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mad love
im madly in love with my best friend, lets call him chandler (sorry i like that name lol). well chandler knows i like him but he still wants to be my best friend because he knows that i like him and i never want to lose him. well i really want to ask him out but last time i asked this guy out he said no because im more of a girl whos friends with a guy and not girl friend material. i think chandler sort of agrees with him so how do i make him like me? we like the same stuff and we are always constently touching each other and laughing like its no big deal. i really like him but i want him to like me the same way back. any suggestions??
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MaD LoVe
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Well, you can't actually MAKE someone like you or even love you. But what I'd do is just keep flirting like it sounds like you are but don't lay it on TOO thick. You don't wanna scare him off. After a while, I'd suggest talking to him about it and asking him if he'd think it wouldn't work for you two to go together. But for now, I'd say just give it time and keep flirting with him like you are. Keep the relationship the way it is now.
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Ok first, You cant really make anybody like you. And second I say yall stay friends because if yall were to breakup you no then yall wouldn't even be friends anymore. To me that is just not worth it. Hope I helped......Lil Chocolate Boi
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ok well yes you should definatley tell him how you feel.. ok about the not girlfriend material thing you just say you no what chandler or whatever his name is youve never had me as a girlfriend so how would you no if i was girlfriend material or not well even before doing that just say you no what, i have a question... would you evr consider having me as a girlfriend... then see n if he says the girlfriend material thing then just say that you no youve never been his girlfriend and that how would he kno then say i think you should give me a chance... if says o well i dunno or something like that then just say how about i give you some time ok hope that this helps luv me ~barbie~
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just because the one guy you asked out said you aren't girlfriend material, doesn't mean "chandler" thinks so too. "chandler" may like you too! you should tell him you like him and ask him if he thinks you are girlfriend material! :)
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does he like you? if he does tell him if anything happened ya'll would always be friends.
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Maybe he wants to wait til he is ready to have a relationship.So,just spend more time with him and when you think time is right hint that you like him.This is what I did with my bfJoey we were in the same problem as you and it worked.Happy Holidays!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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As you make it seem, he likes you but he is afraid to go out because he thinks of you as a best friend and not a girl friend. Definitly talk to him and tell him that REALLY REALLY like him and that you KNOW that you guys will still be friends throught the realtionship and even if you break up. And if that doesnt work then i would just accept him as your best friend. Because frendship is the start to a great relationship. Let time work itself out and see what happens!
I hope everything works out great for you! :)
xoxoxoxoxo
KK&F
dont forget to tell us how things go plz~
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