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Should I dump her?????!!!!!
OK here it goes. I go out with this girl and we used to spend time with each other all the time until i moved. So right now we r having a long distance relationship. Now everytime I talk to a certain girl she thinks I am cheating on her even when I tell her time to time again that I love her and I would never ever do nothing like that. She writes things about my friends that i don't like and that really gets on my nerves. Basically she doesnt trust me at all. Should I dump her or should I just talk to her. 13/m
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well your only thirteen and not married to this girl your young.. but i understand that you love this girl and care bout her.. jus talk to her and try to make sure she dont know you are talkin to other females.. but you wanna make sure them females on the side are jus friends and nothing more.. but maybe this is a little girl that likes to acuse you of stuff and have drama in her life not tryin to talk bout yo girl but that could also be it too... hope i helped *~DEZ~*
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Well first off. Talk to her.. dont just plain out dump her everybody needs to be talked to before anybody gets dumped. Thats at least how i feel. You just gotta think what you would want her to do but if she doesnt give you any good reasons then dump her. Or if she says she'll stop and continues to do it.. then dump her. Friends come first
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you can't blame her for being worried, she probably just doesn't want to lose you. you should definately talk to her so that she knows how much you love her, and that shes the only girl you care about. long distance relationships are really hard to handle, it will really test how much you guys care about each other.
Good luck!!!
MySTeRy GiRL
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If you truly *love* her than talk to her n cum up wit a solution. But if things dont get any better you should dump her becuz u shouldnt waste ur time on something not goin anywayz.
x0x Go0od Luck,
BrOwnEyD_BaBe
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hey there
i think that you should talk ta hey if she really loves you she will under stand
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Hey sweetie I think you should hold on to her if you really love her cause when shes gone you might regret it....just have a long ass talk with her and let her know for sure that you arent cheating on her. she loves you so much that shes paranoid. IM me vondutchbabi 182 if you need anymore advice!
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Long Distance relationships are difficult, try and talk to her, if she loves you as much as you love her she'll understand
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Try talking to her first, but if she doesn't change things, I would dump her, because what's the point in a relationship if one doesn't trust the other. I think trust and communication is everything in a relationship, and the trust just isn't there. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
~*Erin*~
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you should talk to her first. if it doesn't work out, then dump her.
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Well I think if she doesnt trust you its not worth it I think you can find some one allot better then her
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Talk to her first and if that doesnt work and u dont trust her then u should dump her she wouldnt be worth it
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ok well she might not like this answer but i think that first you shold just say look you weite bad things about my friends you never trust me you sit there and think im cheating on you so i justn think we should go are seperate way for a while... Then after that see what she has to say then go on from there and handle it the way you think u should handle it ok... tell me what happened... ~ barbie ~
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Since you're only 13, a long-distance relationship is going to be VERY hard. Sooner or later, you're going to be looking at other girls, girls that are actually THERE. You don't want to spend your whole school life being tied down to someone who lives far away, and who you most likely won't even end up with later (no offense but you're only 13 so I don't think she's going to be THE ONE But who knows?) Definately dump her, but explain why so you don't hurt her. And definately stay being friends, GOOD FRIENDS. Talk A LOT, over the phone, on AIM, e-mail, etc. Good luck! Let me know how it works out.
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You should definitely dump her, since she doesn't have trust in you and that she writes things about your friends! A lot of girls are like this sometimes so just talk to her and tell her how you feel! Maybe she'll understand that the things she does really does get on your nerves! Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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A lot of girls are like that... they get really paraniod... it usually happens to girls that have been hurt in the past... talk to her & let her know that you really care about her... & wouldnt do anything like that to her... if she still doesnt understand & that really bothers you... than maybe it's time for y'all to take a break...
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dump her -she is clearly insecure and anyone who writes bad stuff about someones mates is not a cool person to hang out with. If you talk to her she will twist it round like all women do and you will end up apologising for something you have never done.
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you can't have a good relationship without trust. talk to her about how she needs to trust you in order to have a good relationship. she should know that you aren't interested in anyone but her, but it may take her a while to realize that. just give trust some time.. but if she continues thinking you are cheating on her, and you have had a talk to her about it, i say you break up with her. why have a girlfriend if she can't even trust you!
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I suggest that you talk to her more about the trust thing. One of the most important parts of realtionships is trust. Then, i would respond to her letters just talking about the new place where you moved and how u miss her and she will get the point that you dont want to her about your friends that you dont like. If she continues to blame you of cheating, i would break up with her because that is just too much added pressure for nothing that you did wrong. Good luck with this and plz tell us how it goes~
xoxoxo
KK&F
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If she doesn't trust you talk to her it might be that she doesn't want things happenin to your relationship with her.So,talk to her ask her what's botherin her and if she still doesn't trust you then it's not meant to be.When in a relationship you have to have love,trust,and honesty.Happy Holidays!!!!!!!!!!
-pinayprodigy-
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