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Used or not used?
Hey well i have a problem, this guy that i really liked my freshman year(know a senior). He lives with his girlfriend but his girlfriend, but she doesnt give him any sex and he comes to me. How would i know if he is using me or not? Please let me know i am desperate to know, he tells me he loves me and i dont know if i should believe him because he says he says that he will never hurt me. I dont know if he is just using me for sex or not. i need help. i really like him and i like when i have sex with him too but i dont know.
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It's as simple as this... he's using you for sex. His girlfriend won't have sex with him, so you will. Also you're being the 'other girl'. How do you think the girlfriend will feel when she finds out he's been cheating? Or does she know? Well, yeah, he's DEFINITLEY using you for sex.
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if he truly loved you, he would move out to be with you! he needs not to be in the way of temptation.
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i kno you may not want to hear this but he's definitely using you as lik a sex toy. number one if he loves you then he'd dump the other girl and go out with you and secondly if he already ahs a girlfriend and doesn't wanta dump her for you since ya'll been having sex he's just using you for pleasure. sorry =/
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sry to break it to you, hes using you, why else would he go to a freshman? sorry hun, but its true, i'm sorry but theres so many other guys out there thats better than him! go out and see waht else is in the world besides him, hes jut hurting you more and more each time you both are together. x0
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He is using you. You deserve better. Someone that wont use you. Merry christmas!! Rate me plz! Trix!
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I really think hes using you. If he werent, why would he still be with this other girl? Love isnt when you come to someone just for sex...love is a relationshp and its more than that.. so if this guy really does love you..he would break up with this other girl in a heartbeat. Your being used...talk to this guy about how u feel and see if hes willing to break it off with this other girl. if hes not..forget him
-melissa
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You seriously need to talk to him, because this guy has a girlfriend, then why is he with her if he likes you? He probably is using you, so you should talk to him about it, because I'm sure you don't want to get hurt by him. It sounds like he's just using you, and I'm sorry if he is. But you'll never really know until you talk to him, don't have sex with him until the two of you talk, and make sure he gets things straight with his girlfriend. Hope I helped, good luck. -Angel
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He already has a girlfriend, and she doesn't have sex with him. I think that's a definite sign he's using you. He's probably only being nice to you so you continue giving him what he wants. That's not right though. He shouldn't be going behind his girlfriend's back just because she isn't doing everything <i>he</i> wants. I don't think you should be having sex with him anymore. you don't deserve to be used like that, really you don't. If he loved you he would dump his girlfriend for you, but you don't see that happening do you? I really think he'a just using you and you should blow him off. He can use some other girl if she doesn't care, but if you're concerned you should stop. Next time he's asking for sex, tell him it's done and walk off. If he gets mad at you, that's a definite sign he was using you. Watch his actions. I don't know how you feel, but if you're feeling extra revengeful you could tell his girlfriend. He would most likely be dumped. But hey, that's just an option. Do what you feel comfortable doing. =)
♥ lAuRa
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Try not having sex. it's not everything. Pray 2 God
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