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ok here is the thing my mom is really annoyin she is always gone with her boyfriend but it "also has to do with business". And me and my brothers don't like my moms boyfriend but if either of us tell her that she will say ' what i can't have my own personal life' but the thing is she always asks us if we like him and if we say how we really feel she will just change it around so it is our fault and she can't have a life. O yea and she is ALWAYS down where her bf lives on business and stays there for weeks at a time sometime. but my question is how can i tell my mom how i feel with out her changing it around so it is my fault cause i have tryed telling her how i felt before and she started crying and said fine then i won't have a personal life or make us more money when i would rather have less money and a mother then more money and a mother that is NEVER home??? i need help because this is ruining my life please help i don't know what to do anymore!!!!! thanks
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I'm guessing the reason you don't like your moms boyfriend is because he takes all of her time. Maybe you should explain to your mom exactly what it is that you don't like about him. Tell her you love her and of course you want her to have a personal life but lately it seems like all her time is being put into her personal life or her business and it saddens you because you would like to see her put more time into her family life too that way everyone can be happy.
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Your mom has issues. She needs counseling. If she is abandoning you for weeks at a time, you need to find a relative that can help you. If there is no relative, child services needs to be involved, which sucks, but someone needs to be there for you. There is no excuse for leaving you alone for that long. She should have thought about having a life before she had kids. Being a mom means giving up everything you have if necessary to support your children. It is not your fault whatever she says.
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you need to tell your mom that she needs to accept tha fact that you dont like her boyfriend, she can have a personal life, but she has kids that she needs to be there for, you know. . . you want her to be happy, but at the same time, you need a mom and she needs to be there for you because a mom is the most important part of someones life. Tell her not to accuse you of not letting her have a life, but seriously if you cant stand her boyfriend and the time lost with your mom to him, then she should use her motherness, and do whats best for you. Hope i helped, and I hope life works out for you, keep ya head up. Good luck sweetie :-D
-Angel
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Tell your mom that you want her to be happy, but she also needs to make her family happy, and your conserned about your brothers, so then you want to help both your bros, and yourself out. Killing 2 birds w/ 1 stone!
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Try emailing her and tell her exactly what you just said. Just be sure to tell her that you DO want her to have a personal life, she has a right to, but that she's NEVER home, and you miss her and need her to be around. Use the guilt method, lol. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
~*Erin*~
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