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this question is 4 rachey and delly....lol
actually, i don't have a question... i just wanted 2 post something on here. luv u guys lots...
lex

Thanks lexi!! lol, we luv ya 2!

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hey, i was going out with this guy for almost 2 years, but then he dumped me and then he told me that he stoped liking me, but everyone says he still does and idk who to beleive him or everyone that he talks too? lyl feather
PS im 13 years old and a female.

I would call him or talk to him sometme and ask him what happened, dont jump to conculsions cause you never know what really is true.. good luck and let me know how it goes..
lyl
f/f

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ok so yeah i really like this guy hes so sweet hes a on the varsity football team as a sophmore hes a wrestler and so hott!! we are friends and everything already so i think that it would be good. hes like the perfect dream guy the problem is that he is my cousins best friend and they have been friends for the longest time too and his friend has been there for him through everything even the death of his father. so yeah i really want to go out with this kid but i mean i dont want to hurt my friendship with him or the relationship with my cousin or their friendship what should i do?

I would tell your cousin that you really like him. Then i would talk to him about it after you talk to your cousin~ i wouldnt be afraid though about going out with him because if you really like him that is all that matters!
good luck n tell us how it goes!!
ff&k

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Hi all well im babysitting 3 girls after xmas can anyone give me some ideas on how to keep them busy so its a bit easyer for me
roxie
ps ill rate any good ideas
have a great xmas everyone

I would get them a gift, it may cost you money, but it would keep them occupied!!! I would aslo make sure that you "show ur xmas spirit!!" i would do this by like making them hot chocolate and just having fun! Good luck and tell us how me how it goes!!
xoxoxo
FF

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my friend is beinng really rude & saying mean stuff about me what should i do?

make new friends

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What do i do i have the hots for mr.stangel!

laugh out loud jessica

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Well u see i have a problem one of my boobs is "A" and the other is a "D" is that normal. Then there is this guy that i like and he wont go out with me because of my problem. Please help me because the docters have done all they can but its the fact that people look at me funny because well u know. PLEASE HELP ME I NEED IT!!

Well, you could get a size d cup and just add tissue to the other side. It may sound hocky, but it can help you by not being made fun of~
tell us how it goes
KK&F

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my friend i have decided is not a good friend but how should i tell her to just leave me alone and that i dont want to be her friend cause like she thinks were like best friends. but shes always makeing me upset and so how should i tell her that i dont want to be her friend any more?!?

I would just ignore her, not in a snoty way, just dont call her or anything like that. If she strikes up a conversation, i would then just say got to go, bye!! She will get the hint, but dont be like "WE ARENT FRIENDS AND THAT IS THAT.." just kinda blow off all contact with her!
xoxoxoxo
good luck~plz tell us how it goes :)
KK&F

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My friend is going out with a guy that's a year younger than us (whom i like too.)He's like my best guy friend and i feel a little protective of him because a lot of people just want to go out with him for his looks and it's so annoying to me because they don't even know him the way i do. He flirts with me online and we can besically talk about anything. His girlfriend now won't even talk to him and she wants to break up with him, although i don't think she will. Please help! What should i do! i can't talk to him alone anymore because of her and i really just want to be with him! Should i ask her how she feels about him and and how she feels the relationship is going, in a friendly way? I'm not sure what i should do. I need another person's oppinion. Just to let you know, i'm 14, he's 13.

I hate that when people go out with people for their looks, and you really know the person. I would defintly tell your friend that it is unfair to keep her bf hanging on this long if she doesnt like him. Then, i would let her break up with him and then be there for him, hopefully he will bounce right back! Then you can talk to him and you dont have to worry about her going out with him just for his looks!!
xoxoxo
hope i have helped
tell us how it goes!
FF&M

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i have this one friend and shes always making fun of my bf and telling everyone oh shes going out with ...... then shes like u shouldnt be embaraced to go out with him... then she turns around and makes fun of him like oh hes so fat. shes getting me really mad!! what should i do.....i really dont want to breck up with my bf for her.......thanx

Do not break up with your boy friend, just because of someone else. You obviously like him otherwise you wouldnt be going out wiht him. I wuold also confront your friend and tell her that you REALLY like this person and that she needs to stop making fun of him. If she continues to, then she is not a true friend to do this to you. As hard as it might be, try avoiding the situation and let yourself some time away from her.(maybe a day or two!) Then i would see if things are better yet, and if not, just tell her that you dont appreciate her doing this to you and dont be mean, but just chill with other people!!
hope we have helped!!
xoxoxoxoxoxoxo
tell us how it goes!
KK&F

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Hey, it's Siren here...my best bud and I have known each other for 13 years. We're both seniors in high school. All of a sudden, this year, I feel like we just...split. I can't talk to her about the important things in my life the way I can talk to my other friends. Like, a couple of my friends from band and I - well, I guess - bonded one night and I feel like I can talk to them more than I can talk to her, and I've only known them for 2 years. I can talk to them about things like french kissing with pop rocks (just an example, lol) and if I tried to talk to her about it, she'd just go "oh...um, okay," and change the subject or something. She's always been a little less mature than me, I suppose, even if she is a year older than me. But it's never bothered me until now. I want to be able to talk to her about these kinds of things, but I can't, and it's bothering me. Because of it, we're pretty much splitting. It really sucks because we used to be like sisters. She used to know all my secrets. Now only one person does, and it's not her. I wish it was, though. I mean, I miss being able to talk to her about anything. Help if you can?
-Siren =(

Invite her to do stuff with you and your other friends~ maybe she'll start to be like her old self again; it happened 2 me n my friend!!!
hope we helped
xoxoxo
KK&F

plz tell us how it goes

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ok theres this guy i dont like him but hes going out with this girl.This guy does not like this girl.And this girl doesnt like this guy. I guess they are just provin they can get some. But anyways they think im jealous and our conversastions lead to more. I even thought about suicide. Im a normal american girl. Im a cheerleader and very smart. I have NEVER even considered suicide. Im so scared i dont know whats happening!! PLEASE HELP!
Signed,
Not Suicidal

I would definitley start hanging out with different people, and concentrate on cheerleading more(not that you need the pratice its just that it busts self-esteem). If you still feel the same, as hard as it might be, i would get help. I would talk to a guidance consuler or a friend OR SOME1. Even though it may be hard now, you will be thankful if you do. Also, everytime that you think about suicide, think about your family and friends. The problem that you are facing now may only last 1 more day or another month. If you commit suicide, that would last a life time. We hope that everything works out great for you and just remember that you are an awesome person with awesome talents and who cares what those people who are going out, thinks?!
xoxoxoxoxoxo
dont forget to tell us how it all works out for you!!! :)

KK&F

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OK here it goes. I go out with this girl and we used to spend time with each other all the time until i moved. So right now we r having a long distance relationship. Now everytime I talk to a certain girl she thinks I am cheating on her even when I tell her time to time again that I love her and I would never ever do nothing like that. She writes things about my friends that i don't like and that really gets on my nerves. Basically she doesnt trust me at all. Should I dump her or should I just talk to her. 13/m

I suggest that you talk to her more about the trust thing. One of the most important parts of realtionships is trust. Then, i would respond to her letters just talking about the new place where you moved and how u miss her and she will get the point that you dont want to her about your friends that you dont like. If she continues to blame you of cheating, i would break up with her because that is just too much added pressure for nothing that you did wrong. Good luck with this and plz tell us how it goes~
xoxoxo
KK&F

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im madly in love with my best friend, lets call him chandler (sorry i like that name lol). well chandler knows i like him but he still wants to be my best friend because he knows that i like him and i never want to lose him. well i really want to ask him out but last time i asked this guy out he said no because im more of a girl whos friends with a guy and not girl friend material. i think chandler sort of agrees with him so how do i make him like me? we like the same stuff and we are always constently touching each other and laughing like its no big deal. i really like him but i want him to like me the same way back. any suggestions??

signed,


MaD LoVe

As you make it seem, he likes you but he is afraid to go out because he thinks of you as a best friend and not a girl friend. Definitly talk to him and tell him that REALLY REALLY like him and that you KNOW that you guys will still be friends throught the realtionship and even if you break up. And if that doesnt work then i would just accept him as your best friend. Because frendship is the start to a great relationship. Let time work itself out and see what happens!
I hope everything works out great for you! :)
xoxoxoxoxo

KK&F

dont forget to tell us how things go plz~

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Ok i have a puppy, i just got the other day and she will be 7 weeks old tomorrow...well my problem is...she wont stop useing the bathroom on my floor in my bedroom and everywhere else in the house...even though i tell her no...thats bad and not to do it again but she keeps on and on whenever i see that shes about to go to the bathroom i pick her up and rush her outside....its annoying and i need advice on how to get her to stop useing the bathroom on my floor...thanks...i'll rate anyone who answers this for me!

I would go to WalMart or any other pet supply store. Ask a person @ the store or just look in the pet section for soemthing called Potty Pads. What happens is the Potty Pads have some smell in it that attract the dog into going to the bathroom there! First start by having the pad in your house, then slowly, daily, move the pad closer to the door, and give it a treat everytime that it goes to the bathroom on the pad. In about a week, you are going to end up going out the door and so will the dog!!! Good luck and make sure that you tell us how it goes!!
xoxoxoxoxoxo
FF&K

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i got my cartilage pierced yesterday. is it normal for the cartilage to be a bit swollen? thanks

I also got my cartilage pierced, but in August. My ear was swollen and very red for about 3 days, which is perfectly normal!
xoxoxoxoxo
FF&K

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All right, People who ahve their tongue peirced or have friends that have it done please answer, does it hurt? and when u get it peirced and if it does hurt is it a quick pain?

I have heard that getting your toungue pierced hurts, just like any other piercing. They completly stick a needle down into your tounge, so of course it is going to cause pain. One of my friends taht got it done, was not able to talk for about a day and couldnt eat becasue the food kept getting stuck in her ring...!
if you really want it done~ GO FOR IT!!!~ dont think about it hurting just think about waht u want it to look like after~!!
good luck
xoxoxoxo
FF&K
plz tell us how it goes

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Where do you stick ur wiener in?

wherever it takes u steven!

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About a month ago, I got asked to go to a concert. Well, this guy's mother asked my mom if I wanted to go and bring a friend. Our parents are like best friends, so that's why he didn't ask me in person. And I have no problem with that. So I invited a friend to go with me. We had a really good time. My friend and I were the only two girls there. All the guys that were there were really nice to us. There were seven of them. He picked us up and brought us home too. He was really nice to us. Anyways, the guy that we went with- I don't like him as a crush, but we're friends. He has a girlfriend, but it wasn't at the time of the concert. I was just wondering what that means. Like, are we just friends, or more. I think that we're just friends, but what are some other opinions.

P.S. I've been over to his house a lot to swim, he's been over to mine for lots of stuff too. But our parents are really good friends and so are our sisters.

Its hard to say if u guys r more then just friends until u talk to HIM about it.. Then you should consult him about if you honestly like him or not..
good luck~ and dont hold urself back! :)
xoxoxo, FF& m
dont forget to write back telling us how it went or any ?'s!!

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idk when to hug my bf?

You should hug your bf when you guys r together like after skool or something.

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