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everythings about sex?
i've been dating my boyfriend for 5 months. he comes over almost every day, considering he lives in the neighborhood next to me. every time he comes over, he thinks we always have to do stuff sexually. and the last time i saw him, i asked him if everything has to be about sex and he said yes. should i dump him, talk to him, not see him as much? help! thank u! i rate high =)
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You definitely need to talk to him about it. If he won't stop thinking sexually, you should dump him. You're only going to miserable. And once you dump him, you're going to happier, trust me. And don't worry, you'll find a great guy who won't only want you for sex! Good luck!
Happy Holidays!
Hope I helped!
~*Erin*~
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Yeah you should dump your boyfriend beause if everything has to be based like that then thats messed up. You should have a boyfriend that respects you for who you are and what you want. It doesnt sound to me like he is doing that. I would just let him know how you feel and if he doesnt seem to understand then break up with him!
♥Trix♥
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talk to him about it because if you feel uncomfortable you should be able to talk to him since you are dating. and if he feels the same way then dumb him. but first let him explain.
hope it helps
Luv Britt
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Do you think you have to do sexual stuff?
You probably don't, but if you really want to date some1 who uses you to jump ahead to sex, then you should probably say"Let's do something else tonight, bowling,(do not go to the movies, it's dark in there)or go to some public place, (then you'll be safe)"or do some social projects after school, your whole life doesn't hav to be about ur b/f. Try slowly going away from everynight w/ him. some1 might get hurt.
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listen, i havent been on this site in a while because my life had a few umm....complications. but anyway u shud dump him because apparantly he duznt no wat it meens 2 have a dating relationship with a girl. its not all about sex its about commitment, love, caring, comfort, similarities responsibility, and if u both want maybe some sexuallity. but its not alll about sex otherwise it mite get out of control and lead 2 date rape
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i think that you should break it off with him, hes only using you for his sexual favors.. seriously you can do so much better. every girl wants a guy to love them and not use them! but thats what i think. x0
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Personally, I think you should dump him. Here's why: If he thinks that all your relationship needs or is based upon or requires is some form of sexual activity, why would you want to be with him? It's apparent he thinks that everything you two do together has to in some way involve sex so I don't really think he thinks much of your relationship except for that he can think sex is the most important thing between you two. If thats the kind of relationship you're going for, then go ahead and stay with him but if you want more than that, I doubt he's gonna change so I suggest you make some changes of your own. Starting with who your boyfriend is.
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rite just have sex with him. Once a male has cumed he will no longer be obsessed with sex for s short period and in that short period u can do normal stuff with him. He cant help his hormones
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You should definitely dump him and not see him as much! You don't deserve a relationship where the guy only wants to mess around with you! If he was smart enough, he would have lied and said "no" instead but he didn't! Just talk to him and tell him how you feel and then dump him! Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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i would talk to him. if you dont want to do anything that he does tell him and if he still thinks you two should do what he wants dump him, he should respect that
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if he was being serious then you should definitely dump him, but chances are he was just kidding. stop putting out everytime he comes over, maybe go on actual dates where you cant have sex.
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If your not comfy wit sex all the time...DUMP HIM! But if u really *love* em talk to him until he compromiseS. But if he doesnt u should still DUMP em!
Go0od Luck,
BrowneYd Babii
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This is thw worst situation a girl could be in with a guy... what i mean is yes you should definately say something like lay off of me or can u just do what i want for once! you must set down the guidelines and if he cant love you for you then screw him there are other guys and the most important thing is that aguynrespects you so obviously if all the guy wants is sex than hes an ass and you can find better guys ok ~ alexis~
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DUMP HIM girl. You deserve WAY better than that. If he really loved you he would think of you as more than a sex machine. Love is NOT about sex. Love is about caring for eachother. He is taking advantage of you. I say dump him for sure. You are not his slave.
Love always,
Down2marz
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In a healthy relationship- everything is NOT about sex. You need to talk to him and tell him how you feel about him always wanting everything to be about sex. If he doesn't respect you and stop always trying to get you to have sex with him- then hunnie it means he's only in this "relationship" for one thing- and it's not for love. Definately break up with him if he won't respect you and your feelings. I hope I helped you!
-Jennifer
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jtlyk everyguy thinks about sex thats what all guys in highschool think about! trust me i asked my guy friends and theyre all obsessed w/ sex! dont dump him just let him know youre not going that far
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