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what if he says no?
I like this guy, hes my friend, and I wanna know if he likes me back. I wanna kind of ask him out, but not REALLY ask him out.. Like i wanna give him hints and see if maybe he will ask me out or something. I'm afraid that if he finds out I like him or if I ask him out and he rejects me, then things will be akward between us and our friendship will be different. And I couldn't stand it if I wasn't able to talk to him afterwards. So how do I ask him out.. or give him hints.. in a VERY subtle way, so that if he doesn't like me, it will seem like I never liked him in the first place?
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The thing is, if you don't know him too well than you don't know how he'll react. If you guys don't hang out, then it won't be too awful if he doesn't talk to you. My advice is don't tell too many people about this crush or everyone will know b4 he will. you could always ask a friend to talk to him, but it might look set up. the best advice i can give is do what you think is right. it all depends on the type of guy. if he is outspoken and doesn't like you he might make fun and if your shy that attention won't go over well. i think while you guys are in a public place, so it is casual, just be like, "you laugh (or whatever he is doing) as if you like me" and smile, so it sounds like ur kidding. if he smiles too or says maybe- like kids- it is possible. I hope this helps, so keep me posted!!! DON'T FORGET TO RATE ME- lol- Ciao!
~ItalianPrincess
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Maybe ask a friend is he is interested in you. If he says yes drop hints in a very subtle way. If he responds to those hints then he's interested and it is a go ahead, if not then I suggest leaving it alone. It's obvious he only wants to be friends. XoJacXo
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When you're alone, be like, "My friends keep bugging me about how we'd be sooo cute together. What do you think?" And see what he says! If he says yes, then there ya go! If he says no, then just be like, ya me neither. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
~*Erin*~
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well ask " What movie is playing?" or " I Love *Food Place*" to give him so hints or make a group date like bring your friend and him and another guy and see what happen make sure you talk to the guy you like not talkng to your friend. Hope i helped
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The best way to do it is to just casually talk to him as a friend and get to know him better. You don't necessarily have to flirt with a guy to get him feel a connection with you. Also, follow your gut as far as asking him out goes. If you start getting the feeling that he's into you, go for it. If not, just keep talking to him and being friends. Or what you could do is NOT ask him out yourself and wait for him to make the first move (If you want the truth, that's probably what I'd do, because I'm shy too.). Good luck, chickadee!
-Berri
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OK..if yall arent good friends..then what do you have to loose? i mean life is all about takin risks.and you dont wanna be left wondering..WHAT IF?..so i would say..look i wanna be with you i know were not good friends or anything.but I LIKE YOU! so i was wondering..do you wanna be with me?..it WORKS! i've done it before..but we didnt hook up..but we got closer..SO TAKE A RISK!
HOPE I HELPED!
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i would say to get one of your friends to ask him for you...then you wouldnt look stupid or anything and your friendship wouldnt get all weird and stuff...oh and hang out with him more! If you dont want a friend to ask him then get up the courage to ask him yourself...just say...Hey i was wondering if you like me and i dont want this to feel weird for you by me asking you this but i like you and i want to get to know you better or something like that...if your to shy to ask him then write it to him in a note...and if he says no then at least you would know how he feels and then you wont have to keep wondering and if he says no then find someone else...Good luck and i hope i helped...-Nikki
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Well, I say that you wait a while. Become better friends with him. But a REALLY good way to give a guy little hints is to first ask him if he'd like to hang out with you sometime. When you become better friends, then just kinda flirt a little. It works trust me.
Love always,
Down2marz
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