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Okay so here's the deal. There is this guy at school who i have liked for a little while..So today i talked to him for the first time in a while and he was pretty quiet and so was I. He told a friend of mine he would ask me out if he got to know me better. My first question is..since we are both pretty shy is there a chance of this happening, secondly what could I talk to him about because i get nervous..thanks :-)
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Dont no what to do bout the nervous thing but yes there is a chance
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Just talk to him about anything! It could even be the weather! It doesn't matter what you talk about, as long as you talk! The more you talk, the less nervous and shy you'll be! And yes, I do think there's a chance! Good luck!
Hope I helped!
~*Erin*~
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You shouldn't force conversation, so if you can't think of anything to say you can both just sit quietly and enjoy eachothers company. If you really like him then ask him out. If you dont take action the world will just pass you by.
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Just be yourself. I mean, just take a deep breathe and relzx. Pretend like he's just of your friends, just one of the guys. And just be yourself, you wouldn't want him to fall for someone you're not. But, just ask little questions and keep holding a conversation and I'm sure he'll do the samething. Once you guys start talking alittle bit more, you guys will get more comfortable with each other. Maybe give him your number or something. Like when you two are talking, be like "Hey call me sometime!" and then give him your number. Maybe try having a friend come with you while you talk to him so you'll be more comfortable. Bring that friend he told that if he got to know you better he would ask you out. I hope this helps and if you still need help, just post a message in my inbox! Good luck hun!
xoxo Kourtney
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Many things happen like this. Don't let him know that you like him 'cause all boys can be meen, so it might be a joke. Try to be just friends, and see if you change your feeling for him. Things will role out in time.
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Try not to hang around with him alone, like talk to him when your laughing with your friends, so conversation seems eaiser. Also, don't talk about stupid stuff like the weather, see what his favorite sports are, etc. and share interests. Don't make yoursle flooked stupid and blonde either,but don't tell stupid jokes. Hope I helped!! <3Julia
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just dont asct shy around him and he probably wont act shy around you. start a conversation about something happening at school about a test or a project, maybe a dance coming up or some type of event. then he may become more talkitive around you if you stop acting so shy.
hope i helped!
~~StEf~~
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Try to talk to him about things that you both can relate to . Something that you both like or something that you'd like to find out about him . Try asking him about his issues/viewpoints on matters , if you want to find more out about his opinions . Try arranging dates and find your inner comfort when you're around him . Try being content with yourself when you're around him . Get to know each other better by going out on dates, conversing over the phone, talking during school lunch, or other activities that'll cause you and him to get to know each other better .
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