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Hey, I'm 14 (just turned)...People say i give really good advice..so i decided to join this sight..I mean i am constantly giving my friends advice why not help other people...I am good with mostly any kind of questions...maybe not techinal ones...to do with computers and stuff..lol..Well music is my life and i play bass...and yeah so..if u need help i'll be here*S*tina
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'i'm being sexually harrassed by this guy i know, and so is every other girl in myclass except for two. His sexual harrassment is getting me in troubel with some of my teachers. It's cometothe point that i'm afarid to be alone with him because i'm afaird of what he'll do to me. He's grabbed by breast slappmy ass, rubbed on my crotch and other things. he's messedwith other girls in my class but he seems to dothst tome the most.Lately he's stop but i'm afarid he might start up and do it again. I tell him what he's doingis wrong but he doesn't care.Iused to think of himas my friend untill it all started.Now i don'tknow what to do.
You need to tell your parents and principal about this. IF it goes any further it could turn into rape or something and i wouldn't want that to happen to you. So please tell someone...it's for your own good..best wishes S*Tina
okay so heres the thing.....i am really depressed, and i know it and so i cut myself....but not my wrists or anything just my legs and my ankles.......and i think about death alot, but not ohters just myself....what do you think i shuld do
Well, i think you need to talk to an adult about this or something. Remember sucide is never the answer to a temporary problem and if u commit sucide you will hurt many, many people. So try to think postive and just don't hurt yourself..please...hope i helped a bit...S*tina
okay I know this is random, but like I have really weird hair thats in between being curly or straight (but it doesnt look good lol) and I was wondering does anyone know anything that will make your hair straight or curly w/o too much use of a straightener or a curling iron? Thanks soo much! (Please dont delete!)
Well, my hair is kinda like that. And all i do to make it really curly is get it wet or just take a shower..then let it dry, so it's just a little wet then i flip my head over and put gel in my hair and squeeze different parts of my hair. To get it straight i just use a regular straightener
My moms new boyfriend has a 13 year old daughter and she is the only one in the household that I can talk to, even though she is 3 years younger than me, she is very mature for her age. She is a great person and I talked to her about everything and we shared some great moments together. Here lately she has thrown me away, its like she doesnt want to be around me anymore. i feel like an inconvienence. I feel like there is no reason to stay here anymore, she is the one that gave me the courage to go on living! Now I want to die, just thinking that for some reason she hates me. I am a cutter and have attempted suicide several times in the past. i feel like I am a failure now and have no reason to live!
Yes, you have reasons to live, never ever, ever, kill yourself. It hurts many people when someone dies. You probably have so much more to live for...foods, hobbies, friends, family, tv shows, the future *most important*, just try to talk to this girl and see what she says....S*tina
ok so i like this guy jake and he liked my friend Ashley. I would talk to him and tell him what she said about him and all. And basically Ashley hates Jake now because he lied to her about not going out with this other girl Brittney. I know that Ashley doesn't hate but she does really dislike him. but see i like Jake. And i really want to go out with him and flirt with him too. but if i go out with Jake then ashley is going to get mad and tell other people. That would ruin my rep. and maybe our friendship. I really like him but should i go out with him and continue to flirt with him?
Yes, flirt as much as you want. Obviously if she "dislikes him a lot" then he is not off limits to you. I would understand if she liked him, but since she doesn't, he's all yours. A true friend would understand, how much you like Jake and let you be with him....-S*tina
i need help im a guy and my hair is like out of control its super wavy and when i try to grow it out it compacts and wont go down how can i straighten it out or fix it please?
Try geling it down, or mousee works as well. Take some in your palm and push your hair downwards. Works best with gel when your hair is damp...hope i helped _s-tina
Hey! Ok: so I have hundreds of pictures in my a box in my room. I take a roll at every other week. My question is: How can I display them in my room (without frames) I have some along my mirror. But what is a cool way of hahging them up? Thanks so much!
Organize them on the wall and put them into a shape..like a heart and tape some on your door..hope i helped...s-tina
i cant focus- anyone have any good ideas how to??
try to do one thing at time and take breaks in between
I like this guy who is a musician...actually he's in three different bands. So, every weekend he has shows that he plays. Being supportive, I come to see him play, but since he's playing we hardly get to talk, and when we do he's worn out and tired. Our conversations are pretty much meaningless online , and I don't like to call guys- I wait for them to call me.
Lately he's seemed pretty distant. Is this a sign for me to back off, or is he waiting for me to make the first move?
ahh musicans...i have found myself in that same situation a million times. Yeah, just talk to him, because really there is nothing to loose. He could be waiting for you and or not, there's only one way to find out, IM him!
okay.. my b/f gave me a condom just in case we went a little too far one time.. and i kept it in a little compartment of my purse that no one really notices.. well when my b/f was over today.. my mom washed that purse! and i walked in the room.. and the zipper for the area was unzipped.. but the condom was still there!! ahh omg! what could i say to make my parents think i'm not having sex?! please answer this! i'll rate 5's to anyone that answers!
Just tell them the truth, it's always good
i was @ my friends house and i stole 40$ should i give it back, because she has no idea it was in her closet.
yes giving it back would be good
kay..i have had a crush on john for a couple of months. then on monday, he asked me out!! i was so happy!! everyone was talking about it!! i know that he smokes weed and pot,( he told me b/4 we were going out) but i still like him..... and when he gets drug tested for his athletics, if he fails it, everyone will think i am desperate. but i really like him.
i will rate HIGH
Just try to help him with his "drug" problem and you shouldn't care what other people with think of you, just be yourself
ahh i bite my nails!!! its a really bad habit! i do it when im not paying attention anyone have any tips for stopping?
just think of all the bacteria underneath ur nails and on your hands...and how many things that you have touched...before you bite...that will make u stop
when u go to the gyno i know that they can tell if your a virgin but can they tell if you masturbate too?
definitely not and sometimes they can't even tell if your a virgin.
Okay, I recently had sex and the next day I forgot to take my birth control. (We didn't use a condom and i've been using it for about 4 months) the day after that I forgot and for about the next week after that I didnt take it. Is there a good chance that I could be pregnet??
-Scared :(
Definitely a good chance you could be, just take a test and you will know for sure.
theres this guy and i really like him alot. and i think he likes me too. i dont know if i should wait till he asks me out or if i should ask him out. i really like him alot im like in love with him. what should i do? he seems to like me but im not sure if he likes me like i like him. should i take my chance and ask him out? or should i wait till he asks me out?
I have been in this stituation before. It turned out the guy didn't like me he was just giving me mixed signals, this really hurt me. So to be on the safe side, tell him how you feel and see what his response is.