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Hey guys instead of calling me by my real name you can call me BaRbIe ok. Im 13 and i love giving advice yOo got a question ill answer it ok so there yOo go... You can start now by reading some other questions and then that may help yOo with asking yOur questions ook! have fun and remember yOo dont have to sign yOur name ok! Have fun ~ BaRbIe ~ xoxo

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OK! "Barbie" its Jessica Keider. Ok. Yeah. right now im familyless and i have no food. I blew up my microwave cause i guess you can't put pans in the microwave now. I dont know whos grand idea that was but..jeez people now a days, changing EVERYTHING. Well back to the reason i am writing you. yeah.. im familyless and nothing to eat.. so i need to know how to turn on the stove and how to make maceroni and cheese. i dont understand the directions on the box. Thanks babe! MeRrY ChRrriStMaS!!!! I LoVe JoShUa!!!!!!!! o baby!
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hey i think you should ask for help or get glasses or just settle down and read the freakin box lol g2g ~lex~

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How do you say hi in japanese?

The internet said that yo is how you say hi in japenese ok.

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how did u get the advice page?

ok when your at someones advice page go to the top and click advicenators. Then once your at that page itll tell you how to get it! ~barbie~

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hey barbie well it seems that i am having a lot of boy trouble like i never seem to find the right one and just when i think i do find the rite one he tells me we should just be friends so what should i do? 13/f/parma

well this is exactly how i always feel... my answer is that you should try and talk to a guy and get to be rli good friends with him n then eventually when you tell him o i think i like yOo more than a friend he will probally feel the same. But a lot of times guys just get nervous and think they dont like yOo when they do ok. Hope that this helped yOo. ~barbie~

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i was a bitch to my best friend, and i said some completely horrible things, and they will not forgive me, altho their friendship means more than anything to me, how do i make this person forgive me?

hey well first of all if you were a bitch to your best friends then you should no they are probally not going to want to talk to you for a while even if you tell them your sorry or you want them to forgive you they probally wont be abe to for a while so just give them some time and thats all i can say... ~barbie~ hope i helped

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Well ok my brother got a girl friend about 2 monthes ago maybe and sence then he hasnt been giving me any time to spend with me well I am 13 and he is 17 and he use to do every thing with me until his girl friend 15 (I think)started to always go every where with him and sometimes Michael (thats my brothers name)is mean to me now all because of Katie I think (THats michaels girl friends name)Should I tell him how I feel or wait until they brake up or what he is driving me nuts!!!

You should definatley tell him how your feeling because you never know he could really fall in love with this person and then wind up getting married so yess you should definatley talk to him about this ok... hope that this helped ~ barbie ~

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Hey, it's Siren here...my best bud and I have known each other for 13 years. We're both seniors in high school. All of a sudden, this year, I feel like we just...split. I can't talk to her about the important things in my life the way I can talk to my other friends. Like, a couple of my friends from band and I - well, I guess - bonded one night and I feel like I can talk to them more than I can talk to her, and I've only known them for 2 years. I can talk to them about things like french kissing with pop rocks (just an example, lol) and if I tried to talk to her about it, she'd just go "oh...um, okay," and change the subject or something. She's always been a little less mature than me, I suppose, even if she is a year older than me. But it's never bothered me until now. I want to be able to talk to her about these kinds of things, but I can't, and it's bothering me. Because of it, we're pretty much splitting. It really sucks because we used to be like sisters. She used to know all my secrets. Now only one person does, and it's not her. I wish it was, though. I mean, I miss being able to talk to her about anything. Help if you can?
-Siren =(

ok well this is pretty easy to answer... See siren a lot of times when a teenager is growing up they tend to have moments or times in there life where they dont feel like expressing themselves maybe what you should do is just say look ... i think you should tell me whats going on like why you never seem to wanna talk to me anymore then see what she says then go on from there ok... make sure you tell her that you still wanna be her friend ok hope i helped... ~barbie~

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i've been dating my boyfriend for 5 months. he comes over almost every day, considering he lives in the neighborhood next to me. every time he comes over, he thinks we always have to do stuff sexually. and the last time i saw him, i asked him if everything has to be about sex and he said yes. should i dump him, talk to him, not see him as much? help! thank u! i rate high =)

This is thw worst situation a girl could be in with a guy... what i mean is yes you should definately say something like lay off of me or can u just do what i want for once! you must set down the guidelines and if he cant love you for you then screw him there are other guys and the most important thing is that aguynrespects you so obviously if all the guy wants is sex than hes an ass and you can find better guys ok ~ alexis~

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me and my boyfriend have been dating for a month now, But we've dated before for three months, then we broke up. but now we're back together. anyways now he acts different, before he would always be holding my hands or holding me arount the waist,but now he wont even touch me. I've confronted him about it, but he hasnt changed.what do i do? do i confront him again? Please help!! thanx!

ok well this looks like he may be a little nervous or well i hate to break ir to you but he just may not have that spark for yOo anymore i mean i understand yOo like him but first if i were you id like talk to him and then be like so do u like me or not ok see if this works kk hope i helped and dont worry if it doesnt work out there are so many more guys out there ok ~ luv barbie~

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i was a moderator, but now all the sudden im not. i wasn't on advicenators for over a week because i was grounded, could that be why? my average rating is 4...

oh ok theres no need to worry about once you start using your advice page more your ratin will go up and youll probally be a moderator agen ok ~alexis~

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Well, I have two best friends, and i feel like the third wheel. Although they say im not, I feel like it and my parents see it too. I dont know if I should split off from them, or hang on? And, theyre always sort of depressing, and i dont like that...but every1 else in my school has best friends...i feel like i have none
help?

ok well it seems to me like you should talk to your friends and say look i really love the fact that your my friend and that i have friends like you but i just dont really like the fact that it seems like im an added addition like u guys never treat me like i part of the gang friendship what everyou would like to call it, basically i feel like im just there like you guys dont really need me or want me to be your friend ok so tell me now and tell me true how do you feel are we all friends or do you not want me to be like one of your best friends... plz tell me ok just say that to them ok hope this helps girly ~barbie~

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does getting your tongue pierced hurt? How much worse is it than an ear piercing? Thanks in advance for the help.

well to tell you the truth i have never gotten my tongue pierced but a lot of times people have said it hurts a lot then some people say it just stings there are many different feeling you can experience with any type of piercings all i have to say is if you do get your tongue pierced make sure that you keep the area clean dont get any infections because that can be very gross if you get infections on your tongue ok hope this helps yOu. ~barbie~

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im madly in love with my best friend, lets call him chandler (sorry i like that name lol). well chandler knows i like him but he still wants to be my best friend because he knows that i like him and i never want to lose him. well i really want to ask him out but last time i asked this guy out he said no because im more of a girl whos friends with a guy and not girl friend material. i think chandler sort of agrees with him so how do i make him like me? we like the same stuff and we are always constently touching each other and laughing like its no big deal. i really like him but i want him to like me the same way back. any suggestions??

signed,


MaD LoVe

ok well yes you should definatley tell him how you feel.. ok about the not girlfriend material thing you just say you no what chandler or whatever his name is youve never had me as a girlfriend so how would you no if i was girlfriend material or not well even before doing that just say you no what, i have a question... would you evr consider having me as a girlfriend... then see n if he says the girlfriend material thing then just say that you no youve never been his girlfriend and that how would he kno then say i think you should give me a chance... if says o well i dunno or something like that then just say how about i give you some time ok hope that this helps luv me ~barbie~

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i have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and i love him so much but just recently, i have been getting close with my sisters boyfriends couin, who is 23 years old and i am 17. we ended up getting closer and closer over the past few weeks and talked every day on the phone and he came over to see me everyday and hang out. then, 2 nights ago, we ended up having sex and we stayed up talking for hours and he told me how he liked me and i told him about how i felt the same way. he knows about my boyfriend and he respects the fact that i have a boyfriend but i don't know what to do because last night he came over to hang out with my sisters boyfriend and he didnt talk to me once. usually he wont talk to me in front of them that much because they would suspect something if we did. but, even when my sisters boyfriend was in the bathroom and what not, he still didn't talk to me. i don't know what to think. what are your thoughts on all this? should i tell him i really care about him? this is the first time ive cared for someone like this besides my boyfriend in a while. but, theres something about this boy. please tell me your thoughts.

oo this is a hard one...well ok first of all it seems you need to break up with your boyfriend i mean obviously if youve had sex with someone you should talk to your boyfriend and tell him you have found someone else and you need to move on... ok but if you really still love your boyfriend then you should try to talk to both guys and for your boyfriend just tell him look i kinda met this other guy and well i kinda made some mistakes i shouldnt have but not only this i need to know if you still love me or not because if you dont then i think its best we move on... after saying this to him see what he has to say .. theres to the other guy thats 23 just tell him you need a little time to think about some things then youll tell him what you decide ok. In my opinion i think its best you have some time to yourself for a while to think about your life and the situations youve been dealt with i mean you are 17 and its about the time to deside if you want to go to collage or such other things So why dont you talk to these boys and just tell both of them the absolute truth and how you feel ok i really hope this helps... ~ barbie ~

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OK here it goes. I go out with this girl and we used to spend time with each other all the time until i moved. So right now we r having a long distance relationship. Now everytime I talk to a certain girl she thinks I am cheating on her even when I tell her time to time again that I love her and I would never ever do nothing like that. She writes things about my friends that i don't like and that really gets on my nerves. Basically she doesnt trust me at all. Should I dump her or should I just talk to her. 13/m

ok well she might not like this answer but i think that first you shold just say look you weite bad things about my friends you never trust me you sit there and think im cheating on you so i justn think we should go are seperate way for a while... Then after that see what she has to say then go on from there and handle it the way you think u should handle it ok... tell me what happened... ~ barbie ~

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my friend, lets call him billy lol
well me and billy were best friends last year. i sorta liked him and it was obvious he sorta liked me also. but i have feelings for him and now we talk all the time but not as much as we use to. i miss it alot. but last year the rumers that went around were to hard for me to handle. but when me and billy talk he always smiles n talks about old times and how much he misses it. well we have nick names for each other but for a joke and mine iz pillsberry and his is dickhead (he asked me to call him that lol). i know stupid names but he calls me pillsberry because im really ticklish and everyone at school tickles me. i really like him and i think he might like me back but when hes around me hes so true but when hes with his friends he just walks away from me. and when hes eatin lunch he would wave at me and i would wave back but his friends would hit him and make fun of us. i really dont know what to do. i like him alot. im so confused about our friendship


please help

thnx

Well sounds to me like you should really talk to him about how much you like him and then ask him if he would ever considering you as his girlfriend b/c see a lot of times these things just need talked out so talk to him and tell him how yOu feel dont wait to long because you dont want it to be to late... let me no how it goes...
~ barbie ~

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My boyfriend broke up with me yesterday but I am 70% sure I can get him back. Is there anything
I can do to get him back?

Ok well it seems to me that Whoever your boyfriend is he just wants to take a break from yOu and be single i mean if you still like him and he still likes yOu then talk about this and ask him if hed ever considering going back out with yOu because sometimes its better to talk about things ok just give him some time and im sure everything will be ok hope this helped yOu
~ barbie ~

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i have a big flat nose , how do i make it look sharper and smaller ?? i've heard of clips you can pinch on ur nose bridge and it supposedly helps . does it ?

ok look it sounds to me like your being unconfident of yourself. Dont be so hard on yourself. If this helps why dont you try to act like your nose isnt even there and if someone says something to yOu act like you dont care what they say b/c sometimes its better to be proud of the way yOu look then to be disapointed ok hope this helped... let me know if it did...
~ barbie ~

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I have this friend who used to be my best friend ever. We still talk alot and she is still a good friend but we have been spreading apart. We always talk about how we dont hang out enough but every time I try to hang out with her she is out with other friends or wont call me back or just doesnt pick up. Its making me really frustrated because she is awesome but I am to the point where I just want to stop trying because she never trys to hang out with me Im always trying to hang out with her. Should I just give up? And is she just trying to tell me she dosent care anymore?

ok well see a lot of times people just need time from eachother or time from being friends maybe if this helps... you should sit down with her and just say look i want to be your friend but it seems like u dont wanna really be my friend anymore is this true? Do you really wanna stop being friends or do you really wanna just give up and stop caring... ask her those questions then let me know how it went? hope this helps ~ barbie~

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