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My friend's boyfrined
My friend is going out with a guy that's a year younger than us (whom i like too.)He's like my best guy friend and i feel a little protective of him because a lot of people just want to go out with him for his looks and it's so annoying to me because they don't even know him the way i do. He flirts with me online and we can besically talk about anything. His girlfriend now won't even talk to him and she wants to break up with him, although i don't think she will. Please help! What should i do! i can't talk to him alone anymore because of her and i really just want to be with him! Should i ask her how she feels about him and and how she feels the relationship is going, in a friendly way? I'm not sure what i should do. I need another person's oppinion. Just to let you know, i'm 14, he's 13.
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Ya you could ask her but not if you think he will take it badly. Just let them handle things. It isnt your business really if you ask me. I mean have that same prob. I am very protective over someone to and i pretty much dont want a girl near him for the fear of them breakin his lovable heart.. but its not our business.
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i don't think you should try and help the relationship. you may be his best friend, but this is something you have to back off of. he FLIRTS with you? ok i'm hoping not.. and if he is, then him and his girl should be over. you shouldn't be flirting with someone else while you are going out with someone! are you sure its "flirting"? he could be being friendly since ya'll are best friends.. ya know? are you so worried about his girlfriend because you may have some feelings for him? possibly.. and if you do, there isn't much you can do. don't try and end their relationship just to get what you want.
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I hate that when people go out with people for their looks, and you really know the person. I would defintly tell your friend that it is unfair to keep her bf hanging on this long if she doesnt like him. Then, i would let her break up with him and then be there for him, hopefully he will bounce right back! Then you can talk to him and you dont have to worry about her going out with him just for his looks!!
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hey there
i think you should talk to the both of them and see how they feel about each other andif there not so into each other let the guy know how you feel about him tak a risk for all you know he might feel the same way about you .
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sit down with your friend and talk to her about how she really feels about him and you can just tell her that u and him are really good friends, and if she gets mad at u for that, shes not a real friend. thats happend to me b4.
good luck,
<3 ali
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Yes, talk to her about it, and see what her opinion of the relationship is. If they break up, you need to be there for him, and you'll get even closer that way, so then later on, ask him out! Lol. Good luck!
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Hope I helped!
~*Erin*~
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Talk to your friend about how the relationships going. If she's your friend, you shouldn't let a guy get between it. Just stay his friend and wait it out, if you do anything that he might think ruined his relationship with the girl then he may dislike you for it, guys are stupid like that. xD
-Farren
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yea just get her talkin about the r*ship and see how she feels and if yall are as good as friends as you say yall are then just talk to him but make sure he knows you have his best intrests at heart. just let him know wut you think of her but in a nice way.
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Tell him how you feel and tell your friend. if she really doesnt care about him then she would get over him easily.. it just depends if shes really shy or not ..
best luck =) .. jessie
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