Question Posted Wednesday December 22 2004, 11:48 pm
my friend i have decided is not a good friend but how should i tell her to just leave me alone and that i dont want to be her friend cause like she thinks were like best friends. but shes always makeing me upset and so how should i tell her that i dont want to be her friend any more?!?
~*Annie*~ answered Thursday December 23 2004, 12:00 am: Well it is very hard to get rid of people who aren't good friends. When she invites you somewhere, say, "I'm not sure if I can go." When she calls you say, "I can't talk right now -- I'm helping my mom clean the house. Bye." If she ever asks to come over, say, "I'm not sure if I can have people over." It will be tough, but if you persist, she'll take the hint. If you feel bad doing this, that is a good thing, because that shows you care about people and don't like to hurt them. It also means when you're trying to break relationships off with someone, you try to be nice about it. So that means you are a good person in the heart. :) Good luck! [ ~*Annie*~'s advice column | Ask ~*Annie*~ A Question ]
FrenchFryNkatchup017 answered Wednesday December 22 2004, 11:51 pm: I would just ignore her, not in a snoty way, just dont call her or anything like that. If she strikes up a conversation, i would then just say got to go, bye!! She will get the hint, but dont be like "WE ARENT FRIENDS AND THAT IS THAT.." just kinda blow off all contact with her!
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