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ok so i have this so called friend that i hate so much and she hates me a lot to..........everytime we try to figure something out it seems to get bigger and bigger i mean i could be nice to her but it would be really hard for me to do that because i cant stand her in any way! you will probably just say dont hang out with her or anything....but my bestest friends are always hanging out with her so i have to hang out with her or i will lose all of my friends.....WHAT SHOULD I DO?!?!?!? PLEASE HELP!
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this kind of thing just happened to me. My old best friend isnt my friend anymore but we btoh hang out with the same kind of people. We just learned to tolerate eachother and make small talk when we are i n a situation where we are close to eachother. goodluck
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you should tell your friendz how you feel about her they were your friendz first im sure they will understand
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If you cant stand her so much just dont talk to her or anything. WOO HOO!Everyone goes through these problems and all I am going to stay is just deal with it. I am going through the same shit that you are, but me and this person arent friends or anything we just hate eachother. I have to see him everyday and I just ignore him and he does the same. Just ignore her or try and get a long with her. Thats all I can tell ya
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Annoyed by a so called friend,
it seems that everyone goes through this problem. i have and i am still dealing with it, but it has lessened. i think that you should tell your other friends how you feel about the so called friend. i don't mean gossip, just simply acknowledge the fact that she gets annoying. that way they won't be suprised if you suddendly have steam coming out of your ears one day. if you don't like this "friend" so much try not to hang out with her alone and when hanging out with a bunch of your friends keep your distance. the less time spent with her will be less agervation, but if she askes a simple question don't bite her head off. say it calmly and if she starts bugging you just tell her to leave you alone. i don't want to sound cheesy at all, so i am not going to say reconcile and be nice at all times. simply tell her to knock it off and if your friends know about your disliking towards her they won't ignore you and/or gang up on you. well i hope this helps and update me.
~ItalianPrincess
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Talk to your friends about it! Tell them what's going on. Maybe they'll have your back, and stop hanging around her, too. Also, talk the girl about it, and really try to resolve things. I know it's hard, but try being nice anyway. It will definitely help! Once, you're nice, she'll be nice, and you'll be able to stand her again. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
~*Erin*~
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everybody has a friend like that, you cant be mean to her though, think of it as being the better person, dont get yourself disliked by people, dont give her any reason to dislike you and she wont, you guys dont need to talk about it, things will either chill out or blow up, so just lay low around her until youre pretty sure youre on her good side, just think of yourself as the better person without saying it, cuz when it comes down to it, youre being the more mature one by doing that. Hope i helped. Good luck. -Angel
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you can hate her all you want, but you have to respect her...as long as you both while hating eachother try not to talk behind eachothers back, or turn other friends against her, there is nothing wrong with truly hating her. talk to her and say "look we dont have to be friends but give me my space and i'll give you yours"
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Well i had this prob. to with AMANDA JOHNSON! we just could not get along for anything. And the group i hung out with were friends with her.. but some were still annoyed But we relized that sooner or later we had to put our differences aside us and go on with life. I just kept my cool around her and everything worked out. Although it was hard. I talked to her about it which was extremely hard but really made it easier to relate to eachother
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