well you know how jeni and roger were trying to setup john and i ;well all those other times that john and i went out with jeni and roger; john and i really didn't talk that much well i think saturday was the day that john and i had talked the most. but let's start at the beginning of the night.well john and roger pick me and jeni between 745 and 815. We ended up getting there at like 830 so i was the only one that had to get shoes(they were only 2 bucks). the shoes were like half neon yellow and half neon orange. John was like you should wear those to work tomorrow. and i was like yes i would feel real cool in them. But then we started bowling after about a game and a half jeni's friend lilia and her boyfriend stopped by but they didn't feel like bowling but even before lilia and her boyfriend showed up john offered us all a drink i got a soda the first time. so jeni and roger started talking to lilia and her boyfriend a lot more than talking to me and john. So john and i actually talked a lot. we talked about me being in high school, his two job, my one job, war of bowling. Then he offered me another drink cuz he wanted one so i was like ok. So i really wasn't sure because the first time i was up there i got a cherry coke and i was like i dont know and john's like how about a juice. He's like your not allowed to have the same drink you need to be different. but the lady that was getting our drink was like let the lady decide. so i was like ok cranberry juice. we did talk a lot more it was from something to something else totally different. but ok you know i have my right leg crossed over left leg and i was just wiggling my foot and it ended up hitting him leg by accident and he ended hitting with his knee/leg. so we ended up hitting each other by the leg a couple of times. then like a minute or five minutes later i had my ankles crossed and my feet were like a couple of inches away from john's chair but after he came back from bowling he lifted up my top foot by the toes; those things happened when roger and jeni weren't looking
A little later i wasn't really doing good in this bowling game so john like you see that lady in the next lane to us; i think that shaking her butt is helping her get a better game maybe you should do it; i was like with what butt the butt i dont have and he's like everyone has a butt. that was before i was going to bowl my next frame. so i did my turn and after i bowled he's like where's that butt action??? when lilia and her boyfriend left jeni like i see that you and john have been talking and i was like yea. She's like i did that on purpose so that you guys would actually talk with each other. and i totally understood that. It was about 11-1130pm and we were about to leave and pay; well i was just about to pay but then the guy checking us out said something about it was cheaper a hour than per game; and john was like your a pretty cheap date (he paided for my bowling and 2 drinks) and he also said it must be because your so sexy and jeni's like browinie points. and i honesty think that i was blushing;
then we dropped off jeni first then roger and john started singing xmas carols to me. john was like i know i have like five cds in a case and he was driving and trying to feel in back to see if he could find but since i was in the back seat of the passenger seat when he was looking for it he ended up touching my left knee and im not sure if it was by accident or not then they ended up dropping me off. the next day jeni and i had to go to work at 9am and john and roger were going to go shopping so like on our lunch jeni forgot her cellphone so she needed to use mine to see where john and roger were at shopping. we couldn't get a hold of them then jeni called john number but she ended up getting his answering machine and left a message. then jeni asked me if i wanted to save john's number and i was like ok since i didn't have. I'm not sure what she wants me to do with now. But probably after he gets that message jeni gonna tell john that it was my cellphone number.
1. Should i call john even though im leaving town on thursday and wont be back until monday?
2. Should i ask jeni why she asked me if i wanted john's number?
3. Were we flirting?
4. Would you call that a date?
5. Do u think were dating or what is your thoughts on the status of our relationship?
6. Should i call him when i get back from vacation?
7. If yes i should call him what should i say to him?
8. Do you think that things went well?
9. Do you think when he hit my knee in the car was an accident?
10. Do you think he meant to hit me back in the leg when we were in the bowling alley
11. what did jeni mean by brownie points?
Crystal
1. Should i call john even though im leaving town on thursday and wont be back until monday?
2. Should i ask jeni why she asked me if i wanted john's number?
3. Were we flirting?
4. Would you call that a date?
5. Do u think were dating or what is your thoughts on the status of our relationship?
6. Should i call him when i get back from vacation?
7. If yes i should call him what should i say to him?
8. Do you think that things went well?
9. Do you think when he hit my knee in the car was an accident?
10. Do you think he meant to hit me back in the leg when we were in the bowling alley
11. what did jeni mean by brownie points?
1) Yes definatley call John. I'm sure he would like to talk to you. You could call him on Christmas and just say Merry Christmas to him so it's like an excuse to talk to him. =c)
2) You probably shouldn't ask her. She gave it to you in case you wanted to call him.
3) Yep it sounds like you were flirting.. in a good way of course =cD
4) It depends on your perspective and John's perspective. But it sounds to me like it was a date!
5) I'm not really sure if I would call it dating yet, even though you were on a date. It seems like you two like each other and should go out but I wouldn't call it dating unless you know for sure that you guys really like each other and want to go out.
6) Yep call him. Call him during vacation and say Merry Christmas if you have the chance.
7) Ask him how his vacation was, ask him if he got anything special. Try to set up another date together. =c) He should keep up the conversation too, and you guys will get more comfortable the more you talk and then you just won't wanna get off the fone. =cD
8) Yea it sounds like things went REALLY well. Sounds like you guys had a great time!
9) You can't really be sure if he meant to do it or not. He probably did and just used the cd's as an excuse to touch your knee.
10) Same thing as number 9. He could have meant to or not. He probably meant too though.
11) Brownie points means like something extra or good. So basically when he called you sexy she basically said that's something more or something extra.
Ask_Anything answered Wednesday December 22 2004, 5:18 pm: just so you know, it was rather hard to figure out half the stuff you were talking about.. just for further reference : less detail, more to the point... it was good to hear lots of what happened, but most of it i bet you could figure yourself ;)
ill try to answer based on what i could get out of it though
1.) whether you call john or not is up to you, it might be good to call him before you go away so you dont think about doing it all weekend
2.) it's pretty obvious why jeni asked you if you wanted john's number.. because she assumed it was because you had an interest in him
3.) from what i read, yeah it sounded like you two were flirting
4.) im not really sure if that was an official date, but it definitly would count as a group date- or something close to it. a real one on one date would possibly mean you two were actually "dating"
5.) i think you arent dating quite yet, but if you talk to him more and hang out more, the relationship will build on
6.) if you call him before vacation, see if he calls you - instead of you always calling him (unless he asks you to call)
7.) if you decide to call him just ask what he's up to, casual conversation, plans, etc.
8.) i cant really tell you whether or not things went well, it's really a matter of being there.. if you felt it went well - then i bet it did!
9.) in my opinion, it could go either way - best way to know for sure.. ask him!
10.) most likely he meant to hit you back - kind of a "take that" flirt move
11.) brownie points are somewhat under the lines of good moves, or things you do that give you that extra "like-able-ness" to you. [as seen from john's perspective?]
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