okay, so me and my boyfriend of about 5 months got in a huge fight at homecoming a few months ago and the next day we broke up. during homecoming, i was really upset, and one of his friends was telling me everything was gonna be alright, and he kept hugging me. well after me and my boyfriend broke up, me and his friend sort of became friends with benefits, but then he broke it off when his old girlfriend wanted him back. i was really devestated, cause i had been in a really vulnerable state. then about two weeks later they broke up again, and we started hanging out again. i know its not right but i cant help myself. what should i do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Courtney answered Tuesday December 21 2004, 10:52 pm: You should really get a grip on yourself, sorry no offense to you, and try to take some time to gather your wits about you . Think about it and how it makes you appear to people .It's alright to talk to him, but the making out part . You've got to be in control of this . Try with all your might and let it be your will . If this'll help you , think of your virtue and your pride which may be tarnished . Little events can lead to so much bigger events causing you to feel a certain way . So , do what you can and hope I was some help. Peace and good luck . Remember. Control . [ Courtney's advice column | Ask Courtney A Question ]
Shortie8959 answered Tuesday December 21 2004, 5:23 pm: Try talking to him about it. Say something like, "My friends keep saying we'd be really cute together, what do you think?" And see what he says! Good luck!
Hope I helped!
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chrirett answered Tuesday December 21 2004, 5:51 am: Tlk to him about it an ask him to just stay wid u.
Hes treating u like a backup plan for when he an his g/f r havin truble.
Reesespieces022 answered Monday December 20 2004, 11:14 pm: stay away from him. listen to yourself. he became a friends with benefits when his friend broke up with you, left you for his old girlfriend, and comes back when thats over? there is something seriously wrong with that. i know the whole idea of hooking up with him again seems comforting, but its only gonna hurt you more later. [ Reesespieces022's advice column | Ask Reesespieces022 A Question ]
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