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He says he likes me...........
I really like this boy and he says that he really likes me, however he has a girlfriend and doesn't want to hurt her by dumping her. He is always with me and he tells me that he cares and wants to be with me, but I don't want to get hurt. It hurts me enough to know that he has a girlfriend, I have never loved like this before. Everytime he kisses me I seem to melt. I want him so badly, but what about his gf. he is afraid and so am I?
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hun, if he cheats on some other girl with you, there is no saying that he wont cheat on you with another girl. Sure, he may "want to be with" you, but that doesnt mean he doesn't "wanna be with" other girls too. the only way to avoid getting hurt is by speaking up and saying "Whats the deal,because i want to be with you but im not sure if you TRULY feel the same way"...good luck
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That's not possible, he needs to make a decision and choose one of you. The more he holds this off the more hurt you and his current girfriend will be. And since he does have a gf this is clearly defined as "cheating." And you don't know if he will "cheat" on you if and when he does dump his gf. I think you to need to talk, tell him you are scared and don't think it is right to do it behind someone else's back. If he likes you as much as you say he does, he needs to tell his gf that he is letting go. Come the time she finds out about you, it's going to hurt him by not telling her and he is going to be heart broken and not ask you out. XoJacXo
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He needs to make a decision! And he shouldnt be leading her on anyways. That is only going to hurt her more after she finds that out. He is just afraid of taking new paths.. Like starting something new with someone new. I would just tell him how you feel and let him know that you cant continue like this and you feel bad that he has a gf. Plus.. think about this.. what if he does this to you? I mean dont say o he wont because im sure thats what his gf thinks to that he wouldnt cheat on her.. well shes thinking wrong.. well i just wanted you to know that
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w0w..ok he is cheating on his girlfriend! and he doesnt wanna hurt her? WTF? w0ah..think about it..BOYS LIE! they say they care about you and everything..you never know he could be turnin around sayin the same thing to another girl.and if he cheats on her what makes you think hes not gonna cheat on you?
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Okay well.. if he is cheatin on this other girl he must not like her that much so i think that he should break up wit her for yew it seems like yall care about each other ..so whats he wantin for.. he really doesnt care about her feelings if he is cheatin on her .
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for right now, i really think you need to keep your distance until this guy gets his head straight and figures out what he wants to do. hes really not being fair to you, or his girlfriend. let him figure out what he wants- you may even realize that you really don't want to go out with a guy who will potentially cheat on you. you deserve so much better...a guy who thinks of you as his only one. hes out there, i promise.
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You have to tell him who he wants and cares about more. Who's he's more comfortable with. It's a hard decision, but that's the only thing you really can do. Sorry I couldn't help out more, I tried. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
~*Erin*~
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oh yeah, if he dumps his girlfriend for u, what makes u think he wont do the same thing to u later? he's a jerk, simple as that. sorry to be so frank, but its the truth.
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tell him that he can either break up with her and go out with you or you'll wait for him. what your doing is not right for you, him, or his girlfriend. don't do it. thats the only right thing to do.
hope i helped
~~StEf~~
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you should talk to him about who he really wants to be with. honestly. he needs to be with one person....and you need to know who it is. and so does he.
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If he is cheating on his girlfriend for you then how do you know he wouldn't do the same thing if y'all go out?
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Why can't you people understand when someone is going out with someone they're not going to break up because you want them to. The world doesn't revole around you.
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first of all, it is time to wake up. if you are kissing him and all, you are a booty call hunnie. i am sorry to put it so harshly, but i am sure his girlfriend loves him too, and he wouldn't be with her if he didn't feel the same way. does his girlfriend really deserve that? and most of all, do you deserve some sleeze that dates girls behind their back? i really think you can do better, move on before you and many others become hurt.
good luck hunnie,
PinkLady4863
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i think you have to know when is to far wait till they break up
luv Britt
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He can't just keep lying to her forever! This guy needs to break up with his girlfriend. If not, she will be hurt even more in the end!!
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let me ask you one question:
you let him kiss you?
he has a gf, you don't kiss a guy who is in a relationship! he says he likes you but is it really true or is he just getting bored with his gf? if he really wanted you all that badly he would have broken up with his gf already. so to me he is just making up an excuse and he's basically being a player. i say forget this guy and go seek out another one becasue this guy has you playing games and you don't deserve to be put down to his level. forget the guy and move on, i know it's hard but you need to he isn't worth all the hurt and pain!
*BeSs*
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No . You are putting his concern above yours . You are falling for this guy and he says he loves you and he says that he really wants to be with you . He must really love the other girl he's with because he won't break up with her just to be with you and he says he loves you . If he really and truly cares, then he wouldn't put you through this . No matter how much he doesn't want to hurt her, if he truly wanted to be with you then he would . Sorry if I sound like a total bitch, but I think you may be too in love with this guy and he's causing you to lose your wits about you . Yes he may care about you, but you really need to talk to him . Imagine if his girlfreind found you two making out , or heard it from one of her friends that you two were secretly together behind her back . It'd be treacherous and she'd freak . He has to be honest with her if he truly doesn't want to hurt her . Talk to him about this . If he doesn't take action maybe you should move on because things won't change . Maybe he thinks he can have you both . Well, whatever it is talk to him about it . Forgive me if I was a bit too rash bit I do really care . Oh, and HAVE A MERRY AND HAPPY CHRISTMAS AND ALONG WITH THAT A HAPPY AND VERY DEAR NEW YEAR .
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