 her about how she RUINED ur life!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
i'm very sorry and tell your dad that the 9th commandment is(in my own words) DO NOT ENVEY OTHER PEOPLES WIVES, BE TRUE TO YOUR OWN WIFE

no offense, but your dad has no respect 4 ur family, and he soul pull his face out of his @$$. sry, but he must change what he has tangled UP.im very sorry about everything. hope i help. accept my simpathy.


I am 35 and my older sister is 37.
I am a creative, intellectual type and she is a practical, common sense type. She does not understand me or why I love to read so much. She considers my creative writing a waste of time. What I love, she has no value for. What can I do or say to help her understand me? We are so different. She is a great sister otherwise. (link)
Tell her that writing and reading is part of the soul, that keeps it stonger. Not all value the ability to read and write, but i do since, i can do both fairly well. Writing express what can not be said. reading is not gathering information, it is living and breathing reality, weather or not it is fantasy. if your sister does not know the joy of loving the reading and writing talents, then she obviously can not understand it. tell her " we all have our loves, our dreams and we all have our OWN lives." it is rare that other understand each others life.
hope i helped. seasons greetings.
~some1 13/f


What should i get my mom and dad for xmas? i dont have any money and i cant go out and buy anything so i was wondering if any of you have any ideas on what i could give them or make them? i hope you have some ideas because i only have 2 days! i will rate for effort! ill give you a five! (link)
Give them your services. help clean up, or be nice to them/siblings, more then usual. If you have popsical sticks make them a manger/log cabin, something simalar to that. If some cleaning needs to done around the house, wake up eariler then them and clean up a room, or part of somethin.make a big "i love u"or "merry christmas"sign and put it by the presents or in their room. make a nice card for them w/ your best drawing in it. get some pictures of yourself, and make a small colage(i didn't spell that right, but its a clutter of pictures). try bakeing some treats 4 them(if u can cook). Thank you for helping me, cause i was in the same situation as u were. hope i helped. Merry christmas

~some1


I have a problem, I reallly like this guy, im calling him dave. Daves cute, smart,(im in GT), and nice. Since I'm in a gifted program, theres only 40 kids in a grade, so yeah. A guy likes me and I don't like him at all. I really like this guy, and I also like this guy who liked me last year, but I doubt he still does. I really need help, thnaks. (link)
Maybe you need some time to take a rest. If you really like them(i'm kinda confused w/ which 1 u like) try being friends w/ both of them and u might find out that you don't like either, or both, love suprizes everybody. Try being JUST friends. Things should role out....
~some1


is it just plain wrong for a 15 year old straight male to babysit? (link)
NO, if u need the money then NO,it's perfecty normal. I have 5 sistas, age/21, age/19, age/16, and i babysit as well. it's perfecty normal


i've been dating my boyfriend for 5 months. he comes over almost every day, considering he lives in the neighborhood next to me. every time he comes over, he thinks we always have to do stuff sexually. and the last time i saw him, i asked him if everything has to be about sex and he said yes. should i dump him, talk to him, not see him as much? help! thank u! i rate high =) (link)
Do you think you have to do sexual stuff?
You probably don't, but if you really want to date some1 who uses you to jump ahead to sex, then you should probably say"Let's do something else tonight, bowling,(do not go to the movies, it's dark in there)or go to some public place, (then you'll be safe)"or do some social projects after school, your whole life doesn't hav to be about ur b/f. Try slowly going away from everynight w/ him. some1 might get hurt.


ok here is the thing my mom is really annoyin she is always gone with her boyfriend but it "also has to do with business". And me and my brothers don't like my moms boyfriend but if either of us tell her that she will say ' what i can't have my own personal life' but the thing is she always asks us if we like him and if we say how we really feel she will just change it around so it is our fault and she can't have a life. O yea and she is ALWAYS down where her bf lives on business and stays there for weeks at a time sometime. but my question is how can i tell my mom how i feel with out her changing it around so it is my fault cause i have tryed telling her how i felt before and she started crying and said fine then i won't have a personal life or make us more money when i would rather have less money and a mother then more money and a mother that is NEVER home??? i need help because this is ruining my life please help i don't know what to do anymore!!!!! thanks (link)
Tell your mom that you want her to be happy, but she also needs to make her family happy, and your conserned about your brothers, so then you want to help both your bros, and yourself out. Killing 2 birds w/ 1 stone!


Okay so here's the deal. There is this guy at school who i have liked for a little while..So today i talked to him for the first time in a while and he was pretty quiet and so was I. He told a friend of mine he would ask me out if he got to know me better. My first question is..since we are both pretty shy is there a chance of this happening, secondly what could I talk to him about because i get nervous..thanks :-) (link)
Many things happen like this. Don't let him know that you like him 'cause all boys can be meen, so it might be a joke. Try to be just friends, and see if you change your feeling for him. Things will role out in time.


Me and my boyfriend of a year had sex not too long ago, and we didn't use protection. He said he didn't cum or even pre-cum but I don't think he is a hundred percent sure. Is there a possibility I could be pregnant? What are the signs of being pregnant? I really don't want to be pregnant I am only thirteen! Where are good places to get protection. Oh, and we didn't have sex for long! It only last a minute because we were really worried! (link)
Maybe you need to call in an adult. Ask a trusted guardian if you can have a trip to your doctor. Your doctor can run some tests, and find out whats happening. He/she/it will give you the 411, and if you need to take some medicine, you'll get a persciption. My Mom is a nurse and helped me w/ my time"of knowledge"for puperty. This happens all the time, and for more help, go to www.beinggirl.com in the older teen section, they have many help collums on this situation there. Hope this helped!


isnt there a certain way to tell what bra size you are, i heard you take a measuring tape and find out the length all around your chest area but i dont know the rest about how to tell...cause every bra i try to wear never fits me right, please help! (link)
Well, I have the EXACT answear to your question.

1) Mesure around your chest, just below your breasts.

2) Add 5 inches if its an odd number; add 4 inches if it is an even measurement.

3) To find out what cup you need, measure around the fullest part of your breasts.

If the two numbers are the same, you need an AA-cup

If the 2 numbers differ by 1 inch, you need an A-cup

If the 2 numbers differ by 2 inches, you need a B-cup

If the 2 numbers differ by 3 inches, you need a C-cup

If the 2 numbers differ by 4 inches, you need a D-cup

Example:
Natalie's first measurement was 27 inches. Adding 5 inches gives 32 inches. This is her bra measurement. Natalie's second measurement was 33 inches. The difference in the 2 numbers is 1 inch, so she needs an A-cup

So Natalie's bra measurement is 32A

For other "girl tips" go to www.beinggirl.com




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