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freaking out
okay.. my b/f gave me a condom just in case we went a little too far one time.. and i kept it in a little compartment of my purse that no one really notices.. well when my b/f was over today.. my mom washed that purse! and i walked in the room.. and the zipper for the area was unzipped.. but the condom was still there!! ahh omg! what could i say to make my parents think i'm not having sex?! please answer this! i'll rate 5's to anyone that answers!
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Just tell your mom that you had it just in case and that you aren't having sex. They will be happy to know that when you have sex you will have a condom to use. I think its great that your boyfriend gave it to you cause most guys dont want to have protected sex but you have a good bf! Anyway, I hope my advice helps you out! Good Luck with your mom!
If it was in your puse still she might not have seen it so unless she tells you she found it I wouldnt say anything unless you just really really want to explain it to her!
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did your mom see it? well if they ask i would say you just have it there for when your ready because you should always be prepared. if u need any help i.m me x0xrach3lann3x0x - rach and jill
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Tell then ur teacher gave it to everyone in the class cos u were bein taught sex education.
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Tell them the truth. If it was still there your mom understands your getting older and thinks that u were being responsible
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fart on them
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Just tell them the truth, it's always good
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You COULD tell your parents that the sex ed teacher handed them out. I'm not condoning lying to your parents. It would be nice if we lived in a world where you could say "The condom in my purse is from "boyfriend", just in case our relationship gets to the point that we're ready to become intimate"... but if your mom is anything like mine was... I'd go with something that would save my butt from grouding or worse.
Good Luck.
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tell her exactly what you just told me, she will understand. She will also probably be pleased that your being extra safe about everything. Tell her that it doesnt hurt to carry one around jst incase anything happens. xxx
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dont say ne thing unless she ask you! well say some thing about stuff that nothing to do with sex and make her happy
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dont say nothing unless she asked.. and if she does make up some lame excuse like it is my friends or my sisters.. or sumfin i dunno thats wut i would do and i did sumfin similar wen my mom found a pack of zig-zags in my purse..lol
i hope i helped
<3 shaina
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The best way is to sit your parents down *&* explain to them that you have no had sex yet. Tell them that you *&* your boyfriend are getting serious and you wanted to be responsible just in case things got too hott!
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Are you sure she saw it? Has she been acting more weirdly since she washed it? I don't know how old you are but if your parents really were worried about it they would have confronted you by now. If anything they should be pleased that you are showing your sensible side and having a condom in your wallet. You need to find out if she really did find it or not. And if they haven't confronted you then you have nothing to worry about.
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..its just a condom
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its very possible that your mother didnt see the condom at all. there's no need to panic. just ignore it for now, and if your parents ask you about it its important that you TELL THE TRUTH. their your parents. they love you. they'll understand. just be prepared for them to confront you. in the meantime, stay calm and focus on something else
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Don't say anything. If they think you are they will say something, or they might not mind it seeing as your using a condom and such. Also, when you wash your purses, sometimes the zippers move, or unzip rather. Maybe she didn't even notice anything. My purse has that too, and i put everything in there and non one ever notices.
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lol... well unfortunately i think you have to tell them, i mean depending on how old you are... will determine how much they'll freak out... you should tell them that you boyfriend gave it to you so that you will be protected from being impregnated and tell them that you haven't had sex yet.. and that you just wanted to be safe if it happens.. and after that you'll probably be given a very long speech on sex... so just take it and then go to your room
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Dont tell them quite yet they might of not of seen it just stay cool but if they get into your bussiness and you think they know just tell them the reason you have it
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either your mom will understand and relize if u are having sex..that u r using protected..which she will think is good...and if she does get mad says stick with the old "im holdin it for a fried" or we got free ones in healt class er suttin..lol x33 aMaNda
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well if your mom would of found it she would have said something to you, just dont worry about it. Im sure your mom would have said something if she found it
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Sweetie, CHILL!! Look, you can't assume that she SAW it.. maybe it just came unzipped in the wash. You never known though. If she asks you about it just say that you were out with some friends and you bought it as a dare but you just put it there for the mean time. Well, that worked for me anyways. You can always just play stupid and act like someone put it there as a sick joke & you had no idea about it. EX: "OH MY GOODNESS! I fell asleep in 2nd period today & (name) must have put it there!!" EX: "What is THAT?" Well.. you never know til you try! Best wishes! Steph
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tell them stuff like your friend just gave it to u as a joke and you put it in there and just forgot about it, and that you would never have sex because you have "morals", or that you and your boyfriend arent that serious, and that you dont even think that he wants to have sex either. just make up a bunch of excuses!
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Well, maybe you could make it a funny situation say to your parents that a friend of yours dared you to put it in ur purse to seee wut ur parents would say.
~Brina~
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Wow that sucks. Well this might not help now but you could say this "I didn't want you guys to get mad at me for this but you wanted to know the truth. I was walking down the hallway and some stupid guy that's a senior threw it at me so I just put it in my purse and forgot to throw it away... I'm not having sex I want you to know that because I respect myself and won't do that until marriage" You gotta stretch the truth a little or bend it a little... That has got to be embarassing. That happened to me so I just said that when I went to a concert some guy threw it at me and I forgot to take it out of my purse and throw it away. Next time, tell your boyfriend to keep one in his wallet and keep the wallet with him at all times. Hope this helped. Good luck.
EDIT*** They did buy it because I'm the good girl (so they think) and I'm good at covering things up. You have to be confident in saying it and not act nervous.
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well..technically...you were going too...
Sigh...tell your mom it was a just in case..that you HAVE not done anything..but you wanted to be safe not sorry....
No way to backtrack on this...hmmm...lay low for awhile..ok..
But they have to realize that yes one day you will have sex..it just not cool to advertise wiht wiht the condom in the wash..ah...man..i feel for you...so
No I am not having sex..but in case i do..i need to ..and USE this..PROTECT MY FUTURE..that is a good one..ok protect your future...
Ps keep your BC locked up from now on(but not in the car..it will melt!)
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Your parents should be glad that you have a condom on you at all times. I mean at least your not like some of the stupid girls in the world. getting knocked up and blaming it on the guy when its as much their fault as it is his. Just exsplain to your parents that you obviously have a boyfriend and you are keeping the condom with you just in case. Its not that your having sex but if you decide to do so you will be well protected. If your parents cant understand that reasoning than your parents are morons and i feel sorry for you. Hope i have helped.
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Right now, your still not sure if your mom saw it or not since she hasn't said anything...Yet...Maybe it opened on it's own in the washer?? You could tell your parents the truth. Your not having sex, but you have a condom just in case anything goes to far? Or you can tell them they were giving them away in school, teaching students to have protective sex?? (that's if your in high school)...Good luck!
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Just be honest with them, dont yell or make mean comments, if you are honest, and they can tell you are being honest.. then you will get further with explaining them the truth. Stand your ground and dont let them tell you what you did if you didn't do it!
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Look, don't worry! You just have to be truthful with your parents. Just tell them what really happened!! They should trust you!!
Hope I HELPED!! RATE ME PLEASE!!!
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just tell them "i know this looks suspicious, but i am NOT having sex, i swear!"
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Oh my...Just tell her that you and your friends were playing with them and one of them put one in your purse as a joke adn you forgot it was in there. And that they should have trust in you that your not having sex.
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OMG thats happened to me once too just say you got them passed out in health when you guys were learning about sex ed....or say that you were at the mall and they were handing free ones out at spencers!! if she freaks out tell her your not having sex and if you were atleast your being protected...and if she doesnt believe you tell her she can take you to the gyno to tell if youre having sex if she doesnt believe you...but if she asks just stay calm be like OHH haha the condom! they were passing them out at the mall outside of that one store called spencers! chances are she probly didnt even see it because the zipper could ahve came unzipped inside the washing machine
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Okay hun just breathe...
there may be a chance that she didnt see it.
But if she did see it, and if she asks you about it, just use the old excuse that you were holding it for a friend. Tell her that you know that you shouldnt have been holding it but you didnt want her to get in trouble if HER parents saw it. and just re assure her that you are still a virgin. Or just say that you got it from school when they were handing them out or something like that...
Hope i could help!
~Ashley
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Hey. Just say mom some kids at school were playin a joke on me and put one in my purse cause i am a virgin. But listen mom i will not have sex till i am married.
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well.. who washes purses? ha j/k tell your mom the truth.. but dont bring it up unless she does. and if your concious gets the best of you approach her. now if you really dont wanna tell her the truth, make up a story but dont let it get crazy. i have a mom that wants every detail, so dont make up some crazy plan.. cuz if you say a friend made it a joke, your mom might ask.. what friend. then you'll blurt out a name then next time your mom see's that friend... your gonna get nervous, and you might get caught. so dont go over board..but keep in mind.. truth come first.
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say its just in case, and you havent done it before, and hope they believe you
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Tell your parents the truth say this:
"Mom I have a condom in my purse and I want you to know this because i want to feel that we can tell eachother anything, the reason for this is, because just incase i ever think about having sex. I want to be protected at all times! Please trust me" Or if your parents are over protective then just say it was a friend of yours
but think about the truth first
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Just tell them that someone gave it to you as a gag gift or that you had it just in case anything would ever happen. Are you sure your parents even saw it.. and if they did i wouldnt say anthing to them about it unless they asked you. But def. throw that condom away now because if it went through the wash it isnt good anymore and you shouldnt keep them in your wallet/purse because they are more likely to get holes in them!
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Well.. just dont mention it unless she mentions it
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dont tell you parents unless they actually ask. if they do, then be absolutely honest and say you have it just incase and you would never want to go unprotected, and thet your not active. if your parents are nice, they should understand and trust you! hope i helped.
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just tell them that someone was playing a trick on you and put it in there...act like you didnt even know it was there! and if they dont beleaive you just be like "oh my gosh what ever if you dont believe me then i dont know what to tell you" or something like that or just tell them the truth! hope i helped
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