i have this one friend and shes always making fun of my bf and telling everyone oh shes going out with ...... then shes like u shouldnt be embaraced to go out with him... then she turns around and makes fun of him like oh hes so fat. shes getting me really mad!! what should i do.....i really dont want to breck up with my bf for her.......thanx
~*Annie*~ answered Wednesday December 22 2004, 11:32 pm: Whoa, that's not nice. Usually friends should come before boyfriends, but not when your friend is being a jerk. Instead of blowing up in her face, tell her gently that you care about your boyfriend, and that anything she says won't affect your choice to date him. Tell her that you don't like her making fun of him, and if she has anything to say, say it to his face, because you are sick of hearing about it. Tell her with a firm hand too, otherwise, if she is not willing to respect your wishes, find someone who will. [ ~*Annie*~'s advice column | Ask ~*Annie*~ A Question ]
FrenchFryNkatchup017 answered Wednesday December 22 2004, 11:28 pm: Do not break up with your boy friend, just because of someone else. You obviously like him otherwise you wouldnt be going out wiht him. I wuold also confront your friend and tell her that you REALLY like this person and that she needs to stop making fun of him. If she continues to, then she is not a true friend to do this to you. As hard as it might be, try avoiding the situation and let yourself some time away from her.(maybe a day or two!) Then i would see if things are better yet, and if not, just tell her that you dont appreciate her doing this to you and dont be mean, but just chill with other people!!
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Hunnibunni23 answered Tuesday December 21 2004, 9:22 pm: I think that she really isnt a very good friend if she is making fun of who your boyfriend is! She should be happy for you that you have someone that you like! and you are doing the right thing by not breaking up with him. Normally people would break up because guys are less important..but this is an exception! lol well I just think that you should tell her that you dont appreciate her telling everyone that, and a lot of people are getting annoyed too! I hope I helped! Love ♥Andie [ Hunnibunni23's advice column | Ask Hunnibunni23 A Question ]
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