Question Posted Wednesday December 22 2004, 3:25 pm
WeLL!Every guy that I get close too ends up hurting me in the end, so I have a major trusting issue with ppl. I dont even trust some of my best friends anymore just bc they have hurt me and talked about me behind my back. I am not sure who to trust. I go to school with my ex bf who hates me but he is one of the very few ppl I trust still. he has hurt me in the past but I have always been able to trust him. I cant talk to him bc he hates me but I really need to talk to him. What do I do?
xocaribbeangrl32 answered Wednesday December 22 2004, 4:37 pm: If you had such a big trusting issue i dont think you'd go back to someone who as hurt you in the past. i dont think your so called friends deserve you if they are willing to talk behind your back. mabey its more then trust in some cases, this might be more of a betrayal issue. mabey your ex feels like you hurt him too and the only way to have him overcome the problem is time. take things slow with becoming friends again, mabey start with a friendly smile or compliment, so remember DONT rush things, stuff will even out over time and GOOD LUCK!..hope i helped...xo [ xocaribbeangrl32's advice column | Ask xocaribbeangrl32 A Question ]
AdviceMistress answered Wednesday December 22 2004, 4:25 pm: be honest with him and tell him that you seriously NEED to talk to him. If he refuses then tell him to stop being so immature and act like an adult for just a couple of minutes!
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