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I have dark brunette hair and fair skin. My eyebrows are really light-colored but I wear dark eyeliner. I wear eyebrow pencil, but I was wondering, what are some ways to make my eyebrows darker without it looking fake? Like I wish there was a way to dye the hair of your eyebrows or something lol.. is there? Thanks, I'll rate high.

Use just normal hair coloring, trust me, I had to do it once!! That way it won't get on your skin, and you got beautiful eyebrows-also, try lighter coats periodically so it wont be noticable Hope I helped;)

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There is this guy in my class [i like him]...i think that MAYB just mayb he mite like me...
Reasons Why...
*Sometimes I see him look at me
*He talks softly round me
*Acts tougher around me
*Smiles when i smile at him
*Trys to make me Laugh
Does this mean he mite like me? plz give me ur best advice!*i rate*

x0x Thankz...
Questions I Cant Answer

I don't know this guy, but hate to say it, most guys just smile at you if you smile, cause its just polite, but you never know, but a guy i like does that stuff to me, but doesnt like me, so good lick though!!Julia♥

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Okay so here's the deal. There is this guy at school who i have liked for a little while..So today i talked to him for the first time in a while and he was pretty quiet and so was I. He told a friend of mine he would ask me out if he got to know me better. My first question is..since we are both pretty shy is there a chance of this happening, secondly what could I talk to him about because i get nervous..thanks :-)

Try not to hang around with him alone, like talk to him when your laughing with your friends, so conversation seems eaiser. Also, don't talk about stupid stuff like the weather, see what his favorite sports are, etc. and share interests. Don't make yoursle flooked stupid and blonde either,but don't tell stupid jokes. Hope I helped!!

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I live in an apartment building. I wanted to do laundry last night, but all 6 of the washers were being used. Two were no longer running so I decided to come back 20 minutes later.

When I did, the machines were still full of clothes. A little mad I decided I would come back in a while. When I came back, all the machines were off, but full of clothes, including the same two that had been off for almost an hour. And the dryers were open, so it is not like they couldn't use them. I got so fustrated, I just decided to not to do the laundry. This has happend before as well.

Is it acceptable to just remove other peoples clothes from the machines? And if so how long should I wait before removing them? I know it's kinda rude, but so is hogging the washing machine.

If anyone was there, ask them first, but otherwise, wait a little while, cause someone may have just went to get money or something. But if it's been that long, then go ahead, but if they dont come back, you can always put their clothes back when your done.

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Theres this guy at school.This will be an average story but anyways,He waits for me by my locker and he will hold my hand and flirt with me.He just makes me feel really special.We're not going out but sometimes i feel like we are.We've known eachother since we were 5.We are now teenagers.Can someone tell me if he might like me??im a female.
Signed,
Crushed

I can't say if he does or not, but try hinting him out that you like him. Guys are kinda clueless though, so ask him out!! He really likes you at least if he does all that stuff for you, but remeber, do you really want to stretch out a friendship to something thta may not last? I hope I helped.

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Ok, in school I'm in the "popular group" and my friends are really nice and everything but sometimes they really annoy me. Here's why. Whenever a guy asks them out they'll like automaticlly say yes (even if they don't like them), and when a guy dumps them or they dump a guy they'll be going out with someone else within an hour. Anyway, for some reason this really bugs me. I don't really no why either. Now a guy asked me out and I said no because I don't like him and now they keep calling me too picky. What do I do?

The same thing happened to me, and I handled it the right way and my friends stopped. Just give them a serious face-to-face talk saying, Just because I turned down a guy, doesn't mean I'm picky about particular ones. It just means I happen not to like him, and want to meet other cuties out there, Please accept what I'm trying to tell you guys, even if you don't agree with me. And it also seems like your friends aren't really forever, so try meeting other people. Hope I helped.

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I have an oral presentation to give on monday (it's powerpoint) and i'm terrified... like this is one of my biggest fears ever. Whenever i go to give a speech or something my voice starts really quivering and shaking and it sounds like i'm crying. Is there any way to stop this from happening? also... any other advice on giving speeches would be greatly appreciated. Thank you!!!

Have your friends save something really funny to say before you go. Also, practice so you'll know it like the back of your hand.

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i have these pimples around my nose, like everywhere on the sides of my nose, so it make my nose look really red and all that and the pimples WONT go away! i have tried sooo much stuff and it DOESNT work! its really pissing me off and they have been there for like ever! i cant even remember my nose being pimple free! do you know any good pimple creams or something that will help me! PLEASE!

Yes, I had the same issue, and my skin now looks better than it ever has. Try to use something with 2.5% Benzel Peroxide, like Netrogeana Acne Spot Treatment. Don't apply too much, or else your face may itch, but it really works, and in like 5 days.

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ok i like this girl lets call her jade,she's really pretty but my best friend always flirts with her when i talk to her for instance i broke up with this girl like a month ago and he always flirted with her and now jade flirts with him to should i ask jade out or should i shutup him up cause he really's funny and i'm just as funny as him but he flirts and it makes me jealous,so should i ask her out or shutup him up.
signed,
jealous friend

Think about it this way; are you going to ask her out just because you want your friend to stop? Or because you actually have interest in this girl?

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Im in my junior year of highschool and i know its one of the most important years besides your senior year.. but i have no motivation what-so-ever. I have motivation in school cause my friends are doing work, so i might as well do it too. but when i get home i dont want to do it... i just dont care. I was wondering if there was something that will get me motivated.. thank you in advance!

The best thing to do is to think of your future. No matter what you want to do with your life it will invlove your education. ASk your parents to help you keep more on top of things, like reminding you of due dates, and maybe even bribing you for a little while. You can also ask your teachers for help also. Ask them if you can do a report on something you really enjoy, instead of the monthly book report. And even set limits for yourself. And have study groups more often, with friends who will have fun working with you, but not distract you. I hope you work this out.

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Ok..this may be long..I go to school (I'm in 8th grade) like everyone else and I hang out w/ my little group consisting of 6 people including myself. Well, one of the girls is completley attatched to me even though she is annoying and I don't want to be her friend. Well she invites herself over and does w/e she pleases and my mom does not like her or her family at all! Well how do I turn her down in a nice way and move away slowly? (that's just my first problem) Then there is another girl that I absolutley adore! We are just getting close b/c my first friend talks bad about her constanly I never wanted to be friends with her...well anyway I want to be her friend and be close with her but not the immature childish one...any suggestions on how to solve this? Thanks alot!

You shouldn't reject your friend! But you certainly can move away from her. When she invites you over, don't make excuses, just say you can't make it. If she asks why and how about another day, say I'll have to check back with you. If she simply brings herself into your house, then say your in the middle of something and can't play now. If she lures you into coming over, escape and no matter what, don't give in. And about her family, maybe it's time to stop sending the old Christmas card, and giving a friendly hello. And tell your friend at lunch when she sits with you, say I was planning on sitting with another girl, if you don't mind. (referring to the girl you want to get close to) and have her over, and share your interests, but not jump inot things. I hope everything works out

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My daughter does not want to know me and is trying to exclude me from the rest of the family i am heartbroken she cant see that i love her and my other children she is married and has children of her own please find me some answers as to why this is happening

The reason why your daughter is probably doing this would be hard to figure. But you can make an educated guess to what shes doing. She probably wants to have more of her won life now, not that she doesn't love you. But if she doesn't contact you often, or at all, or seems depressed when you are around her, she may have a serious issue. She also may know a dirty secret of yours which you would hate for her to know. Either way, you need to talk to her, because she just may be waiting. I hope you work this out.

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My best friend is my twin, and she just recently had a boyfriend. Their not together, but they didn't break up. What I'm trying to say, is only I know the truth about my sisters fatal death last year. No Way did he do it, but his best friend is a suspect, but I know who did it and it wasn't him. My sisters boyfriend doesn't know and I'm afraid to tell anyone. I've been sucking up the courage to for the past few months, and I'm ready to open up. I just need help about who to open up to.

Wow, I'm extremely sorry about your sister. There's one thing that you should not do; and that's to write a not to someone without telling who you are. You need to pick someone who you know will beleive you, not someone who will laugh and shrug it off. You should let your sister's boyfriend's friend know you know that he didn't commit such a monsterous crime, because if he goes on trial, he'll have your story to back him up. You should also tell one of your parents, but not your friends, because you never know what could happen. It will be hard,but if you tell the right people, it will make it so much easier

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