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Boyfriend and his friend
Here's what's going on...
My boyfriend came over last night at around 2 and he was really drunk. He kept talking about how he had all this money, and he had this really nice lighter with him and he was really drunk. He told me that he took it from his best friend who had just gotten the money and lighter with his paycheck that he had gotten earlier. Well, my boyfriends friend keeps calling me looking for him, and I've been sworn to secrecy. Is there anything I can do to fix this? I really need help fast.
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hey hunny * call your boyfriend. and you tell him that what he's doing is wrong. and he really needs to return whatever he took to his friend because his friend is calling you looking for it. and if he doesn't listen then you need to tell his friend. because your boyfriend it kind of using you as a way to hide himself from his friend. so get a hold of your boyfriend as SOON as you can! and tell him that you don't wanna be a part of what he's doing and you don't appreciate that he drug you into it, because that is exactly what he did! and if his friend calls again then you should tell him to stop calling you or tell him about your boyfriend and what he did. because you don't wanna be in the middle of it! wow. hope i helped. and good luck! feel free to ask me if u need nething * else! have a go0d x*mas darlin <3 brittany
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Your boyfriend if a thief. He has betrayed his friend and you. Do you realize that knowing he is guilty and not telling his friend when asked makes you an accessory after the fact? Depending on how much money your boyfriend stole you could be in real trouble if the two of them don't resolve this without the police. You need to talk to your boyfriend and explain what kind of situation he's placed you in. If he doesn't, you have a responsibility to yourself to tell his friend what you know. I'm sorry. I know this is a hard thing to deal with and it's so much easier to see what needs to be done from the outside when I don't have to deal with the emotion of the moment. I feel for you, but think about what I've said. You know it's right. Find the strength to do it. Good Luck! I'm praying for you.
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Talk to your bf about it, and tell him that his friend's been looking for his lighter and money. There's really nothing you can do, only what your bf can do, so you need to talk to him. Good luck!
Happy Holidays!
Hope I helped!
~*Erin*~
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