Ok i am DAting this guy and i am like the kind of girl who likes to take things slow and build up are relationship first and on or third date hoe is already wanting to kiss me i dont want to hurt his feelings but i do want him do be my boyfriend _HELP_
bAhAmAmA0250 answered Tuesday December 21 2004, 6:42 pm: Tell him. Just be like i want to take this slow. I want this relationship to last awhile. You will feel so much better then and if he doesnt respect you drop him on his ass and dump him [ bAhAmAmA0250's advice column | Ask bAhAmAmA0250 A Question ]
Shortie8959 answered Tuesday December 21 2004, 5:21 pm: Talk to him about it. Tell him you want to move slow. If he really cares about you, he'll wait for you. If not, then he's not worth it. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
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Berri answered Tuesday December 21 2004, 11:42 am: You just have to tell him!!! If he really likes you and respects you, he'll understand. Tell him that you want to wait to kiss him because you want it to feel really special when the "magic moment" actually happens. [ Berri's advice column | Ask Berri A Question ]
chaos answered Tuesday December 21 2004, 9:20 am: Tell him that you aren't ready for kissing yet. There is nothing wrong with that. If he can respect you for waiting until you are ready for this one little thing, then you have a really good guy that you can trust. Just let him know that you need to take it slow so that you can enjoy being with him instead of checking off "things I think I must do in a relationship to be cool>" [ chaos's advice column | Ask chaos A Question ]
Down2marz answered Tuesday December 21 2004, 1:16 am: Well, first of all, if you don't want him to kiss you, tell himstrait out, but say it nicely. Say somthing like "I don't think I'm ready." And if you guys aren't even actually boyfriend and girlfriend, AND you don't want him to. If he still kisses you after that, remind him one more time. After that, if he does it again, he's not worth it. If a guy doesn't listen to you, hes DEFINATELY not worth it. A girl deserves better than that.
Siren_Cytherea answered Tuesday December 21 2004, 12:52 am: Just tell him you like to take things slow, and that you're not ready to kiss yet. You've gotta tell him what's on your mind. It's perfectly fine to want to take things slow, but if you do, you may want to be the one to make the first moves to make sure he isn't pushing you. Tell him what you just told us; that you're the kind of girl who likes to take things slow and build up your relationship first. Let him know that the third date is just too soon for you, and that you don't want to hurt his feelings, but you do want to be with him. Just lay out your boundaries and tell him what you're thinking. He's not psychic, so he can't know, right? Just talk. Communication is everything. Hope this helps on some level!
-Siren =) [ Siren_Cytherea's advice column | Ask Siren_Cytherea A Question ]
AsKmE135 answered Tuesday December 21 2004, 12:22 am: Talk to him. Just tell him that you don't want the relationship to move too fast. If he really cares, then he will listen to you, and do whatever it takes to make you happy. [ AsKmE135's advice column | Ask AsKmE135 A Question ]
charmed-cherry21 answered Tuesday December 21 2004, 12:20 am: Just tell him that you don't want to move that fast and if he can't respect that then he isn't worth your time.
funkyfresh answered Monday December 20 2004, 11:21 pm: hey tell him about it talk to him about it. if he really loves you he will stay with you and take things slow. if not then he isnt worth it.
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xoxbellabebexox answered Monday December 20 2004, 11:17 pm: tell him that you want to take things slower and if he likes you he will stay with you
hope it helps
dancindanger answered Monday December 20 2004, 11:09 pm: Tell him flat out. "I don't want to go that fast, maybe we could take it a little slower? I'm just not used to going this fast..maybe we could wait a little while until we kiss." Or something like that. Hope I helped! [ dancindanger's advice column | Ask dancindanger A Question ]
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