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Hi my name is Ashlee I'm 13 I have blonde curly hair, blue eyes, and I'm 4'11. My nicknames are smash and shorty. I like to sing, and chat online, hang out, shop, and talk on the pfone. My favorite season is winter. And I someday want to be a journalist or singer.

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Im really sorry, this is really gross but i need advice..

Alright.. for three days in a row i have had extremely bad diarreah. I litterally cant leave the bathroom. I woke up this morning at 6am having to go #2(diareah) and it is now 10pm. During this whole day I have gone diarreah 28 times. It is liquidey and it slides out like seriously, WATER !! its yellow too!! and i have extremely severe stomach pains also. i mean severe, this morning at 6am when i ran into the bathroom i sat on the toilet and i started litterally SOBBING in pain, i cried from 6am to 8am this morning because it hurt so much. i really dont know whats wrong with me, i really need help!! i havent gone to my parents bc theyr always at work and im always home alone. im too embarassed to go to a parent or DR. please help me i dont know if im sick or what?!

im really sorry that it is so gross, i hope y'all will understand!

Philly u are a jerk the poor thing needs help! Ignore that ass hole dear. Anyways, embarassed or not you HAVE to tell your parents. And pepto should help sweetie. I hope I helped!

Love, Ash

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My friend and I experimented with each other. Were both 13 and are both girls also. We kissed, french kissed, nibbled and felt on each other, but nothing "below the belt." I would just like to know does that mean were lovers if we don't have boyfriends? We never had sex before and we experimented, but not "below the belt." Does that mean were not virgins anymore? Help!!

Okay, you are DEFINATLY still a birgin. And don't freak out hun, you just experimented. It was harmless experimenting. Don't worry. And you aren't lovers unless you are bi or a lesbian. But you can be completely strait and still experiment with the same sex.

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I love having sleep overs they are so much fun but sometimes I wish that I could have them where i live and not feel nervous becuase i live in an apartment. No one has ever said anything bad about living in an apartment but where i live thei rare very few and everyone i know lives in a house well most people do. I get embarresed when people come over becuase i kno they think that im poor and everything and they dont expect it becuase i always buy expensive and really nice stuff pluss clothes because my mom has more money to give me than when we used to live in a house . Should i be ashamed of this?

Not at all apartments aren't bad at all trust me there are WAY WAY WAY worse than apartments

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my sister gets white stuff in her under wear what is it I mean I get it too but I dont want to ask her

Don't worry hun its just discharge the same thing happened to me in 4th grade and I was really scared I thought somthing was wrong with me. But i was relieved there wasn't. It comes along w/ your period. Just ignore it. And don't worry about that adsd guy hes just being a jerk and same with carl guys wouldnt understand they just think they do!


love always,
down2marz

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i am a guy and i am in middle school and there is this girl that is like my best or 2nd best girl friend lets call her hilary. so hilary asked me out and i said yes then about a week later she dumps me. then a few days later she asks me out again and i say yes cuz i still liked her. then 3 days later she breaks up with me again. and then about 3 weeks later hilary asks me out agian and i said yes then she dumps me five days later and i have a feeling that she is gunna ask me out again wut should i do if she does?

If she does, say no. Either she can't make up her mind or she is playing with your head. So SAY NO!






love always,
Down2marz

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I guess the subject line says it all. I constantly flip-flop between Christianity, Atheism and Buddhism. I like a little of all, and I can't seem to choose one faith. I always change my mind. Is there something wrong with me? Am I flaky? It's just that a faith is an important choice, and I'm afraid to make the wrong one.
I like all three, but I know I have to pick one.
What should I do?

Be non-denominational. In other words, that means you don't have any particular religion.



love always,
Down2marz

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i have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and i love him so much but just recently, i have been getting close with my sisters boyfriends couin, who is 23 years old and i am 17. we ended up getting closer and closer over the past few weeks and talked every day on the phone and he came over to see me everyday and hang out. then, 2 nights ago, we ended up having sex and we stayed up talking for hours and he told me how he liked me and i told him about how i felt the same way. he knows about my boyfriend and he respects the fact that i have a boyfriend but i don't know what to do because last night he came over to hang out with my sisters boyfriend and he didnt talk to me once. usually he wont talk to me in front of them that much because they would suspect something if we did. but, even when my sisters boyfriend was in the bathroom and what not, he still didn't talk to me. i don't know what to think. what are your thoughts on all this? should i tell him i really care about him? this is the first time ive cared for someone like this besides my boyfriend in a while. but, theres something about this boy. please tell me your thoughts.

You have to tell your boyfriend everything. It will be hard but in a good relationship you have to tell the truth. Even if it involves him braking up with you. He has every right to know. Twll him what you feel and what you did.




love always,
Down2marz

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how can i make sure that my girlfriend that lives 300 miles awya will never wanna leave me?

You can never make sure about that. I had a boyfriend that lived moved to Misouri and I live in Illinois. We eventually broke up but we remained good friends. The best you can do is keep in touch and make sure she knows how you feel.


love always,
Down2marz

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Well ok my brother got a girl friend about 2 monthes ago maybe and sence then he hasnt been giving me any time to spend with me well I am 13 and he is 17 and he use to do every thing with me until his girl friend 15 (I think)started to always go every where with him and sometimes Michael (thats my brothers name)is mean to me now all because of Katie I think (THats michaels girl friends name)Should I tell him how I feel or wait until they brake up or what he is driving me nuts!!!

Well brothers and sisters don't always get alonh. Luckily, my best friend who's 13 is very close to her 15 year old brother and the same thing happened to her not long ago. And I learned she handeled it totally wrong and ruined the relationship between him and the girl. What you SHOULD do is comfront him about it. Tell him how you feel. And if you guys are so close, he should listen. Now I'm not saying that while he's dating this girl you will be hanging out as much, but he will probobly be nicer and hang out with you more.

love always,
Down2marz

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i've been dating my boyfriend for 5 months. he comes over almost every day, considering he lives in the neighborhood next to me. every time he comes over, he thinks we always have to do stuff sexually. and the last time i saw him, i asked him if everything has to be about sex and he said yes. should i dump him, talk to him, not see him as much? help! thank u! i rate high =)

DUMP HIM girl. You deserve WAY better than that. If he really loved you he would think of you as more than a sex machine. Love is NOT about sex. Love is about caring for eachother. He is taking advantage of you. I say dump him for sure. You are not his slave.



Love always,
Down2marz

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me and my boyfriend have been dating for a month now, But we've dated before for three months, then we broke up. but now we're back together. anyways now he acts different, before he would always be holding my hands or holding me arount the waist,but now he wont even touch me. I've confronted him about it, but he hasnt changed.what do i do? do i confront him again? Please help!! thanx!

Well maybe you arn't acting the same either. How aout you make amove? While your walking, grab his hand or hug him. Another reason could be that there MAY be another girl. But that isn't very likely. Maybe he is going through some school or family problems. Ask him what's going on in his life and try to help him through it.


love always,
Down2marz

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I have a pretty big emergancy...
My boyfriend gave me a hicky like 30 minutes ago and I was wondering if theres ANYWAY to help speed the process of it disapearing?
please help if my parents see this then i'll get killed!

OK, well, first, try putting on some rash cream or lotion. Then liquid covor up, and then powder cover up. Try to ware a hoodie or a turtleneck. If your parents ask you about it, tell them calmly it's a rash and start itching it.


love always,
D0wn2marz

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How mych money do u get paid for babysitting a couple of littel kids for about 3-5 hours?

I get paid about 3 dollars an hour for one kid. So if it's two, charge 6 dollars an hour.



Love always,
Down2marz

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hey um this is kind of awkward, but i'm 14 going on 15 in a couple of months, and i belive i have met "the one" i've know him sience i was 2 1/2 and he wants to um finger me, and i am totally comfortable with it, but my parents arn't. should i do it behing my parents back, or listen to my parents and not do it at all, but my mom is the one whos conserned my dad doesn't care. i've haven't talked to them about it they kinda listen in my phone conversations with one of my good friends, have you ever got fingered or done it to someone? if not then how old were you when you did it, please.... im so CONFUSED! i'll rate!

Well, you are only 13. I have friends who are 13 and 14 who have gotten fingered when they were 12. But I personally think it's too young. I'd say about 15 1/2 is about the right age but a little younger won't gurt. And if one of your parents doesn't care and you are 100% comfortable with it, you should. As long as you don't feel preasured.


love always,
Down2marz

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hey... does anyone know any good songs about life and how you feel about it. like being depressed and stuff.. thanks.

I think a perfect one is Welcome to my life by simple plan. Another one is Wake me up when September ends. By green day. Try them out! They are my personal faves!



Love always,
Down2marz

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Ok i am DAting this guy and i am like the kind of girl who likes to take things slow and build up are relationship first and on or third date hoe is already wanting to kiss me i dont want to hurt his feelings but i do want him do be my boyfriend _HELP_

Well, first of all, if you don't want him to kiss you, tell himstrait out, but say it nicely. Say somthing like "I don't think I'm ready." And if you guys aren't even actually boyfriend and girlfriend, AND you don't want him to. If he still kisses you after that, remind him one more time. After that, if he does it again, he's not worth it. If a guy doesn't listen to you, hes DEFINATELY not worth it. A girl deserves better than that.


Love always,
Down2marz

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I like this guy, hes my friend, and I wanna know if he likes me back. I wanna kind of ask him out, but not REALLY ask him out.. Like i wanna give him hints and see if maybe he will ask me out or something. I'm afraid that if he finds out I like him or if I ask him out and he rejects me, then things will be akward between us and our friendship will be different. And I couldn't stand it if I wasn't able to talk to him afterwards. So how do I ask him out.. or give him hints.. in a VERY subtle way, so that if he doesn't like me, it will seem like I never liked him in the first place?

Well, I say that you wait a while. Become better friends with him. But a REALLY good way to give a guy little hints is to first ask him if he'd like to hang out with you sometime. When you become better friends, then just kinda flirt a little. It works trust me.



Love always,
Down2marz

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