There's this guy at my school that I really like, and think I am in love with (I have thought this for YEARS). But I'm afraid to start anything with him because he has kind of been the center of many jokes between me and my friends, and he's not exactly the hottest guy on earth lol. He is kind of short, in fact, I think I'm taller than him. But he's kind of cute in a way and I really like his personality. I know I could probably get a hotter guy, but for some reason I feel like he is the only one I could be happy with. But I am afraid of what my friends will think if I tell them I like him. So what should I do?
JyNxiE answered Tuesday December 21 2004, 3:17 pm: If they're really your friends they won't care. You need to be with people that make you happy, even if they're not the hottest on earth as you put it. AFter all, it's inside that matters, right? As long as you're happy, I dont think it matters what anyone else thinks.
DrummeR4LifE answered Monday December 20 2004, 11:59 pm: OMG who cares what your friends think! I mean suneralater you'll get married and you can't just get a hott guy if you dont love him! it just doesnt make sence. If you like the nerdy guy just go for him. You friends should support you in who you like... and if they dont then i dont think they know what they want. I'd go for him!
H.T.H.
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SeaWorldGirl61692 answered Monday December 20 2004, 10:49 pm: let me ask you one question. Why do you care what other people think about who you love?? Are you gonna let someone control your life?? I think you should go for it, because it's who you "love"!! If you let people control you, it's a huge mistake, trust me. If your friends give you a hard time, just shrug and say, whatever, i like him, he's cool. I don't wanna tell you what to do, but I really think you should give him a chance. [ SeaWorldGirl61692's advice column | Ask SeaWorldGirl61692 A Question ]
kris567 answered Monday December 20 2004, 10:40 pm: if you really like a guy go for it. it shouldnt matter what he looks like or what your friends think. its great that you like his personality and thats all you should care about liking.
SunShineAngel3 answered Monday December 20 2004, 10:15 pm: well who cares what other people think of him and if you like him go out with him i would! so just cuz of his looks and or height dont mind that and dont care if he is a dork they can be the nicest person in the world!!
~keely [ SunShineAngel3's advice column | Ask SunShineAngel3 A Question ]
precious84 answered Monday December 20 2004, 8:23 pm: if your friends are your real friends they won't say anything about it. That's what real friends would do. If you think you would be happy with him than go for it. [ precious84's advice column | Ask precious84 A Question ]
angelbabi91 answered Monday December 20 2004, 8:22 pm: if he's good enough for you than thats all that really matters isnt it? i mean if your friends are really your friends than they should support you no matter what! find out if he likes you and if he does then go for it!
hope i helped!
~Haley~ [ angelbabi91's advice column | Ask angelbabi91 A Question ]
Shortie8959 answered Monday December 20 2004, 7:56 pm: First off, don't worry about what your friends think. If they don't like, then who cares? Try talking to the guy when you're alone and be like, "My one friend thinks we'd be so cute together, what do you think about?" And if he says no, then leave it at that, and if he says yes, then there ya go! Just remember that it doesn't matter what other people think, only what you think. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
~*Erin*~ [ Shortie8959's advice column | Ask Shortie8959 A Question ]
l0stiNth0uGht020 answered Monday December 20 2004, 7:17 pm: Ignore your friends!! If you like him, go for him! It isn't your friends relationship, it's yours. You can like whoever you want and if they make fun of you for that, screw them! (Not to be taken literally, of course.) I hope I helped! [ l0stiNth0uGht020's advice column | Ask l0stiNth0uGht020 A Question ]
xShOrTiEx answered Monday December 20 2004, 7:09 pm: go for it, your friends can make fun of him, but you shouldnt care if they do. you like him~ he might like you. go for it! [ xShOrTiEx's advice column | Ask xShOrTiEx A Question ]
evap00ratingm000ses answered Monday December 20 2004, 6:48 pm: I think that you should give him a chance. My boyfriend isn't the cutest person in the world either. But, I got to know him when nobody else would pay any attention to him. And it turned out that i really started to like him. And I couldn't be any happier. You shouldn't care what other people think of you or him. Peer pressure is really hard, but there are really mean people in the world that can do stuff like make fun of you. So, what I'm saying is I strongly think you should tell you'r friends and find out if he's interested in you. I hope that everything works out for the best.
~evap00rating m000ses~ [ evap00ratingm000ses's advice column | Ask evap00ratingm000ses A Question ]
Tinkerbelle answered Monday December 20 2004, 6:31 pm: It doesn't sound like you're in love if you're afraid of what your friends will think.
But if you are, just talk to them. If they are your friends they'll be nice about it. You don't have to get the okay from your friends to get with a guy, so you don't even have to tell them anything. [ Tinkerbelle's advice column | Ask Tinkerbelle A Question ]
x0xJessicaX0x answered Monday December 20 2004, 5:50 pm: If your friends are really your friends they will expect the person you go out with. If you really like him! GO FOR IT ! and give the guy a chance.
hope i helped good luck with the decision! [ x0xJessicaX0x's advice column | Ask x0xJessicaX0x A Question ]
ixjacquixi answered Monday December 20 2004, 5:47 pm: Don't listen to what your friends say. Just listen to your heart, remember I am sure your have heard this a lot its not what is on the outside that counts its inside. He may not be a hottie but he is sweet and affectionate and if you reject him then some day down the road your gonna have a hot boyfriend who treats you like shit(sorry for the language) but its the truth. Then your gonna wish that you hadn't rejected this guy and your gonna hate yourself. So follow your instincts not your friends. XoJacXo [ ixjacquixi's advice column | Ask ixjacquixi A Question ]
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