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I am lost
My moms new boyfriend has a 13 year old daughter and she is the only one in the household that I can talk to, even though she is 3 years younger than me, she is very mature for her age. She is a great person and I talked to her about everything and we shared some great moments together. Here lately she has thrown me away, its like she doesnt want to be around me anymore. i feel like an inconvienence. I feel like there is no reason to stay here anymore, she is the one that gave me the courage to go on living! Now I want to die, just thinking that for some reason she hates me. I am a cutter and have attempted suicide several times in the past. i feel like I am a failure now and have no reason to live!
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Just because of one person, it's no worth your life. talk to her about this and see why she's ignoring you. good luck
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EVERYONE HAS A REASON TO LIVE. And trust me i lost a friend to suicide so don't go there. Ok first you need to ask her what her problem is, if she walks off then maybe you have done something mean to her or she found something about you. Did u do anything to her? Then we all know that at the age of 13 things are going around...you should know what i mean...every girl goes thru that...
hope this helps
xoxo aliya
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she is 13...one moment she is one way another..another way...please do not dispair over her..i know she seemed very mature..but in reality she is still a bit of a kid.
I am so sorry that you feel like life is not worth it. But it is...do you know that being a teenager is so hard..once you get out of HS..everything is better..and teh kids are better...it is just these last two years....that are tough...
You are not a failure..she is just a kid..who every few minutes canges her mind..
Did you ask her what was wwrong....or is she feeling overwhelmed by you??
do not give up...please....pleaseeeeeeeee
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go do it. i mean i but no one will miss u and who cares, its just life. im pro-suicide btw. i think its a great way to get rid of your problems in a way where they will never come back.
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Yes, you have reasons to live, never ever, ever, kill yourself. It hurts many people when someone dies. You probably have so much more to live for...foods, hobbies, friends, family, tv shows, the future *most important*, just try to talk to this girl and see what she says....S*tina
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well i think you should try and make new friends. like me i dont have the perfect life and i dont have many friends and i was treated like crap all my life. But i learned to deal with it. I no not all people aren't alike but u should try. i know its bad to make friends over the internet but i have. jus random people and they are so nice to me. i dont care about looks or anything, thats y i talk over the internet i dont c wut they look like like i only c wut that act like towards me.neways. i dont think you should kill urself, to many of my friends say they r and it puts me in tears. if you kill yourself that is just leaving your problems and making the ones you love deal with them, you would be surprised on how many people care about you. my friends mom talked to me about commiting suicide she said she took 50 pills of aspirin and she sat up in her bed for three days dying and her family didnt even care, when she lived she decided that she wasn't gonna kill herself because no one cared, she decided to live her life tryin to make wuts best. that is wut i really think and it is coming straight from my heart. i may not even no you but i care. I hope I helped you through this and let me no if it helped the way you feel a/b doind something regretful to urself. Rite bac and tell me if it helped.
"all my love'
Bree
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TELL HER EXACTALLY WHAT YOU SAID HERE...i am serious.. just tell her how much she means to you... but don't being up the cutting... tell her how much she means to you... that is about the only thing... i am sure you are over reacting... but still just tell her
kev
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You are not a failure. Nobody is a waste of time or anything like that. Ask her what's up and see what she says. She may seem mature but deep down inside she's still three years younger. Tell her that it's bothering you. Try and work some sort os system out. We hope we helped!!
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That's ridiculous-of course you are not a failure. You have to remember she is 3 years younger than you and although she acts mature she won't be as mature as you. I have a feeling that this might have something to do woth her Dad-I think she was used to having him all to herself but now she has to share him with you and your Mum. Perhaps she thinks that he is giving you more attention or something, and is jealous. Even if he isn't giving you more attention she probably feels quite fragile at the moment as its a new step for her as well as you but she probably hasn't spoken about it yet. You need to let her know how upset you are - either face to face or in a letter. Let her know that it is very difficult for you when you are being ignored like this and you really want to know what is going on. Say how much you value her friendship and I'm sure she will come round. At 13 she might not be used to confrontations so make it a good one and I'm sure everything will work out.
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HEY DONT THINK LIKE THAT! THERE ARE LOTS OF RESONS TO LIVE! OKAY WELL GO UP TO HER AND SAY__ HEY WATSUP WHAT IS THE REASON YOU ARENT TALKIN TO ME! TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL SO SHE WILL KNOW HOW IMPORTANT SHE IS TO YOU! i seriously think u should do that!
~ hope i helped~
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thats sad...
but mabe she is scared for you!
i mean mabe she doesnt want to hang around you cause of stuff like that just tlk to her about it.. and mabe u should stop cutting and mabe stop trying to commit suicide
then mabe she will start tlkin to u again,and wanting to hang around u
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hey hunny * ok maybe she is just worried or concerned about you. maybe you put too much pressure on her, or scared her? not saying that you did, just maybe. if i was you, instead of automatically putting yourself down for it, ask her about it or ask her if she wants to go out for dinner or lunch or something and then just ask why she doesn't seem to care anymore. maybe if you address the sudden change in feelings then she will open up to you and tell you whats on her mind! well i hope i helped. you can ask me anything if you need to! good luck and dont ever feel like a failure, im sure your a great person and im sure you shouldn't worry so much! *merry x*mas * :) X o * Brittany
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Everyone has a reason to live and if you're afraid she's mad at you talk to her just be calm with her and I'm sure things will work out.My nieces and nephews have been mad at me a few times they don't talk to me for a week.So if I'm worried I sit down and talk to them.But I'm guessing this isn't the same so try talking to her and if that doesn't work come to me again
-pinayprodigy
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hmmm.... maybe she was jus scared.. cuz maybe u SEEMED (not saying u did its just a possibility) put to much pressure on her.. sit her down and talk to her.. go shopping or go to the movies.. spend time together *hope i helped!* love alwaiiz, aLi *feedback is appreciated!*
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I think you should ask her why she doesnt talk to you any more or act like she wants to ba around her If you talk to her believe me
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