Question Posted Saturday December 18 2004, 10:44 pm
ok i like this girl lets call her jade,she's really pretty but my best friend always flirts with her when i talk to her for instance i broke up with this girl like a month ago and he always flirted with her and now jade flirts with him to should i ask jade out or should i shutup him up cause he really's funny and i'm just as funny as him but he flirts and it makes me jealous,so should i ask her out or shutup him up.
signed,
jealous friend
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Blade answered Sunday December 19 2004, 1:56 am: well first of all let your freind know you are really interested in Jade and ask him to back off a bit. try and hook him up wit sum1 else. keep on flirting with Jade and let her know that when she flirts with other guys it makes you jealous. hang out with her more and flirt liek crazy and when your on the fone with her or talkinging in person actually listen to what she has to say. you dont have to necesarily say anything just listen and support her and respond to things she says. let her feel comfortable opening up to you and make her feel your not judgemental.
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Shortie8959 answered Saturday December 18 2004, 11:28 pm: Try flirting with her, and see if she flirts back! If she does, then there's hope. If she doesn't, forget about her, and find another girl who'll like you, because I'm sure you're a great guy! Good luck!
Hope I helped!
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lalathepinkbunny answered Saturday December 18 2004, 11:06 pm: well, I think you should flirt back. It's a competiton. But, don't take it too far casue no girl(or guy!!!) if worth fighting over with a friend. Because friends are there for you forever, gf/bf will just leave you. While flriting with her, look for signs and see if she flirts back. If so, then yes, ask her out. But, you might want to make sure its okay with your friend first, because he might like her and it could start a problem. I'm not saying that you shouldn't go out with her if he likes her, its his problem if he gets jealous. Just, let him know, because at least he will have a warning and maybe won't get as mad. Well, hope this helps you!
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