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hey um this is kind of awkward, but i'm 14 going on 15 in a couple of months, and i belive i have met "the one" i've know him sience i was 2 1/2 and he wants to um finger me, and i am totally comfortable with it, but my parents arn't. should i do it behing my parents back, or listen to my parents and not do it at all, but my mom is the one whos conserned my dad doesn't care. i've haven't talked to them about it they kinda listen in my phone conversations with one of my good friends, have you ever got fingered or done it to someone? if not then how old were you when you did it, please.... im so CONFUSED! i'll rate!
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well.. your parents are just being parents and doing there job.. trying to keep you safe.. so don't get mad that they care... but if you really feel that way.. then do whatever you want.. i'm sure there gonna disagree with any kind of sexual intercourse just because there parents..
xoXo*-Katie
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hey its normal...i was 13 when i first did it and my parents dont know about it..some things are better left unsaid!just because they said dont doesnt mean you have to listen to them do what you feel is best..if you really want to then do it!
*Love Ashlie*
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well first of all, PARENTS ARNT SUPPOSED TO KNOW!...that is like tha stupidest things to do, is let them know that your going to get fingered...nd well 2nd of all, i think thats disgusting..just have sex already!
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You do what YOU feel is right. Your parents can't make up your mind about what YOU want to do. I know that sounds a little disrespectful but hun, we have all been there at one point or another and if we wanna do something then we do it. Thats just how we all are. I was about..13-14 the first time I was fingered, and of course it was behind my parents back. You think any parent would approve of thier child having sex or anything of the nature?. I say as long as your safe and comfortable, then why not?. You're at the age where thats when people start to experiment. The best thing to do is to just keep those conversations off the phone if your parents are around. Tell your friends/boyfriend somewhere in person so you dont have to worry about what your mom thinks. There's a few ways around all of that. But whatever you want to do and whatever you feel is he right choice for you, I say go for it.
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Well, I did and do it behind my parents back. Its not good but what they don't know can't hurt em* right (lol). But yeah I mean what can I do I have already been through that and can't change it so yeah mine as well live on with me life hah. Hmmm let just say I was too young to be getting that shit. Personally, I have no idea why you told your *Parentals* that your boyfreind wanted to finger you in the first place but yeah ok! lol.. Its all good. You should listen to them. But just ask yourself this... your about to run 15.. why *Haven't* you got fingered yet lol! That's the way I put it. Yeah good luck with that :)! Hope I helped with something.
Shann
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well it doesent matter how long you know him, if you feel that you are really comfortable with him fingering you then just go for it! they cant tell you what to do for ever! so justbe carful from what you say on that phone!
i hope that i helped! happy hoildays!
god bless you!
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Hey sweetie!! If you're comfortable with it then you should just go for it. They definitely won't be able to tell if it happened so I wouldn't even worry about it. It's happened to me and I was 13 and it wasn't really that big of a deal, it actually got old after a while! So just go for it, it may actually bring you two closer together! Hope I helped <3 Ryah
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14. Well you are going to have to grow up you know.. and like i dont think you will be telling your parents that you had sex for the first time or whatever. At least you know the guy well i mean unlike alot of girls just do it.. Just to do it. I wouldnt have even talked to my parents about that. SOrri
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Hey Babe!
Well You Guys Have Known Each Other
For A Long Time! And Well If You Do Go Through With Him Fingering You, It Might Be Awkward After!
Your PArants Know He Wants To Finger You??
Sorry It Just Sounded Like You Told Em Er Sumthing
But Anyways
My First Time I was Fingered Was With My Boyfriend And I was 14!
You Gotta Feel Real Comfortable Around That Person
cuz If You Aren't It Just Feels Really WERID!
I hope i helped you a bit hun
Tammi <3333
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It your decision. I personally will not let any guy touch me unless he is my boyfriend. It doesnt matter how long you have known the person or not, atleast to me that it. . If you are comfortable with youself and the other person, and you feel that you are ready for that, then go for it. But if you dont think you are ready for something physical like that, then tell the guy that you arent ready. Hope I helped!Rate me!
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It's nice that you can talk to your parents about these things. They just don't want you to grow up too fast. I think I was 16 or so. But sometimes it can lead to other things, and that can get you into real trouble. You have to really trust the guy not to do anything else. I doubt seriously that you have met "the one" this early. There is so much out there to experience and with those experiences you change your mind because you have matured. I am not saying that he couldn't be "the one" in the future, it is too soon to tell that right now. I didn't even want to think about settling down until after college.
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hey just follow your hart people can tell you what to do but its your dession im a guy and iv done it when i was 15 but hey when its your time its your time just follow your hart and you will never go wrong
well i got to go i hope i help you and just remember that u just half to follow your hart
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I was 14/15 years old when I got "fingered." It was the right time for me, I was ready, and it was amazing. It felt so different, yet so right, and afterwards I could not stop thinking about it without getting butterflies in my tummy. Your parents may be concerned but at least your not contemplating actual intercourse yet!
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well i dont think its up to your parents to decide, if i were you i would still go behind they're backs and do what you want. im not one to share sex stories with people so i cant help you there but i think you should do what you want to with him, your parents dont have to know.
hope i helped!
~~StEf~~
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Well, you are only 13. I have friends who are 13 and 14 who have gotten fingered when they were 12. But I personally think it's too young. I'd say about 15 1/2 is about the right age but a little younger won't gurt. And if one of your parents doesn't care and you are 100% comfortable with it, you should. As long as you don't feel preasured.
love always,
Down2marz
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If you want to do it, that is your choice, not your parents. Firstly, I accept talking to parents and I talk to my family about some stuff, but I find it's weird you brought something like this up to them (at this age). [[I swear I saw this question but it was 13 going on 14...?]]. Now, my suggestion - and this may be "bad" is that if you really want to try something that is fun and hot and will make you feel good then go for it. Just don't tell your parents. If he's forcing you, maybe its not good. But, in all honesty, don't let it go farther! Sex and all that isn't worth it at your age...or our age.
I hope that helps in any way.
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If you're really content on it then do it .But have you considered anything that may make you feel a little .....um awkward .If you're confused then I really don't think you should do it, and it's you doing this not you're parents . Talk to them . Take some time and ask yourself . How would being fingered be some guy bring you anything ? What would it achieve ? What would I get out of it ? But if it's what you want, I guess go 4 it .
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In my mind as long as you don't do more then it should be fine. In my heart I think that you should try talking to them.
XOXO
Charmed-Cherry21
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